12/02/2022
Good morning ma!
Good morning my fellow mommy's
Pls ma post for me nd hide my ID
I need it advice mum's my story goes like this!
Is about my husband, the way him nd his family treated me has been killing my soul, i gave birth to my first son nd he died then after 3 months i took in again 8 months later i nearly has miscarriage but i was admitted in the hospital for 3 weeks nd some days, then 9 months my doctor said that if i don't want to lose my baby i should delivered through CS which i did to save my son's life, i suffered everything alone no help my husband did not brought my mum for omugwu due we live outside nija then after 1 yr nd 3 months we went to village for my greatest surprised my husband turn his back on me nd join his family to plan evil things against me, they took away my son without telling me where he was, he left me in the villa refused to answer my calls even my mum's call he ignored nd my sisters them, I later fail sick i called him he ignored i text him he ignored after a week i recovered b4 i knew it someone called me from outside nd told me that he saw my husband she asked why didn't we follow him came back i told her we will be staying for months b4 coming back. He later come back after 2 months i asked him where is my son nd he told me to stop asking about my son that he's doing fine where he's" after all motherless children 're doing well without their mum i asked him y is he referring to with motherless babes he called me a fool then my dad was threatening me when i asked for a divorced, i later went back was trying to reach my son, i thought everything was over then they planned again nd took me back to my parents he seized my phone's clothes nd other things then when i went back to collect my clothes cuz he took me back with nothing on my greatest surprised he changed the padlock so i couldn't enter but his senior bro was around i waited for him to come back but he slept outside the next morning i left later he came back nd asked me to give him all the key to the huz which i did but he later brought my bad to my parents but there's no good clothes in that bad only rags after a month i called him with my mum phone he told me to come that he want us to go night vigil while my dad refused to pay back my dowry so i went after 3 days one woman that called her God's servant ordered him to burnt my clothes which he did. I continued playing along just to see my son then we went back to lag he later bring back my son he never give me my phone's oo then we all went back to base i taught he will changed or apologized towards what he did but no instead he told me all he did was for my own good i was surprised nd i kept quite b4 i knew it the result showed that am pregnant after 9 months i put to bed with CS again but he never bother to bring my mum so i suffered alone he doesn't help. This man never give me money to buy food stuff, clothes, underwear, pad etc.. instead he does that him self, if i ask him for money he will tell me that i don't need any money that he bought everything for me but if i need anything i should tell him so he can buy it hmmm I am so ashamed of myself cuz he doesn't treat me like a married woman or value anything i do, he told me i don't deserved anything good from him, he take decisions alone without telling me, he sometimes go out without telling me where he's going, sometimes he came back by 1,12,11,10 if i ask he will call me a fool by keeping silent . So what make me to seek for a divorce this time is that last 3 weeks i confronted him the way he press phone he beat me threatening to hit me if i confront him again nd this is 2 times he beat me, the way he press phone even when we're sleeping he will wake-up in the middle of night nd started chatting if i ask he will call me a fool he never apologized whenever he does something wrong rather he will put the blame on me then i aspected the blame nd call him for peace but he feel like I'm begging him to marry me, he never come around or call for peace rather he call his family nd complain to them even to his friends discussing me with them. Now i need a divorce cuz i can not continue like this, since he beat me cuz of phone he has been giving me silent attitude waiting for me to come nd apologize to him but i told him never will i apologize again for his wrong doing, till now we don't communication through phone for a yr nd some months cuz he seized my phone, i just bought this phone am using without his noticed just to communicate with my parents nd siblings, i hide it when he come back, is not that i can not bring it out to his face but just giving him respect. So am writing these to u my fellow mum's did u support me to divorce or stay nd suffer in the name i marriage? Sorry for long post plzzzz
