15/07/2025
I was young and madly in love with him, so that afternoon when he asked me to pose, I didn’t think twice. I posed with my tongue out while lying naked on his chest, kraw! I stood up, turned my back. Kraw! I turned my front while my melons were doing a standing ovation. Kraw! While in action and sweaty, kraw! He took a lot of them. That wasn’t the only day he did that. There were days when I was sleeping, and he would take such photos of me unaware.
We broke up along the way. I was the one who left because I wasn’t getting enough. I had grown to know what I wanted in a man, but he wasn’t serving what I wanted, so I left the relationship. He was pained. He came crying. He wanted just one more chance, but I didn’t offer that. The whole relationship lasted for over four years—from 2006 to 2010.
As the years went by, we talked. He still wanted me. One day, I was so lonely I entertained the idea of going back to him. It had been three years since we broke up. He said he missed me. I said I missed him too. He sent some of the pictures he took of me and said, “Do you remember this day?”
I was like, “You still have them? Wow.” He responded, “How can I lose them when they are the only thing I have left of you?”
I didn’t think much of it. Now I’m married and raising kids. He has traveled outside the country but comes home every now and then. This guy still talks about wanting me back. He would send some of the pictures and still ask me, “Do you remember when we were this way?” I see it, and I’m embarrassed by how stupid I was as a child. I’ve asked him to delete them.
He tells me it’s all he has of me, and he is not ready to let go. I said, “What if someone finds them? All these years, why?” He responded, “That should tell you how deep the love goes. I’ve been protecting them with my life. If it comes out, I will die with it.”
I’m not comfortable knowing that I have such explicit content in the hands of someone I don’t have control over. I want him to delete them. I’ve begged him to. I’ve even offered money if that’s what he wanted. He laughed it off and said, “Do you think I need money more than I need you?”
I’m here desperately asking, is there a way I can have him delete them? I don’t want to do anything that would invite my husband into the conversation, so I want a low-key way to get the photos off his system. Is there a way?
