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As a lady, once you reach 40 without getting married, I advise you to consider having a child. You can explore options like IVF, finding a partner to get pregnant, or adoption. However, I recommend finding a partner to get pregnant, as it's often the most affordable and straightforward option. If you have the financial means, IVF could be a viable choice. Adoption should be your last resort, as it may lead to potential complications in the future, especially with male children. In Igbo culture, a biological male child is entitled to inheritance in their father's household. But that's not the primary reason for having a child. You want someone to care for you in your old age.

Many women make the mistake of investing in relatives or others, hoping they'll care for them later. But the truth is, no one will care for you like your own child will. I know an 87-year-old woman who didn't plan for her old age and is now lonely and unhappy, despite her relatives' support. She longs for companionship, grandchildren, and the comfort of her own children. Don't rely on others; make plans for your future. Your church or community might disapprove, but remember, they won't be there for you in your old age. A reasonable society understands the importance of self-care and planning.

Having a child won't stop a man from marrying you, and a man who truly wants to be with you won't be deterred. Children bring joy and fulfillment in old age. If you're financially stable, consider having multiple children. Trust me, you'll thank me later.

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17/05/2024

FACTS ABOUT INTROVERT PEOPLE

1. They can talk and chat openly even crack jokes with you on social media but in real life they are ice😩

2. They fit pass you for road and no go do like sey dem see you. They can stay indoors for weeks without minding🤦‍♀️

3. Very calculative, clingy, little touch of hot temper, romantic with the one they love. They hardly fall in love but once they fall, it's over because they don't joke with that person😘

4. They hardly cheat💯. Before you see them, dem don see you(so sensitive). They can read people's mind before you could say it, they rarely have friends and associate in any activities, always not comfortable staying in a place full of people and always like staying alone👌🏽.

5. They hardly talk in the midst of people but talkative when they are with their love ones.
People usually see them as too proud people but they are not.

6. They can endure a lot but don't push them or take them for granted because once they decide, you have lost them kpatakpata✌🏽.

7. They are too emotional😥. They don't easily forget bad things someone did to them🌝.

8. They hardly share their problems to anybody or ask people for assistance no matter what they are passing through 😒

9. You won't easily observe the kind of person untill you get closer to them🤗
They are unpredictable and stubborn😎

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