The Finished Man In Love

The Finished Man In Love Raising godly homes and restoring relationships to turn the kingdoms of this world into the Kingdom of our God. πŸ₯°πŸ”₯

Am I a husband, leader, provider, protector and above all , a best friend to my dear lovely and beautiful wife ?????.Whe...
23/05/2026

Am I a husband, leader, provider, protector and above all , a best friend to my dear lovely and beautiful wife ?????.

When I made up my mind to marry my wife, I made sure I was able to answer the above questions and how to make them a reality. By the grace of God , she believed in me and today, and forever, this will still be who I am to my wife and family.

Marriage is not as hard as others portray it to be, especially when you're able to define your WHO, WHY and HOW, i.e.
1. Who is this person?
2. Why marriage , why marry this person?
3. How does marriage work, how do you intend to keep the marriage?

If you can genuinely answer these three basic questions, then you've solved about 95% of your marital journey.

You can ask my wife, till today I still tell her WHO she is, my WHY and HOW without pretending.

Can we also learn from you too? Tell us other aspects of making marriage easier.

✍️: The Finished Man In Love πŸ’•πŸ˜˜

No real man easily walks away from a woman who truly ADDS VALUE to his life, brings him peace, supports his growth , and...
21/05/2026

No real man easily walks away from a woman who truly ADDS VALUE to his life, brings him peace, supports his growth , and stands by him genuinely. A good woman is not just someone a man loves, but someone whose presence makes his life better emotionally, mentally, financially, and even spiritually.

Most times yea, when a man keeps maltreating , disrespecting, or eventually loses such a woman, it also says something about him. It may simply mean he has not fully understood his own value, maturity, or what truly matters in life yet . Because a man who understands the value of peace, happiness, loyalty , care, affection and genuine support does not play carelessly with it.

Sometimes people lose good relationships not because they found better , but because they were too blind, immature, distracted, or emotionally unstable to recognize the blessing they already had.

At the same time, no woman should force herself to stay where she is constantly undervalued o, disrespected, or emotionally drained. Love should not only be about enduring pain nau haba. The right relationship should bring growth at all levels, peace, comfort , support, and mutual respect from both sides.

This love thing yea, is actually not difficult to practice, but many people make it look so complicated.

✍️: The Finished Man In Love πŸ’•πŸ˜˜

πŸ“Έ: ASSOCIATION OF FINISHED PEOPLE IN LOVE πŸ’•πŸ˜˜

Phase 2. WHY A MAN MAY LEAVE A WOMANMany men do not stop loving suddenly as well. Most times , they slowly withdraw when...
21/05/2026

Phase 2. WHY A MAN MAY LEAVE A WOMAN

Many men do not stop loving suddenly as well. Most times , they slowly withdraw when they constantly face disrespect, unnecessary nagging, lack of peace, dishonesty, manipulation ,or emotional stress in the relationship.

A man naturally wants to feel respected, appreciated , trusted, and emotionally at peace too. Not only women. When the relationship becomes too draining, his interest and emotional connection may begin to fade.

Some men stay quiet and endure for a long time before finally becoming emotionally distant or walking away completely.

Meanwhile, it is not that the man stopped loving the woman o. He simply became tired of constantly dealing with disrespect ne kawai, emotional stress, and a relationship where he no longer feels valued, appreciated, or at peace.

✍️: The Finished Man In Love πŸ’•πŸ˜˜

WHY A WOMAN MAY LEAVE A MANMany women do not leave suddenly. Most times, they become emotionally tired after facing cons...
21/05/2026

WHY A WOMAN MAY LEAVE A MAN

Many women do not leave suddenly. Most times, they become emotionally tired after facing constant disrespect , abuses, lack of attention, cheating, lies, poor communication ,or a man who no longer puts effort into the relationship.

A woman naturally wants to feel loved, valued, heard, protected , and emotionally connected. When the relationship keeps bringing pain instead of peace, her feelings may slowly change with time.

Some women stay for long, hoping things will improve, but once they become emotionally disconnected , it becomes difficult to restore the relationship.

See erh, sometimes , it is not that the woman stopped loving the man o. She just got tired of fighting for a relationship that no longer gives her peace, that soft attention, and emotional comfort like before.

So when a woman leaves you, don't be quick to judge. First check yourself and know where the problem is coming from.

✍️: The Finished Man In Love πŸ’•πŸ˜˜

No man should beg for RESPECT in a relationship. No woman should beg for LOVE.When it starts feeling like begging , some...
19/05/2026

No man should beg for RESPECT in a relationship. No woman should beg for LOVE.

When it starts feeling like begging , something is already wrong somewhere. Not always that someone is "bad" but it usually means there is a lack of understanding, emotional maturity , or effort on both sides.

LOVE and RESPECT are supposed to flow naturally. When it becomes something you constantly demand, remind, or fight for, it starts losing its value.

In my own experience , since I started dating my wife till we got married and even now we are months into the marriage (about 3 years of knowing each other now), I can honestly say there has never been that kind of struggle between us. No chasing for love, no forcing for respect . It just flows NATURALLY.

She respects me in a way that doesn't feel forced or negotiated , and I also show her love in the same natural way. I honestly don't even know the perfect way to describe it , but she truly values me, and I also value her deeply.

We just vibe naturally whether we are together or apart. There is understanding, peace, and effort without pressure.

And that alone has shown me that when something is right , it doesn't need force.

But the truth is, many relationships today are struggling because of pressure, social media expectations , and poor route to communicate how they feel and sorting out ways to overcome issues.

People are together, but not really understanding each other anymore.

Is that a relationship? May God grant us understanding ijn πŸ™

✍️: The Finished Man In Love πŸ’•πŸ˜˜

MEN, one grace we seriously need from God in relationships is the ability to know whether you are truly her man or you'r...
19/05/2026

MEN, one grace we seriously need from God in relationships is the ability to know whether you are truly her man or you're just "JOHN THE BAPTIST" sent to prepare the way for the one she will eventually marry πŸ˜…

Because some men will invest love , time, resources, emotions, prayers, and even loyalty , only for another man to appear and enjoy the finished product. God abeg o πŸ˜©πŸ˜‚

I was once "John the Baptist" myself, I know how e dey pain oπŸ˜‚

But to be fair, sometimes life is just like that. Not every relationship is meant to end in marriage.

Some people come into your life to teach you, help you grow, prepare you , and make you better for the right person too.

Still, may you not suffer and build for another man to come and harvest all the glory IJN πŸ˜­πŸ™πŸ½

Single men, una no go shout "AMEN" now abi πŸ˜…... Me I sha, don enter my promised land oo

✍️: The Finished Man In Love πŸ’•πŸ˜˜

My people ❀️First of all , I'm sorry I disappeared for a little while without announcing it. The past two weeks, I've be...
19/05/2026

My people ❀️

First of all , I'm sorry I disappeared for a little while without announcing it.

The past two weeks, I've been seriously working on something that needed my full attention, time , and commitment but thank God, your guy The Finished Man In Love is back πŸ˜…

And honestly, I truly appreciate everyone who checked up on me and kept asking why they've not been seeing my posts.

That genuine care means a lot to me. It's a beautiful feeling knowing people actually care ❀️

Now we continue from where we stopped 😎

Singles, make una ready o πŸ˜‚
Married people ,una dey partially safe sha πŸ€ͺ

I love you πŸ˜˜πŸ’«
10/05/2026

I love you πŸ˜˜πŸ’«

Life in general isn't fair, but you must always learn to leverage your advantages at all times.There is absolutely nothi...
09/05/2026

Life in general isn't fair, but you must always learn to leverage your advantages at all times.

There is absolutely nothing you will do that someone, somewhere ,won't talk about either about what you are doing or about you personally.

Your beginning may be small, but don't give up. Don't listen to discouraging statements from people.

Some people talk because they couldn't beat you. Some are envious that it is not them, while for others, it is pure witchcraft, kawaii.

I remember when I started my journey early in life; there was a lot of discouragement here and there, but I never gave in, and today, God has been faithful.

This is just my word of encouragement to you this weekend, don't be stopped. Improve yourself daily and build your dreams.

Congratulations in advance conqueror.

✍️: The Finished Man In Love πŸ’•πŸ˜˜

Chap, you say marriage is not an ACHIEVEMENT ke? When you marry the weapon fashioned against you , that's when you can b...
09/05/2026

Chap, you say marriage is not an ACHIEVEMENT ke?

When you marry the weapon fashioned against you , that's when you can boldly say it's not an achievement oo πŸ˜‚

But for a lot of us who married right it's a GREAT ACHIEVEMENT and a trophy won.πŸ†β€οΈ

When you marry a better person, YOU GO KNOW. And if your marriage no go last, you go still know. (the signs will be glaring; in fact, even before you married the person sef)

Many people ignore red flags because of pressure, emotions , beauty, money, or "I don already invest too much." But truth be told, marriage can either multiply your peace or multiply your problems.

Who you marry can affect your mental health, finances , destiny, prayer life, happiness, and even your confidence as a person. That's why choosing right is not something to joke with.

If you gerrit, you gerrit and if you don't gerrit, forget about it oo πŸ˜‚

May God bless our marriages. Ijn πŸ™

✍️: The Finished Man In Love πŸ’•πŸ˜˜

Today na Friday! Married people go home, hug your wife, play with your children, and no forget to shake za oza room well...
08/05/2026

Today na Friday! Married people go home, hug your wife, play with your children, and no forget to shake za oza room well well! πŸ’ƒπŸ•ΊπŸ”₯

My single people, no dull yourselves o… go Sabo Motor Park make una enjoy life too πŸ˜‚ but shine your eyes well well o and make better moves/choice 😁

✍️: The Finished Man In Love πŸ’•πŸ˜˜

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