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Fulfilling God’s Kingdom in Lives and Marriages

18/08/2025

Don’t Just Fall for the ‘Hot’ Factor

Sure, someone can look good in a selfie, but that’s not enough. Just like you wouldn’t judge a book by its cover, don’t pick someone based only on how they look.

Character, kindness, spirituality and what’s inside the heart is where the real value is. For example, Kolawole could be tall, dark, and handsome, but Toyin really noticed how he helped people in need, his love for God, how he conduct himself etc. She realized looks don’t last, but a kind heart does.

Proverbs 31:30: Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.

11/04/2025

Observe How They Handle Conflict

How someone argues reveals a lot. If they communicate calmly during disagreements instead of shouting or shutting down, it’s a sign of emotional maturity.

10/04/2025

Let Go of Fairytale Expectations

Real love isn’t always dramatic or perfect, it’s about trust, effort, and understanding. Don’t dismiss someone just because they don’t “sweep you off your feet” immediately.

09/04/2025

Learn to Enjoy Being Yourself

Show up authentically, flaws and all. For instance, laugh freely at your quirks rather than hiding parts of yourself to impress someone. The right person will appreciate the real you.

08/04/2025

Seek Someone Who Enhances Your Life

A healthy partner supports your growth, not stifles it. The one who encourages you to chase your dreams rather than holding you back is a keeper.

07/04/2025

Don’t Entertain Mixed Signals

If someone says one thing but acts another way, seek clarity or walk away. Someone who says they “like you” but avoids commitment may not be ready.

29/03/2025

God Speaks Through Instinct

If something feels off, don’t ignore it. Someone constantly avoids introducing you to friends or keeps secrets, your intuition is likely signaling a red flag.

28/03/2025

Relate With Confidence, Not Desperation

Approach relationship knowing you are valuable and worthy. Instead of thinking, “I hope they like me,” shift your mindset to, “how can I add value?”

27/03/2025

Shared Values Over Surface Qualities

Looks and charm may fade, but shared values last. Prioritize inward qualities and values over outward traits like complexion and wealth. This makes it easier for you to hear God.

26/03/2025

Avoid “Chasing” Someone’s Affection

If someone isn’t reciprocating effort, step back. Forcing yourself on people only drains your energy. Mutual effort is key.

25/03/2025

Interest Vs Investment

Interest is someone showing up at the start; investment is consistent commitment over time. Don’t confuse flirty compliments with genuine care

24/03/2025

Stop Trying to “Fix”

Love requires acceptance, not constant fixing. Don’t be so enchanted by their strengths that you forget they have their flaws also, just like you have yours. Stop nagging, accept and pray instead.

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