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Relationship Facticity, Plot 16 Chief Agana Street Thinker's Corner, Enugu (2025)

09/10/2025

HE WHO IS SLOW TO ANGER IS BETTER THAN THE MIGHTY.

A dog was so loyal to a woman so much that he left his baby with him and went for a quick run. She always returns to find the boy soundly asleep with the dog. One day something tragic happened.
The woman, as usual, left the baby in the hands of this faithful dog and went shopping.

When he returned, he discovered a horrific scene, and there was total disaster. The baby wasn't in his crib, his diapers and his clothes were in pieces, with blood stains all over the bedroom. In shock, the frightened woman began looking for the baby. Suddenly he saw the faithful Dog emerge from under the bed, covered in blood everywhere licking his mouth as if he had just finished a delicious meal.

The woman was convinced the dog had eaten her baby. Without thinking much about it, she beat the dog to death with a wood. Then the investigation continued to at least find part of his son's body. Soon she leaves another scene. Behind the bed was the well-formed baby who was naked and had fun on the carpet. Under the bed the woman discovered the body of a snake that had been torn apart. It was a fierce battle between the snake and the dog. The dog fought to protect the baby from the ravenous snake. It was too late for her now to make peace because, in her impatience and anger, she had killed the faithful dog.

How often do we judge people with harsh words and spread lies about them before taking time to evaluate the situation?.

"Always be patient to access the situation and avoid unconditional mistakes that can bring us down."

"Whoever is slow to anger has great understanding, but he who has a hasty temper exalts folly." "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." "A hot-tempered man stirs up strife, but he who is slow to anger quiets contention."

He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty,
And he who rules his spirit, is better than he who captures a city. Proverbs 16:32

07/10/2025

I just made a post about the need to stop Big Brother Naija and it has drew the attention of many, some in favour while some against. A comment caught my attention 100%.

Sọnwa wrote,
“Let's break down something real quick.

1. MTN Project Fame started 2008 and ended in 2016. That was the year I graduated from secondary school. This was a show that enabled Iyanya, Chidinma, Praiz and Niniola and equally contributed to the rise of Afropop, giving structure to the Nigerian music scene. I will explain.

Many of us did know that Nigerian music was vibrant but we didn't know how disorganized it was. There were no consistent platforms to groom raw talent into professional musicians. Most artists struggled with exposure, training, mentorship, and funding. In fact, success depended heavily on luck or being discovered by chance. But MTN project fame came in and showed young Nigerians that music could be a serious career path.
Unfortunately, this show dissappeared after the last episode in 2016.

2. Maltina Dance All began in 2007 and also dissapeared in 2016. This was a weekend show just as MTN project fame and it promoted unity by having families compete together. This was a show that embraced and showcased Nigerian cultural dances and blended them with modern styles of dance steps. Our indigenous styles were preserved on national TV. If this show had continued to this day, our nation could have been the global hub for dance export compared to the level we are, today. We could have used this system as a means to expose and preserve a cultural memory among younger generations across all trybes who now mostly know only TikTok dance challenges.
Unfortunately, this show dissappeared after the last episode in 2016.

3. Who Wants to Be a Millionaire started in 2004 and ended in 2017, resurfaced in 2022 and finally disappeared thereafter. It was a show that promoted reading, general knowledge, and love for quiz culture among many Nigerians; children and adults. This show gave average citizens the chance to become millionaires from intelligence.
Funny it was, ''is that your final answer?" became part of Nigerian slang. It was clear from this show that knowledge can be as rewarding as talent or entertainment. Unfortunately, this show is no longer airing in 2025.

4. Gulder Ultimate Search began in 2004 and ended in 2014 and was briefly revived in 2021 but dissappeared entirely after the last episode, that same year. Physical fitness became a value with the advent of GulderUltimateSearch. Mental strength, and teamwork were seen as qualities to embrace. Aside these, we perceived the beauty of our Nigerian forests, rivers, and landscapes. The show produced and rewarded winners like Kunle Remi, and Dominic Mudabai, alongside others who showed resilience, mental strength and teamwork. Unfortunately, the show is no longer talk about.

5. Big Brother Naija first appeared in 2006 and dissappeared. They relaunched in 2017. By 2017, MTN project fame, Maltina Dance All, Who Wants to Be a Millionaire and Gulder Ultimate Search have all dissappeared or were struggling to remain. Few managed to come back but lacked sustainable audience/market drive, and consequently faded out till today.

Ever since then, Big Brother Naija has become an annual reality show that got Nigerians glued 24/7 to their home Tvs/smartphones. It is arguably the biggest social media conversation driver in Nigeria. Every season dominates Twitter, Instagram and TikTok with debates, fan wars and hashtags. The show thrives on romance, fights, ambitions and struggles. These are the spice that Big Brother Naija came in with. Then, our perception of TV reality show shifted from Talent and Intelligence to lifestyle and personality.

Conclusively, notice that from 2004 to 2016, Nigeria was the capital of unique reality TV shows; MTN Project Fame gave us musicians who defined Afropop, Maltina Dance All preserved our cultural dances and promoted family unity, Who Wants to Be a Millionaire made knowledge a pathway to wealth, and Gulder Ultimate Search built resilience, adventure, and love for our natural heritage.

One by one, these shows faded away. Have we moved on?
Big Brother Naija unlike the rest, did not ask for talent, intelligence, or cultural heritage. It only needed lifestyle and personality. Drama, romance, gossip, and ambition, infact anything that Nigerians can debate daily on social media. And since then, it has remained the last reality show standing, dominating conversations every now and then, each year.

My big question is this: Since we traded talent, culture, knowledge, and resilience for lifestyle drama, have we moved forward, or have we only embraced the show that entertains us the most, while letting go of the ones that could have built us the most?

A wise man has added his voice also, I thought I was alone.”

07/10/2025

Don’t waste your energy trying to pull people out of a lifestyle they don’t want to leave.

07/10/2025

Any man can prove that he can do better than your boyfriend and win. The guy is aware there is a man in your life and you have probably told him how unhappy you are or about the things that are annoying or irritates you about your boyfriend. It’s easy for the new guy to play his cards correctly and win because he'll be working on corrections. He will therefore, tell you what you want to hear and treat you the way you want to be treated because he is aware of what you want.

Sadly, that won't last long. Don't be fooled by the treatment he is giving you now. You are still not with him yet. There is a huge difference between being pursued and being loved. A man on a mission will appear as a God sent.
One thing you should know is that men dont mind spending on lust. They don't mind going an extra mile. He can do anything to get what he want or to get you to bed.

Men are hunters by nature. My advice is, don't give another man an opportunity to try you. Instead, help your man to understand what you want and how you want to be loved. Remember, healthy and successful relationships aren't found but made.

21/09/2025

Heartwarming story of true sacrifice...

20/09/2025

80% OF DIVORCES ARE FILED BY WOMEN—AND MEN STILL GET BLAMED AS THE QUITTERS

Here’s the brutal truth: four out of five divorces aren’t filed by men. They’re filed by women. Yet when the dust settles, when the papers are signed, and when the kids start carrying backpacks between two houses, the finger still points at the man. Society still says: “He quit.” But the facts tell a story most refuse to face.

1. Men don’t leave—they endure. A man will stay in a dead marriage long after the intimacy, respect, and warmth have vanished. He’ll sleep in silence, eat disrespect, and swallow rejection because he knows what’s at stake—family, legacy, stability. That isn’t quitting. That’s sacrifice.

2. Women walk away—and call it “growth.” The modern script rewards abandonment. She doesn’t call it quitting, she calls it “I’m unhappy,” “I’ve outgrown him,” or “I deserve better.” But vows said “for better or worse.” Boredom was never grounds for betrayal. “Finding yourself” shouldn’t mean destroying your family.

3. The courts reward the leaver. There’s a reason women file first. Custody leans their way. Child support flows their way. Assets split in their favor. Divorce isn’t just about broken hearts—it’s about incentives. And the system pays her to leave.

4. Men get branded as failures. Even when he didn’t file, even when he fought until his soul bled, society still brands him the quitter. “Why couldn’t he hold it together?” “Why didn’t he fight harder?” Nobody ever asks, “Who walked into the lawyer’s office first?”

5. Children carry the real scars. Adults argue about who quit. Kids don’t. They just learn to live between two homes. Two holidays. Two broken lives. They lose the safety of one roof and one family—all for her pursuit of “happiness.”

6. The lie of quitting. Men don’t quit marriage. They quit being disrespected. They quit being treated like wallets. They quit begging for love from someone who already left emotionally. And most of the time—they didn’t quit at all. They got left.

7. The brutal truth. If 80% of divorces are filed by women, then 80% of the time—it wasn’t the man who quit. It was her. And yet—he’s the one who walks around carrying the scarlet letter of failure.

FINAL WARNING: Don’t let culture rewrite the script. Don’t let them brand you the quitter for surviving the war she declared. She filed. She left. She quit. And the children—the very ones you both swore to protect—are the ones left bleeding in silence.

17/09/2025

🌾 We Are the Generation That Isn’t Coming Back
We didn’t have much.
No smartphones to keep us busy. No internet to scroll through late at night. No endless toys lined up in our bedrooms.

But somehow, we had everything.

We had front porches where neighbors sat and talked until the stars came out. We had bikes that carried us across town until the streetlights reminded us it was time to go home. We had dinners where every seat was filled and no one reached for a phone—because there wasn’t one.

We had parents who worked hard with their hands, who didn’t always say “I love you” out loud, but proved it in every meal, every repaired shoe, every light left on so we wouldn’t walk into a dark house.

We are the generation of shared blankets, borrowed sugar, and front doors that were never locked. The generation of handwritten letters, of saving every penny, of fixing instead of throwing away.

We didn’t measure happiness in things.
We measured it in moments.

And now, as we grow older, we realize something important: those days aren’t coming back. The world has changed. The pace is faster, the noise louder, the connections thinner.

But the lessons remain.

That joy can come from a simple life.
That family matters more than anything you own.
That love isn’t in the grand gestures, but in the everyday sacrifices no one else sees.

We may not have had much—but we had everything that truly mattered.

And maybe, just maybe, that’s the kind of wealth this world needs to remember.

12/09/2025

THE WOMAN’S BRAIN IN A RELATIONSHIP

Brother, let me tell you the truth about how a woman’s brain works when it comes to dating, relationships, and marriage.

It is in a man’s nature to provide and protect. When a man loves a woman, his instinct pushes him to give, to do things for her, to make her life easier. But her brain doesn’t interpret it the way you think.

To her, it signals that you are afraid of her, that you place her above yourself, that you are weak, foolish, and easily controlled. She interprets your kindness as submission, and once she believes she controls you, entitlement kicks in. She starts to misbehave, to talk anyhow, to act anyhow — because in her mind, “he loves me, he’s mine to control.”

And let me be clear, this applies to all women. Not most. Not some. All. Even the most feminine and submissive.

If you doubt it, study relationships around you. Ask men who’ve gone through it. Observe marriages. Her appreciation of your love doesn’t cancel her nature. Sooner or later, the dark side comes out.

That’s why you must always be alert. When she begins to misbehave because of your kindness, withdraw it immediately. Stop giving. Stop doing. Let her earn it back through her behavior.

When she notices the withdrawal, she will bring it up. Stand firm. Tell her plainly it stopped because of her behavior. If she wants the old you back, she must fix herself.

She will try to use sex as manipulation. She’ll bribe you with her body, hoping you’ll forget. Don’t fall for it. Take the sex if you want, but do not surrender your frame. Let her know sex is cheap, and it cannot buy your authority.

If she refuses to correct herself, let her go. If she threatens to get from other men what she isn’t getting from you, tell her to go ahead — and be ready to move on.

Brother, you must be ruthless at times. Women are chaotic by nature. If you can’t call on your inner warrior to withdraw your affection and attention when necessary, then you’ve signed yourself onto a sinking ship. Because when a woman leads, the relationship dies. She will drag you both into the dust.

Understand this: this truth is not to make you hate women. It is to make you aware of their nature so you can deal with them wisely.

Love your woman. Pamper her if she deserves it. Treat her like a queen when she behaves as such. But when she messes up, punish the behavior without fear of her tears, her tantrums, or the names she throws at you.

That’s leadership. That’s order. That’s manhood.

Learn it. Apply it. Live it.

12/09/2025

STRICTLY FOR THE MARRIED AND MATURE SINGLES
THE TRUTH ABOUT SEX MEN DON'T WANT YOU TO KNOW

Because they know you will condemn them, see them as sex freaks, call them dogs and give them unprintable names but that does not stop a man from being a man or do you wanna marry a woman?

To have a full blast, blissful relationship with a man, you must understand what makes him a red blooded male! If you do, your man will not only love you but go crazy for you every single day of his life.

1. Men are very sexual.

2. Men are are very visual. An average man thinks sex at least 8 times daily. That is the least. Men are bombarded with sexual images all day from bill boards adverts to pictures on social media to scantily clad ladies in church. Because they are visual and sexual, they take in images that create sexual pressure seeking a form of release.

3. Men are excited about female body parts.

4. Breasts and buttocks get men turned on.Tight fitting clothes around the chest region and bosom region can drive a man crazy!

5. Men's ego in marriage is boosted when their wives respond to their sexual advances. Rejecting a man sexually is rejecting him.

6. When a wife pursues her husband sexually, she boosts his self esteem by 50%.

7. A woman who moans during sex gives her husband 80% ego boost on his sexual performance.

8. Sex is not food to a man, it is the air he breathes. He can't live long without it.

9. Beauty is useless to a man if it is not available for sex.

10. A sexually hot woman is very beautiful to a man no matter how unattractive or shapeless others see her. To the man, she is his Madonna, the queen of his sex kingdom, the one who rules, dominates and controls his entire universe.

11. A tight vagina does wonders on the pen*s than any man will tell you.

12. Men love sexual adventure.

13. It is not the size and shape of breasts that matter but how they are packaged and presented to the man.

14. Men love to suck breasts. Carrying the breasts away is like slapping him.

15. Men like a woman who loves sex.

16. 60% of the reason he is marrying you is because of sex.

17. Men love sex.

Men are wonderful. Men are sweet. Men are awesome.

It is not the fault of a man he is very sexual. God created him that way. When a man is completely loved, cherished and honoured for who he is and what he is made up of, he will love you, adore you and cherish you forever.

12/09/2025

STOP BEING HER REHABILITATION CENTER, KING. Follow Brotherhood empire

The only time women know the importance or significance of a good man/alpha male is when they are tired of being used by the bad men...
When their vagina has defiled the law of hooks.
When their breasts have defiled the laws of gravity.
When their body shape and texture is damaged beyond repair.
And when their attitude and character are corrupted with the addictive nature of promiscuity.

They only remember good men exist—and want to give one a chance—when they’re done living recklessly.
When the bad men no longer want them.
When their options shrink.
When their timeline starts screaming.

I pity the men who will decide to settle with women like this.
You're not gaining a wife—you’re inheriting chaos.

If she couldn’t see your value when she was in her prime,
She shouldn’t get to have you in her after-prime.
RUN, KING.

Her past and sexual history won’t just haunt her.
It’ll haunt YOU too.
The ghosts don’t vanish—they move in with you.

Be wise.
Judge such women harshly by their past.

Her past is your future—once you’re in the picture.

And if you’re thinking, “But maybe she’s changed…”
Don’t waste your time.
These women don’t “repent.”
They take sabbaticals.
They pause to trap a simp.
Then they default right back to their old behavior.

When you’re ready to marry:
Go for a younger woman with a clean slate.
Judge her harshly by her past.
If she passes, only then accommodate her.

Let the broken marry the broken.

You didn’t damage her—
So don’t try to fix her.
You’re not a rehab center.
Especially not for the woman you want to spend your life with.
You were not trained for that.

And don’t let anyone manipulate you with that “REAL MAN” guilt trip.

Being a real man means choosing your battles wisely.
Some women are not battles to fight—
They are wars already lost.

Rules are Rules !

I didn't Create the Rules, Nature Did.

09/09/2025

This is so touching 💞😍

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