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23/04/2025

# Encouragement Wednesday #
That child of yours who didn't do 'well' academically last term needs some words of encouragement from you.
You might not have seen her result for last term. But irrespective of her performance, she needs encouragement from you as the parent.
Beating, insulting, starving him of food, deprivation, and every other kind of punishment which you have meted / or plan to carry out on your child as a result of her Academic performance, won't transform her automatically.
Here are my suggestions;
1. Praise her for going to school ( she didn't skip school) and sitting for the exam.
2. Reassure him that you love him irrespective of his academic performance. Why should your love be conditional?
3. Identify the root cause(s) behind the poor performance. It could be a poor reading habit, the friends she follows in school, sight difficulty, compression difficulty, fear, home environment, etc.
4. Start early. Those who won gold medals started training 4 years before the next Olympics.
5. Stop using negative remarks and self- defeating words at your child. Words are powerful, and they become more potent when they come from the parents.
6. Start seeing your child the way you want him to be. There is power in visualisation.
I hope this helps.
I just wanted to share this with you.
If you find it meaningful, please like, leave a comment, and share.
Stay blessed.
To your parenting success.
Oghifo Orhome.

NB: A child might be poor in Maths, Science, English language, etc, but greatness lies beneath his heart.

18/04/2025

How many of you would love to see your kids get along better with their siblings, follow your instructions without constant reminders, and genuinely embrace the values you hold dear?"

17/04/2025

There are special ways to use attention to develop (increase) a particular good behaviour which you want your child to portray.

19/10/2024

Happy weekend to you.
When teaching your child about honesty, establish a culture that encourages, praises, and values honesty in the home. When your child knows how much value is placed on honesty, he tends to work towards it.

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03/08/2024

HAPPY WEEKEND, FAMILY AND FRIENDS.
Below are two questions for today.
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kids make choices using foresight.
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20/07/2024

Happy weekend, family and friends. I presume your weekend is going on well.
Continuation from the last post.

I was taken aback by the way Chinedu reacted. ‘Why did he walk away angrily?’ I asked myself. I had presumed that by narrating the story of Uche to him, he would have a rethink of his way of life and make adjustments. But how wrong I was.
The next day, in the evening, after I left the office, I went to look for Chinedu. “Chinedu, my friend, how far now?” I greeted warmly as I approached him by his usual spot near the market stalls.

He barely looked up. “Bros, wetin you wan talk again?”

“I wan talk about your future, Chinedu. I see plenty potential for you, but this way you dey go no be am.”

Chinedu sighed heavily, clearly irritated. “Bros, leave matter abeg. I sabi wetin I dey do.”

“Listen, my friend. Remember Uche? Him story fit teach you something. He face plenty wahala before he change him way.”

Chinedu’s face darkened, and he abruptly stood up, pushing his wheelbarrow away. “Bros, I no wan hear that story again. I dey go!” he shouted, leaving me stunned and worried.
A week later, I went to look for Chinedu again. As I approached the group of wheelbarrow boys, I called out, “O boy, una see Chinedu?”

One of the boys, Emeka, turned to me. "Senior, Chinedu don travel o. Him talk say he dey go see one of him distant relatives for another state.”

I frowned, concern creeping into my voice. “Una sabi why he travel? Wetin he go do there?”

Emeka shrugged. “He no tell us anything, Senior. He Just pack him things waka go.”

A sense of foreboding settled over me, but I tried to dismiss it. “Maybe na good thing. I go still pray for am,” I muttered, moving on to reach out to the other boys.
One month later, on a Wednesday morning, I saw a commotion in the market. A small crowd had gathered, and in the middle sat a young boy on the ground, bruised and battered. My heart raced as I pushed through the throng.

“Who be this boy?” I asked a familiar face in the crowd.

“Na one small thief. Dem say he don dey run since he steal goods three weeks ago. E come back here yesterday, and dem catch am.”

I looked at the boy, relieved it wasn’t Chinedu but heartbroken all the same. “Why we dey treat our pikin like this?” I lamented. “This boy need help, not beating.”
I had to leave the scene, seeing that there was nothing much I could about it. But I only prayed within me that the boy, and other boys like him, would find the saviour.
One evening, as I walked through the market, I saw Emeka again. “Emeka, any news about Chinedu?” I asked, hopeful for some good news.

Emeka shook his head. “Senior, nothing yet. But we dey pray make him dey okay.”

I nodded. “Thank you, Emeka. We must continue to pray and hope for his safety.”
Four weeks later, as I was returning from the office in the evening, I saw Chinedu sitting alone by the market edge, looking worn and weary.

“Chinedu!” I called out, rushing to his side. “Where you don go? We dey worry about you.”

Chinedu looked up, his eyes filled with a mix of exhaustion and regret. “Bros, I no know where to start. The journey no be as I think. I see plenty things, bad things.”

I placed a hand on his shoulder. “Thank God you dey alive. Come, make we talk. You need rest and support.”
As we began to talk he opened up. “Bros, I follow wrong people. Dem promise me plenty, but na lie. I suffer well well.”

I listened intently, feeling his pain. “Chinedu, God still love you. No matter wetin don happen, you fit change. You fit start anew.”

Tears welled up in his eyes. “I wan change, Bros. But I no know how.”

“We go do am together,” I assured him. “Step by step. You no dey alone.”
One day, as I was going for an engagement in the morning, Chinedu ran to me. “Bros, thank you for no giving up on me. I go use my life to help others too.”

the story continues #
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19/10/2023

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