20/07/2025
You don’t have to like the same things in marriage. You just need to like each other enough to show up.
My husband doesn’t care for pictures but he smiles in them because he likes me
I didn’t like action movies, I watched with him because I like being with him, now I like them 😊
Instead of being upset that your partner isn’t initiating the things you enjoy…what if you took ownership of those moments and invited them in with love?
You love beach walks? Plan one and say, “Come with me.”
You miss deep conversations? Light a candle, make the tea, and say, “Let’s talk.”
Sometimes we punish our partner for not reading our mind, instead of creating space for connection.
Marriage isn’t about perfect alignment, it’s about intentional pursuit and understanding that difference doesn’t mean problem, it just means change strategy to align despite your differences
When we stop keeping score and start extending invitations, connection grows.
Because love isn’t in liking the same things. It’s in choosing each other again and again with kindness and intention.
➡️ Your spouse doesn’t need to initiate to join you in a challenge that transforms your marriage- you do the challenge and invite them in with love.
Want to take that intentional step today? Join the 28 Days Lovers Again Challenge- we have many people who did it alone and saw the transformation in their marriage even without their spouses lack of interest initially. It’s takes one person to initiate you know ❤️
