Talkaboutoye

05/05/2023

I am comfortable, I love staying in my COMFORT ZONE, it is peaceful, it is familiar, it is understandable and i know everything in there like the back of my hands .
The safety is real , it gives me a sense of being in control. I enjoy the predictability but hate the stagnancy!

I don't think I can do it! I am not good at this! Don't let me make mockery of myself! I will do it tomorrow. It's so hard for my liking, I am scared of being seen, I don't want to go through that path. I am afraid,I don't think am good enough for this. It's not for someone like me who is preserved, maybe tomorrow! I am too big to start small, what will people think of me. I have done it before,it's always the same ... FEAR ZONE!

I didn't know it's going to be this hard, i have never tried this.How am I going to do this?,
Can you help me? I just don't get it! Let me try again tomorrow. It is very challenging, it's not working. Maybe I should do this to get this, I think I need to use another method. I still haven't sleep yet. Never knew it's this way. I will be glad to attend! I think I can give it a try, I think I should be able to solve this..... LEARNING ZONE

I just completed this! Never knew it's this good until now. I need to do more of this, i want to acquire this, it takes a lot to be here. I want more of this, I can do it! I need to be among the..., I love to work with... I am going to take this chance. This is it,I got this! I will see what I can do, I am definitely doing this. I have better understanding of how this works.I am not yet where I want to be.I was invited to...I will be attending..,i just finished this, I was given the responsibility to.., GROWTH ZONE

There will be obstacles, there will be mistakes, there will be doubters, but with a little more effort, there are no limit! Once you become fearless, life become limitless.
Limitations only live in our minds, but if we use our imaginations positively, our possibilities becomes limitless.Take chances in life, there is so much power in it.

LET US ALWAYS OPERATE FROM A POSITIVE MENTAL STATE/MINDSET.

FROM AN OYE MEMBER TO ALL OF US

21/04/2023

I know stingy people will say its not the meat salah. Me i want meat o.

Happy Eid Mubarak to my brothers and sisters.

30/03/2023

QUOTE: " *Your job is not to focus on what YOU can do for a man or who you should be for him.* *Your job is to focus on how HE makes YOUR heart feel"* - Sami Wunder 2022

OYE INTERPRETATION: focusing on what you want to do for him makes you forget yourself.
focusing on who you should be for him, will make you forget your identity. you start to mould yourself into who you THINK he wants. forgetting he came for you and doesn't need you to change to who you think he needs you to be

Your heart however can never lie. Focussing on how he makes your heart feel makes you experience the pureness or impureness of the love.
Helps you recognize if you want him or not. if he's doing his best or not. if he's reciprocating your energy or not.

21/03/2023

There are some things that were norms in the earliest months of our relationships but now memories of them seem like an eternity ago.

I've discovered that "praying together" is one of those things.

Remember when things were sweet and 'honeymoony'? When saying a word of prayer for and with your partner was a love declaration.

"A couple that prays together grows together" they say.

Have a trip down memory line. Recall the times when you planned that you would pray daily with your partner, recall the times when you use to pray daily with your partner.

Take Intentional effort to bring those times back. It doesn't matter if your partner thinks it is weird, it doesn't matter if you feel too ashamed to give it a try again. No it doesn't matter if your partner has tried to make you pray and you refused, it doesn't matter if prayer is not your thing.

What matters is your intentionality.

So, pick up your phone and send your partner a word of prayer. Suggest praying together this evening. Put a call across and end it with a word of prayer.

Be intentional.

17/03/2023

Who is following this movie on ROK?
Titled EMPATHY

14/03/2023

09/03/2023

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08/03/2023

"The thing women have yet to learn is nobody gives you power. You just take it.”

– Roseanne Barr

Happy International Women's Day'23

08/03/2023

"The thing women have yet to learn is nobody gives you power. You just take it.” –

Roseanne Barr

Happy International Women's Day'23.

04/03/2023

Over the years I've realised that having friends like this is harder than finding a good relationship (i still advocate that your partner should be your best friend, yes)

I've been hurt and heartbroken by friendships so much that I'm more weary of friends than the opposite s*x relationships.

For me the friends from my pre-teen and teenage years were closer to this than my current.

Friends like this are rare...and gold and i crave it with caution (cos friendship breakfast has been served on me-caution shall be adhered to 😂😂).

As a part of my 2023 goals, i added making friends to my list 😂. Breakfast or no breakfast, If i don't make friends, how do i give myself the opportunity to experience these deep friendship? I want to make new friends, friends, not acquittance, actual friends. I miss having fluttering feelings when i think of my friends and the activities we do together.

02/03/2023

CHECKLIST

Below is a selfassessment to see and know how conscious we have been living, whether poorly or to know if we need improvement....

*"Yes" or "No" should be use to answer each question*.
it is a total of 15questions.
Let's see who is a self love & Care guru here.

1) I can say that i truly laughed/smiled in the last one week

2) I made a new hair in the last one month

3) I got myself new un**es in the last three months

4) I danced in the last two weeks

5) I sang happily in the last one week

6) I took myself out or went out with friends at least once in the last one month

7) I told myself i am beautiful in the last two weeks.

8) I rested (not sleep)
in the last one week

9) I gave someone a hug in the last one week

10) I ate my favourite meal in the last two weeks

11) I had a pedicure/manicure in the last three months

12) I self organized my private space in the last one month (books/office,clothes/your corners at home)

13) I learnt something new that interests me in the last one month

14) I watched a tv program or movie with loved ones(not on on phone) in the last one week.

15. I complimented someone in the last one week.

Answer 😊💝😊❤️

01/03/2023

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Self-injury is more common than many realize, Self-harm should be taken seriously, no matter the reason behind it.
It is important to gently encourage someone to get treatment by stating that self-harm isn’t uncommon and help is available.

26/01/2023

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26/01/2023

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