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𝐌𝐄𝐍 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐲𝐞𝐫: 𝙈𝙖𝙮 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙨𝙚 𝙛𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙬𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙨.𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰:Asọọ̀bora-Igbesiaye Lọ́kọláyà
22/05/2025

𝐌𝐄𝐍 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐲𝐞𝐫: 𝙈𝙖𝙮 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙨𝙚 𝙛𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙬𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙨.

𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰:
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𝐃𝐎𝐍'𝐓 𝐄𝐐𝐔𝐀𝐓𝐄 𝐇𝐄𝐑Your wife is your wife—Don't equate her with your friend.Don't equate her with your brother.Don't equate...
22/05/2025

𝐃𝐎𝐍'𝐓 𝐄𝐐𝐔𝐀𝐓𝐄 𝐇𝐄𝐑
Your wife is your wife—
Don't equate her with your friend.
Don't equate her with your brother.
Don't equate her with your sister.
Don't equate her with your mother.
Don't equate her with your father.
Don't equate her with your children.
Don't even equate her with yourself.

Your wife has no equivalent.
Treat her as your own, with her strengths and flaws.
Honour her position. Value her presence.

✍️𝐎𝐥𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐛𝐢
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Adeniji Kamarudeen

22/05/2025

__♥__♥_____♥__♥___ Put This
_♥_____♥_♥_____♥__ Heart
_♥______♥______♥__ On Your
__♥_____/______♥__ Page If
___♥_________♥___ You Had
____♥___/___♥_____ Your Heart
______♥__♥_______ Broken
________♥_________…………….

May your heat never break!

Asọọ̀bora-Igbesiaye Lọ́kọláyà

22/05/2025

𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐰𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐰𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝.
𝑶𝒍𝒐𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒃𝒊

𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐈𝐀𝐆𝐄 𝐓𝐈𝐏  #𝟐: 𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐌𝐔𝐍𝐈𝐂𝐀𝐓𝐄 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇 𝐊𝐈𝐍𝐃𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐒Islamic View:“Speak to people kindly.” — Qur’an 2:83Conventional View:“Commun...
22/05/2025

𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐈𝐀𝐆𝐄 𝐓𝐈𝐏 #𝟐: 𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐌𝐔𝐍𝐈𝐂𝐀𝐓𝐄 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇 𝐊𝐈𝐍𝐃𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐒
Islamic View:
“Speak to people kindly.” — Qur’an 2:83
Conventional View:
“Communication to a relationship is like oxygen to life. Without it, it dies.”
Advice:
Listen more than you speak. Respond with grace, not ego. Small words, big impact.
✍️𝐎𝐥𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐛𝐢
@𝘼𝙎𝙊𝙊𝘽𝙊𝙍𝘼

20/05/2025

𝙃𝙤𝙥𝙚 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙐𝙢𝙢𝙪 𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙤𝙣:

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𝐖𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧, 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐦𝐚𝐧'𝐬 𝐋𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐮𝐚𝐠𝐞 ?𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 Asọọ̀bora-Igbesiaye Lọ́kọláyà
19/05/2025

𝐖𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧, 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐦𝐚𝐧'𝐬 𝐋𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐮𝐚𝐠𝐞 ?

𝐅𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 Asọọ̀bora-Igbesiaye Lọ́kọláyà

19/05/2025

FROM TOXIC TO IDEAL, WHICH TYPE OF HUSBAND ARE YOU?

1. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐨𝐬𝐬/𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐇𝐮𝐬𝐛𝐚𝐧𝐝:
”𝑯𝒆 𝒓𝒖𝒍𝒆𝒔, 𝒔𝒉𝒆 𝒐𝒃𝒆𝒚𝒔. 𝑵𝒐 𝒗𝒐𝒊𝒄𝒆. 𝑵𝒐 𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒊𝒄𝒆."

This husband sees himself as a commander, not a companion. He may use religion or culture to justify control and expect absolute obedience—sometimes even punishing disagreement. His wife feels like a subordinate rather than a partner.

𝑾𝒊𝒇𝒆'𝒔 𝑻𝒚𝒑𝒊𝒄𝒂𝒍 𝑹𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏: Suppression, depression, or silent rebellion.
𝑫𝒊𝒔𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒂𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒈𝒆: Breaks trust and harms emotional wellbeing of the wife.
𝑨𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆: Set respectful boundaries. Seek wise counsel, especially from religious leaders who promote balance and mercy in marriage.

2. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐏𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐦 (𝐕𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐨𝐫) 𝐇𝐮𝐬𝐛𝐚𝐧𝐝:
“𝑴𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒅 𝒐𝒏 𝒑𝒂𝒑𝒆𝒓, 𝒎𝒊𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚."

He’s hardly ever home—physically, emotionally, or both. Work, friends, devices, or distance consume him. He may provide financially but neglects communication, romance, and emotional bonding.

𝑾𝒊𝒇𝒆'𝒔 𝑻𝒚𝒑𝒊𝒄𝒂𝒍 𝑹𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏: Loneliness, overfunctioning, or turning elsewhere for attention.
𝑫𝒊𝒔𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒂𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒈𝒆: Creates emotional distance and weakens the marriage foundation.
𝑨𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆: Initiate open conversations. Suggest time routines. Consider counseling if his absence is damaging the bond.

3. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐇𝐮𝐬𝐛𝐚𝐧𝐝:
“𝑺𝒉𝒂𝒓𝒆𝒅 𝒃𝒖𝒓𝒅𝒆𝒏, 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒅𝒊𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔 ."

He believes in fairness and gives his wife a voice. He contributes at home and values her ideas—but only when it suits him. Partnership exists but is not yet deeply rooted in empathy or spiritual responsibility.

𝑾𝒊𝒇𝒆'𝒔 𝑻𝒚𝒑𝒊𝒄𝒂𝒍 𝑹𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏: Grateful but occasionally frustrated.
𝑫𝒊𝒔𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒂𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒈𝒆: May cause inconsistency and feelings of insecurity.
𝑨𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆: Appreciate progress, while kindly encouraging deeper connection and spiritual alignment.

4. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐅𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐥𝐲 𝐇𝐮𝐬𝐛𝐚𝐧𝐝:
“𝑪𝒂𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝑷𝒓𝒐𝒕𝒆𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆, 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆𝒔 𝒐𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒍𝒚 𝒔𝒐."

He is nurturing, responsible, and affectionate. But he may sometimes treat his wife more like a daughter—limiting her growth or input, even if unintentionally.

𝑾𝒊𝒇𝒆'𝒔 𝑻𝒚𝒑𝒊𝒄𝒂𝒍 𝑹𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏: Safe, yet not fully seen or heard.
𝑫𝒊𝒔𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒂𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒈𝒆: Limits wife’s independence and full partnership.
𝑨𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆: Acknowledge his goodness, then gently request mutual growth and mature communication.

5. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐈𝐝𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐇𝐮𝐬𝐛𝐚𝐧𝐝:
“𝑨 𝑱𝒖𝒔𝒕, 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒆𝒎𝒐𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒑𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒅𝒆𝒓."

He follows the example of the Prophet (peace be upon him). He listens. He leads. He learns. He respects and uplifts his wife, fears Allah in his treatment of her, and constantly seeks self-improvement.

𝑾𝒊𝒇𝒆'𝒔 𝑻𝒚𝒑𝒊𝒄𝒂𝒍 𝑹𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏: Flourishing emotionally, spiritually, and mentally.
𝑫𝒊𝒔𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒂𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒈𝒆: None—this is the healthy ideal.
𝑨𝒅𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆: Support and appreciate him. Grow together in faith and purpose.

𝑶𝒍𝒐𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒃𝒊
@𝐀𝐒𝐎𝐎𝐁𝐎𝐑𝐀

🎙️ Sheikh Ibn Utahymeen رحمه الله said: “We advise women to choose only a man of religion and good character for marriag...
19/04/2025

🎙️ Sheikh Ibn Utahymeen رحمه الله said:

“We advise women to choose only a man of religion and good character for marriage, and not to rush to accept a suitor until they have researched him from all sides.

I do not mean that women should not marry someone who has not committed any sins, because this is impossible, but be moderate and come close to the conditions mentioned.”

📚 [Fatwa Noor ala al Darb 10/31]

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