25/11/2024
There is a big difference between ignorance and destiny. You are consistently having broken relationships and marriages, and you link it to destiny, you are seriously winking in the dark.
You meet a brother or sister, no thorough background check, medical tests or counseling sessions, you are already playing 'love', few months or years later, you almost lost your life in a toxic marital relationship, this is not destiny, it is ignorance.
A man that ties his camel and pray for Allah's protection on it is a wise person, anything that happens afterwards can be called destiny. Only those brothers and sisters that follow the processes properly in their relationships can have assertion of fate.
If you're approaching relationship and marriage without following the proper process, you cannot claim it is your destiny. A good marriage is not a gift, and unfortunately, you cannot walk to a shop to buy one, you have to pray and work hard to achieve it.
A man does not go madrasah, school or acquiring skills, he sits at home without means of livelihood, yet he wants everyone to believe that is his destiny. Interestingly, going to paradise requires efforts, have you read about the companions of Prophet (saw), that despite the privileges, they strived with everything they had to achieve Jannah. They could have stayed without putting effort, but they sacrificed and accomplished.
Ignorance is a very serious damaging factor, and unfortunately, most relationships and marriages are run ignorantly.
Do not make the errors people are making, try not to add to the existing traumatic stress most people are going through, marital problems are real, take your time now to seek relationship and marriage knowledge in order to have a blissful marital experience.
Always pay attention to details.
_MIDWIS_
*(YAHKAAFI)*
