11/07/2025
DONT MARRY TO COMPLEMENT ~ Law
If you are yet to choose a partner, don't choose any character directly opposite yours. If you are dating anyone now and intend to get married, check if you're the same, if not, save yourselves of future crisis.
I may be wrong but If you are not educated as an instance, don't marry very educated person because you want to complement your illiteracy with education. You wont think alike, you wont believe the same thing, your mentality wont be the same, the way you see things or approach issues will be totally different, and these are the major causes of misunderstandings in marriage.
You may think it will help you to marry an educated person if you are not, but it will harm you more than it will help you. Its better to train your children in school to be that educated that you are not. Dont take this for granted.
If you are a serious minded person, decent, coordinated, sane, cool, calm and collected, dont marry an unserious minded person, playful, noisy, lousy, indecent and what I call "mad" person. You may think her opposite nature will complement yours but it's not true. It will do you more harm than help. What you have value for will definitely be different, what you love will also be different.
You will be irritated by things that are delightful to your partner. When one is saying Wow!, another will be saying Gosh! You will misunderstand each other and it's either crisis erupts or individualism becomes inevitable.
If you believe that God exists, if you are a born again, and a lover of the invisible God, dont marry an atheist or someone who doesn't believe there is God, or who doesn't believe in an unseen God. Dont marry to complement yourself. Dont say you need someone that will be praying for you because in some circumstances, that prayer will irritate you.
When you believe in a doctor, your partner may be believing in a pastor, and that will bring no small misunderstanding. Use these three examples to test run every other example unmentioned here for your own good. DON'T MARRY TO COMPLEMENT, MARRY TO FULFIL YOURSELF.
Thanks for reading and sharing.
