04/03/2022
ATTENTION PLEASE ⁉️
Single Mums and Ladies please remember that Single Dads have their plates filled to the brim with responsibilities and bills to pay with no support.
If you have to date and marry a Single Dad, ensure that you have all what it takes, remember each Single Dad you see is Financially Burdened, Emotionally Traumatised, S*xually Starved, Physically Strained and also Mentally Drained.
Don't expect too much from them besides they were living their lives and managing their bills and affairs at their best capacity before you appear in the picture.
Please don't become another Irunmole Orisha Principality that they have to deal with after the Loss of a Wife to death or by Divorce, Separation or become a Single Dad through Out of Wedlock.
Ladies, Spinsters or Single Mums please don't become Additional Obstacle or Barrier in their lives and don't create unnecessary frictions for them.
What every Single Dad needs is a Good Wife Material, Genuine Lover, Helper, Assistant and Wonderfully Made person not who will make their Life Miserable with Unnecessary Demands, they don't need somebody who behaves like Evil Monitoring Spirit.
Single Dads are not looking for Destiny Destroyers, Dream Killers, Manipulators and Financial Drainers. They don't NEED a Partner or a Wife that will compare them to their Biological Father or Former Husband or Boy Friend.
Don't see every Single Dad as a Potential Desperate Being, don't believe that every Single Dad craves for S*x or desperate for Affection.
Single Dads can easily get S*x at any point in time if they so desire, so there is nothing SPECIAL about your Va**na.
Single Dads can conveniently struggle and make ends meet without flinching or ashame of their profession.
Don't believe or think that every jobless Single Dads have no virtue, future, prospect or quality.
Every Single Dad you meet or come across is at the weakest point of his life, they quietly and desperately looking for a way out.
Single Dad may be jobless but not senseless. He may be stressed but not worn out. He may not be Financially Ok for now but not that Stupid.
Most Single Dads still give or pay periodic Alimony or give Financial Support to their Baby Mamas or their Ex. not receiving help or assistance from Friends, Families while the Mother of their Children I mean their Ex. is always on their neck, Single Dads are taking up daily challenges as Father and Mother at the same time, they have to Cook, Feed, Cloth and Accommodate their Children on their own. Some can't even afford or think of engaging the service of house help. They still have business to attend to or resume to work just like every other person.
Don't be surprised that some Single Dads do the Unthinkable to put food on the table to feed their children, they do better what some Married Men and Women couldn't do.
Each time you come across a Single Dad, Give Them a Hug, a Breakfast or Lunch is not bad after all they have the right for a treat.
I give Twale, Respect, Love and Respect to all the Single Dads.
💕❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕
- Oladipupo O. Iyowun
NSPL Founder
