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22/09/2022

"Sir can friends look into this matter for me. My husband and I live in different countries for now, because of work, 4 months ago we had some serious argument on the phone and and in the process, I told him that I am overworked with the children, he also repeated back that he is also overworked.

This got me angry and I hung up. He tried to call me for three days , and he also sent me some messages, and I did not reply, I stayed like that not talking to him, then after 2 months I sent him just a message on an unrelated issue, he ignored my message, after another month, I sent him another message, he also ignored. It has been 4 months now we have not spoken to each other.

Now my younger sister is getting married, and she informed him about the marriage, he spoke and advised her ( this was about a month ago ) although I did not tell him by myself about the marriage. After about one month, my sister also called him to inform him that her fiancee' wants to speak with him, but he refused, he gave my sister the excuse that it was not proper, for him to speak with her fiancee' because he said that I have not told him anything about the marriage, therefor he can not relate further with my sister as per the marriage.

Was it out of respect that he even called my sister initially to advice her. Please what do I do ?

21/09/2022

MARRIAGE ALSO NEEDS MAINTENANCE !

Some people think when you marry that's it. No, when you buy a car and don't maintain it rest assured it will breakdown on you on the highway .

Look for ways to oil every part of your marriage . Oil the parts that are having friction. Discuss and solve the problems causing issues with the intention to forgive not with the mindset of finding fault.

Next time there is an issue don't become an Android Reminder to always bring up old and settled matters to the table. Deal with the present issue .

Don't discuss disrespectfully. Any verbal insults during misunderstanding shows a spouse who wasn't prepared for marriage.

Forgive Forgive Forgive. You didn't marry an angel but a human being so differences in approach will definitely cause friction. Forgive and let go.

May you enjoy your marriage and if you are single may God give you a God-fearing soul mate in Jesus Name.

20/09/2022

A relationship does not fix itself. People fix relationships. Whether it'll succeed or fail, it's up to you. If you want your relationship to succeed, fix it now!

A toxic person would create a toxic relationship. Sometimes the problem is not the marriage, but rather the problem is the person in the marriage.

Fix yourself and your marriage will be fixed.

20/09/2022

One of the most potent secrets to your marital breakthrough is COMMUNICATION.

Learn to do this without throwing blames.

If you know you're not ready, please don't get married.

A good marriage is about responsive COMMUNICATION.

20/09/2022

Everyone deserves to be happy. Everyone deserves to live a stress free life. Everyone deserves true love and a peaceful relationship. When we work together, we can achieve that.....
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HARDCORE TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE !!!1. There is nothing that threatens the security of a wife than the thought of another w...
17/09/2022

HARDCORE TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE !!!
1. There is nothing that threatens the security of a wife than the thought of another woman competing for the attention and affection of her husband. Nothing is more painful. Nothing is more disrespecting. Nothing is more insulting. Nothing is more belittling and degrading.

2. Marriage flourishes when the couple works together as a team; when both husband and wife decide that winning together is more important than keeping score. Good marriages don't just happen. They are a product of hard work.

3. Your children are watching you and forming lasting opinions on love, commitment, and marriage based on what they see in you. Give them hope. Make them look forward to marriage.

4. Husbands: The reason why other women look attractive is because someone is taking good care of them. Grass is always green where it is watered. Instead of drooling over the green grass on the other side of the fence, work on yours and water it regularly. Any man can admire a beautiful woman, but it takes a true gentleman to make a woman admirable and beautiful.

5. When a husband puts his wife first above everyone and everything except God, it gives his wife the sense of security and honor that every wife hungers for.

6. A successful marriage doesn't require a big house, a prefect spouse, a million dollars or an expensive car. You can have all the above and still have a miserable marriage. A successful marriage requires honesty, undying commitment and selfless love and Jesus at the center of it all.

7. Pray for your spouse every day; in the morning, in the afternoon and at evening. Don’t wait until there is a problem. Don’t wait until there is an affair. Don’t wait until something bad happens. Don’t wait until your spouse is tempted. Shield your spouse with prayer and cover your marriage with the fence of prayer.

8. The people you surround yourself with have a lot of influence on your marriage. Friends can build or break your marriage; choose them wisely.

9. One spouse cannot build a marriage alone when the other spouse is committed to destroying it. Marriage works when both husband and wife work together as a team to build their marriage.

10. Don't take your spouse for granted. Don't take advantage of your spouse's meekness and goodness. Don't mistake your spouse's loyalty for desperation. Don't misuse or abuse your spouse's trust. You may end up regretting after losing someone that meant so much to you.

11. Beware of marital advice from single people. Regardless of how sincere their advice may be, most of it is theoretical and not derived from real life experiences. If you really need Godly advice, seek it from God-fearing, impartial and prayerful mature couples whose resolve has been tested by time and shaped by trials.

12. Dear wife, Don't underestimate the power of the tongue on your marriage. The tongue has the power to crush your marriage or build it up. Don't let the Devil use your tongue to kill your spouse's image, self-confidence & aspirations. Let God use your tongue to build up your marriage and bless and praise your spouse.

Yours shall be a successful, heaven on earth marital bliss. Share this with your married friends. We all learn everyday.

What scares you most when you think of marriage?
15/09/2022

What scares you most when you think of marriage?

You don't have to be rich to be romantic.All it takes is a little effort to show her that you really care. 🥰🥰
15/09/2022

You don't have to be rich to be romantic.All it takes is a little effort to show her that you really care. 🥰🥰

DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.Marry now with the...
15/09/2022

DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans.

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your
happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down. God can change your life in a blink, with a good and Focus

May God give you more understanding

14/09/2022

Date someone who listens to you.

Date someome who wants you to become a better person.

Date someone who looks at you like you're the best thing that's happened to them.

Date someone because you actually want to be with them and not because of lonliness.

Date someone who doesn't use you as an escape from their problems, instead they solve their own problems and help you solve yours.

Date someone who waters you daily.

Date someone who doesn't play games with you.

Relationships are never easy.Some days you're going to wakeup and that love you know youhave for the person in the bedne...
14/09/2022

Relationships are never easy.
Some days you're going to wake
up and that love you know you
have for the person in the bed
next to you, isn't going to come
so easily. We always say, "no one
told us it was going to be this
hard," but they did. We choose
not to listen because it seems so
unreasonable that one day, you
will find yourself doubting your
love for that person. The only
way you can make a relationship
last is if you work at it every
single day, and never give up on
it. Because if you fight and argue
and quarrel with that person and
still can't imagine leaving them,
then you love them. And that's
the kind of love that's forever.

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