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26/04/2025

“In a world where faith, family, and forgiveness collide, can two sisters heal the past and embrace the future?"Olivia seems to have it all—luxury, love, and...

26/04/2025

Please advise this young lady

"I'm 27 years. Actually, I've been dating our Parish Priest for over 2 years now, & he has been of great help to me.

Even his sisters even know about us. He told me that he would soon leave Priesthood & get married to me, which encouraged me to accept him. However, Our problem started when I told him I missed my period, then he said I should wait. After 3 weeks, he gave me money, saying I should go to the hospital & ãbøt, but I took the money & never did what he asked cuz I am afraid of abøtn..

I told him that I cannot do it but, he got angry, saying that I want to ruin his name in the mud, & that if I don't abort, I should forget about him.

Please🙏🏼😭
I am getting to 3 months now, & he is avoiding me. I do really love this man with all my heart, & i also do not want to have a child without a father for the second time. I do not want to abort either. Please help me. I desperately need guidance to take the right decision."

22/04/2025

MOVIE REVIEW: BROKEN HALLELUJAH
Duration: 2hrs 27mins
Watch here: https://youtu.be/modAD9y-9Tw?si=aefg7uxiF2DDaSMq

Some films are made to entertain.
Others come with a message that speaks to hidden wounds.
Broken Hallelujah is one of those rare ones that connects with the heart in a quiet but powerful way.

This movie explores love, heartbreak, and the silent battles people carry. It follows two people whose love was once full of promise, but circumstances, betrayal, and life’s unexpected turns pushed them apart. As they navigate their pain, they are forced to confront the parts of themselves that still need healing.

What touched me most was how real it felt. The emotions were not exaggerated. The silence, the tears, the inner struggle — they all mirrored the kind of emotional scars we talk about on this page.

It’s not a perfect love story. It’s a healing story. One that reminds us that even in our brokenness, there is still value, there is still hope, and there is still a chance for restoration.

If you have ever trusted someone and felt disappointed, if you’ve ever struggled to forgive or to move on, please watch this movie. Let it speak to the parts of you that words have not been able to reach.

When you finish watching, come back here. Let’s reflect on it together.

20/04/2025

SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN SAVED, BUT HER HUSBAND SAID NO...
True Life Story

When Amaka went into labor with her second baby, she was so excited and hopeful she would deliver safely, just like she did with her first child.

She had labored at home for hours before one of her neighbours, who noticed she was in distress, rushed her to the hospital.

At the hospital, the doctors quickly realized something was wrong.
The baby was in distress already, and Amaka’s blood pressure had gone dangerously high.
The only way to save her and the baby was an emergency C-section.

“We need your husband’s consent,” the nurse said to Amaka.

The hospital called him. He arrived 40 minutes later, sweating and visibly afraid.
But when they handed him the consent form, he froze.

His 3 major fears were:

1. “We don’t have money for surgery. Can’t she just push the baby herself?”

2. “I’ve heard stories of women dying during CS. I don’t want to lose my wife.”

3. “Our church doesn’t believe in CS. We believe in divine intervention.”

Despite several hours of pleading from the medical team, Amaka's family, and even other patients in the ward he refused to sign the form.

He kept asking for time.
Time… that Amaka didn’t have.

After about five hours of delay, Amaka went quiet and cold.
Her breathing slowed.
The baby’s heartbeat had already vanished from the fetal monitor.

The doctors rushed her into surgery without his consent under the doctrine of necessity.
But by the time they got into the theatre, it was already too late.

The baby was gone. Amaka was gone too.
Just like that.

But now comes the question no one wants to ask out loud…

Will her husband ever come out of this trauma?

Because while Amaka died that day he didn’t.
And now, he lives with a weight no one can measure:

The silence of an empty room.

The echo of "if only I had…"

The haunting replay of nurses begging, of people shouting, of his wife’s eyes slowly closing.

He lost his child.
He lost his wife.
But more painfully he lost the chance to make it right.

And the world will judge him.
But he, too, is grieving… quietly. Regretfully. Eternally.

Let this be a wake-up call.
Consent should never be a barrier to emergency care.
Ignorance, fear, and blind doctrine should never cost lives.
And silence around male grief and guilt should not continue.

Rest in peace, Amaka.
Rest in peace, little one.
May your story save another.

20/04/2025

Christ is Risen

Today is Easter

The day that reminds us pain doesn’t have the final say

Jesus was betrayed
He was broken
He was bruised in places no one ever expected the Son of God to bleed

But on the third day
He rose

Not without scars
Not without a story
But with proof that even when life breaks you open
You can rise again

This is what healing looks like

You may still feel the sting
You may still carry what they did to you
But resurrection is possible

You are allowed to rise
You are allowed to heal
You are allowed to live again, even with the scar

Happy Easter
From HealingScarsWithNurseAmaka
We rise in pain, we rise in faith, we rise in healing

20/04/2025

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20/04/2025

What does healing look like to you—personally?

Is it setting boundaries without guilt?
Is it learning to smile again after months of holding back tears?
Is it choosing peace over proving a point?
Or simply surviving each day without falling apart?

I’m asking because healing doesn’t look the same for everyone.
And this space is about truth, not perfection.
So tell me what does healing look like in your life right now?

Your story could help someone else feel seen.
Let’s talk in the comments.

20/04/2025

“You don’t have to pretend today.”
Some of us are exhausted from performing strength.
Smiling Laughing Acting like nothing hurts.

But here’s your permission slip:
It’s okay not to be okay.
You are allowed to feel.
You are allowed to rest.
You are allowed to just be.

20/04/2025

20/04/2025

Functional Depression is a Silent Struggle.
It’s the kind of pain that wears a smile.
The type that laughs out loud, shows up to work, posts happy pictures
…but cries in silence.

Functional depression is real.
You may look like you’re doing fine. But inside?
You’re exhausted. Disconnected.
Losing interest in things you once loved. Struggling to concentrate.
Smiling on the outside, aching on the inside.

You use busyness to numb it
Work. Hobbies. Socializing.
Anything to escape the quiet heaviness that follows you home.

But listen…
You are not alone.
You don’t have to keep pretending.
You don’t have to keep hurting in silence.

Here’s what healing can look like:

– Open up to someone you trust (even if your voice shakes)
– Speak kindly to yourself, your inner voice matters
– Find joy in the small things (even if it feels hard)
– Reconnect with activities that once gave you life
– Prioritize your emotional and physical care

You don’t need to earn rest.
You deserve happiness. You deserve peace.
Take one brave step today toward healing.

20/04/2025

💙 Healing | Resilience | Self-Love
Scars tell stories not of pain, but of survival. This is a space to embrace healing, mental wellness, and self-acceptance. You are more than your scars. Let’s heal together. 💙