Faith Akano

Faith Akano 🟤 Abuse-related Trauma Counselor
🟤 Author
🟤 Singer
🟤 YouTuber
🟤 Wife & Mum to Evangelists
🟤 Discover Spiritual, Emotional and Relational Healing

Loving someone who has experienced trauma comes with a sacred responsibility.Yes, they may be healing. Yes, they may see...
24/06/2025

Loving someone who has experienced trauma comes with a sacred responsibility.

Yes, they may be healing. Yes, they may seem strong now. But healing is not amnesia. It’s not a green light to ignore what broke them.

Healing doesn’t mean:
— You get to speak however you want.
— You get to demand ā€œnormalā€ reactions.
— You get to act like nothing ever happened.

It means they’re fighting daily to show up, to love, to trust, and to build something beautiful despite what they’ve been through.

So if you love them romantically, platonically, or as family, understand that your presence must feel like safety, not another battlefield.

šŸ’­ Trauma leaves fingerprints. Healing doesn’t erase them.
šŸ’š Loving someone with a past means honoring it, not avoiding it.

Let’s talk.Have you ever wondered if you’re really healing… or just surviving?You’re not alone.On this week’s Healed-ish...
10/06/2025

Let’s talk.

Have you ever wondered if you’re really healing… or just surviving?

You’re not alone.

On this week’s Healed-ish podcast (on Spotify or anywhere you get your podcasts), we’re answering the raw questions about healing that we all think but don’t always say out loud.

✨ How do I know if I’m healing?
✨ Why do I still get triggered?
✨ What does real progress even look like?

šŸŽ§ The new episode is live — go listen, share with a friend. Here's the link: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1mO4V7oYKJT1wWgFhEY7A4?si=mu0ZTVdSS-K9zBBhDQVxLA&nd=1&dlsi=2952952f5a8b4cae

And tell me: what does healing look like for YOU right now?

I have a free gift for you: 10 Awareness Journal Prompts to help you tune in to what you’re feeling — and what your hear...
06/06/2025

I have a free gift for you: 10 Awareness Journal Prompts to help you tune in to what you’re feeling — and what your heart needs right now.

But you’ll need to listen to Episode 1 of my brand new podcast, Healed-ish, to get the download link.

Why? Because healing starts with showing up, with listening, with curiosity.

šŸŽ§ Head to Spotify, Apple Podcast, or Amazon Music, listen to Episode 1, and claim your free PDF today.

03/06/2025

Healing doesn’t always begin with a diagnosis.
Sometimes, it starts with a whisper:

ā€œSomething’s not right… and I think I’m allowed to notice.ā€

In Episode 1 of Healed-ish, we’re starting from the very beginning — with awareness.
The moment you realize you’ve been carrying more than you thought.

šŸŽ§ Listen on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/episode/2JBDi11ACSGfehQMxKShM6?si=lHXeN5LNRjiuatjVOogZ1A

šŸ’Œ Grab your free Awareness Journal Prompts — get the link when you listen to today's episode of Healed-ish podcast.

Healed-ish šŸŽ™ļøLaunching June 3rd on Spotify and every where you listen to podcasts!Real stories, honest healing, and answ...
29/05/2025

Healed-ish šŸŽ™ļø
Launching June 3rd on Spotify and every where you listen to podcasts!
Real stories, honest healing, and answers for your journey.
You’re not alone šŸ’š And Trauma is in trouble! šŸ’ƒ

Trauma doesn’t just disappear—it often shows up in our relationships, shaping how we connect, trust, and love. Whether i...
12/02/2025

Trauma doesn’t just disappear—it often shows up in our relationships, shaping how we connect, trust, and love. Whether it’s the wounds we carry into relationships or the pain caused by them, healing is possible.

If you’re struggling with:

šŸ”¹ Patterns of conflict, codependency, or emotional neglect
šŸ”¹ Trust issues, betrayal, or fear of abandonment
šŸ”¹ Attachment wounds that make intimacy difficult
šŸ”¹ The effects of past or present emotional, physical, or sexual abuse
šŸ”¹ Grief, loss, or trauma from a broken relationship

You don’t have to navigate it alone. From February 10–22, I’m offering 50% off therapy sessions to help you heal, break free from unhealthy cycles, and build relationships that feel safe and fulfilling.

šŸ“… Limited-time offer. Fill my intake form at bit.ly/therapyintakeform to book your discounted session before it ends!

šŸ’” This Valentine's, take the first step toward healing your relationships. I'm offering 50% off therapy sessions for tho...
10/02/2025

šŸ’” This Valentine's, take the first step toward healing your relationships. I'm offering 50% off therapy sessions for those facing challenges like:

- Communication Difficulties
- Trust and Betrayal
- Conflict Patterns
- Emotional Intimacy Issues
- Sexual Trauma or Intimacy Issues
- Jealousy and Insecurity
- Parenting Stress
- Attachment Issues
- Emotional Neglect or Abuse
- Codependency
- Financial Stress
- Coping with Major Life Changes
- Blended Family Struggles
- Growing Apart
- Grief, Loss, and Trauma Recovery

🌱 Together, we can work through these challenges and help you create stronger, healthier connections. DM to book your session today!

Have you ever set a boundary only to feel guilty, second-guess yourself, or let it slide the moment someone pushes back?...
01/02/2025

Have you ever set a boundary only to feel guilty, second-guess yourself, or let it slide the moment someone pushes back?

For many, struggling with boundaries isn’t just a bad habit—it’s a survival response. If you grew up in environments where saying ā€œnoā€ led to conflict, rejection, or punishment, your brain may now associate boundaries with danger. So even as an adult, enforcing them can feel uncomfortable, triggering anxiety or guilt.

I’ve seen it in my clients, and I’ve felt it myself. Setting a boundary can feel like you’re being selfish or difficult. But here’s the truth: Boundaries are not about pushing people away; they are about protecting your well-being.

So, what do you do when sticking to boundaries feels impossible? Here are a few things that help:

āœ… Start Small – Begin with one simple boundary, like not answering work messages after hours or saying ā€œnoā€ to something minor.

āœ… Expect Discomfort – If you’re used to people-pleasing, setting boundaries will feel uncomfortable at first. That doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong—it means you’re growing.

āœ… Stick to It – Some people may push back at first. That’s normal. Stand firm. The right people will respect your limits; the wrong ones will reveal themselves.

āœ… Remember: It’s Not Selfish – Boundaries protect your energy and peace, allowing you to show up as your best self in every area of life.

If setting and keeping boundaries has been hard for you, you’re not alone. It takes time, practice, and sometimes healing from the past.

What’s one boundary you need to set (or reinforce) this year? Let’s talk in the comments. ā¬‡ļø

Healing from trauma is a journey, and while therapy is a powerful tool, it’s not the only path to recovery. If therapy i...
27/01/2025

Healing from trauma is a journey, and while therapy is a powerful tool, it’s not the only path to recovery. If therapy is out of reach right now, here are some practical steps to take:

1. Educate Yourself: Knowledge is key. Reading, listening to podcasts, or exploring trauma-informed books (like The Trauma Healer’s Self-Care Strategies for a Resilient New Year) can equip you with tools to begin healing. The purchase link is in my bio.

2. Journaling: Writing down your thoughts and emotions can help you process your experiences. Start with simple prompts like, What do I feel today? What triggered me, and how can I respond differently next time?

3. Build a Support System: Healing thrives in community. Share your journey with trusted friends or seek out safe spaces for sharing.

4. Practice Boundaries: Create a safe emotional environment by saying no to draining or triggering situations. Your peace matters.

5. Engage in Mind-Body Practices: Activities like walking, or deep breathing help bridge the gap between your mind and body.

6. Faith and Meditation: Prayer and meditation on God's Word always provides comfort and clarity in difficult moments.

7. Join a Healing Community: Healing is hard to do alone. Later this year, I’ll be launching two Telegram groups: Women in Healing and Men in Healing. These groups will provide a safe space to learn, share, and grow together. For just $1/month, participants will access exclusive resources, discussions, and guided exercises to support their healing journey. If this sounds like what you need, click the link in my bio to join the wait-list!

Healing isn’t about rushing or getting it all right. It’s about showing up for yourself, even on the hardest days. Start small, be consistent, and trust the process—you’ve got this.

Waitlist now for Women in Healing and Men in Healing Support Groups: bit.ly/peopleinhealingwaitlist



Would you join the waitlist for a healing-focused community? Let me know in the comments or DM me—I’d love to hear from you!

Healing isn’t easy, but it’s always worth it. šŸ’šI’m excited to be a guest speaker this Thursday, January 25th, at an even...
24/01/2025

Healing isn’t easy, but it’s always worth it. šŸ’š

I’m excited to be a guest speaker this Thursday, January 25th, at an event hosted by Mrs. Chidinma Iheanetu and the Beautifully Broken Support Foundation: Why I Must Heal: Understanding Trauma and Its Effects.

We’ll be discussing what trauma really is, how it affects us, and why healing is essential. Join us for this insightful session.

šŸ“… Date: January 25, 2025
ā° Time: 7 PM – 8:30 PM
šŸ“ Telegram

To join, contact +2347067449505 on WhatsApp. Let’s take this healing journey together.

Today’s my birthday, and I wanted to celebrate with you by giving something special šŸŽ‰. As a trauma therapist, I know how...
24/01/2025

Today’s my birthday, and I wanted to celebrate with you by giving something special šŸŽ‰. As a trauma therapist, I know how powerful small reminders can be, so I’ve created 10 FREE healing phone wallpapers just for you! These designs are not just beautiful—they’re relatable, therapeutic, and crafted to support your healing journey.

Download your gift here: bit.ly/10traumahealingwallpapers

And since it’s my special day, I’d love to feel the love—drop me a birthday wish in the comments! Your support means so much to me. Here’s to healing, growth, and thriving together! šŸ’š

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Have you ever caught yourself wishing you could rewrite the past? Maybe a different decision, a slight shift in timing, ...
20/01/2025

Have you ever caught yourself wishing you could rewrite the past? Maybe a different decision, a slight shift in timing, or saying "no" instead of "yes" could’ve changed everything.

For many trauma survivors, the weight of regret can feel unbearable. Whether it’s wishing you hadn’t trusted that person, hadn’t attended that event, or had spoken up sooner, the ā€œwhat-ifsā€ can haunt you.

But here’s the truth: no amount of regret can rewrite the past. What happened cannot be undone. And while this might feel heavy, it’s also where freedom begins.

Instead of turning back time, what if we chose to focus on what’s ahead? What if we acknowledged the pain but refused to let it dictate our future? Healing starts when we realize that even though we can’t change yesterday, we have immense power over what we do today.

You have the strength to move forward—not just in spite of what happened but also through it. And as you step into this new week, remember: regret doesn’t own you, and healing is always within reach.

Here’s to choosing hope over hindsight and action over regret.

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