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16/12/2025

TTC mum of one girl,wanted a boy. She said the second baby is her last child. She dey here for UK. She send me Dm. Wongo president abeg I wan born boy.
I say me, I don't do gender selection tracking. Your husband determines what you deliver.
You can also do pre-gestational testing through IVF. Anty say OK.
3 months later anty came back and asked me to help her track her ovulation.
Wetin be my work kwanu. We started tracking. Fast forward to when she entered fertile window, I told her anty Sahe savannah. She said not yet.
Why ma? She was waiting for ovulation day because she wanted a boy.

Anty send me your account let me refund you ya remaining m0ni.
I d0nt do natural gender selection. Anty say ah wongo president I know you don't but guide me finish na. I say it can n3ver be me.

Ok this is 10months since we last spoke.
Why am I seeing her message asking me to educate my followers that g3nder selection tracking is a s.c.a.m. say the woman she pay for it collect 200k and assured her it was going to be accurate.

She get belle as we speak. She don go do g3nder scan here. Them tell am girl.
I say but I tell you na. Na so she vex, say she go d3al with the lady. I was like no need na. You are pr3gnant let's be happy and celebrate.
She no gree hear o.
If na you c0llect her money. She dey come do you wotowoto. I d0n beg am on your behalf, she no gree o.

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16/12/2025

Any Lesson learnt?
Yes, Lesson learnt.
Have a Plan B ✅

15/12/2025

First time preggy moms, see let me tell you... When you give birth people will advise you oh. You won't be able to drink water and drop your cup.

😒Your baby's neck is bent
😒Your ni***es are leaking
😒Use skineql to do his body cream
😒Don't give baby exclusive breastfeeding
😒Etc.

Some of the advises are worth it,while others are sincerely trash and mere "ATTENTION SEEKING BEHAVIOR " It's you who will sit, digest, and filter the advises. If you follow all, O.Y.O!!!

Let me give you an example of something that happened to me👇

I remember when my baby was breastfeeding, I think she was 10months as of that time. I just moved to a new environment and the people there wanted to get close to me being that I'm very reserved (When I'm new to a plc I first study bfr I get free, rem d story I shared about a woman in my last house bfr I moved? That's a lesson to shape me)

These mamas are my neigbours... They would come to me, oh ur baby isn't walking yet at 10months? It's becz you are caging her at home, let her come play outside with others. Me;🙄

Me:Thanks moms, I and her dad prefer she stays indoor, we grew up indoor as well plus when she's wise enough we can let her play outside.

Another time, they came again, hello mom, are you still Breastfeeding a 10month old child? Hmmm u are spoiling her, by the time this child reaches 1+, she would disgrace u outside by dragging ur breasts by herself. Me: ☺️ moms, I'm a Muslim my religion permits me to feed her breastmilk till she's 2years although I may not be able to stop at 2 but for now let her enjoy, I so cerely appreciate your advise.

They started looking at me like I'm too adamant, I'm rude and unsubmissive. With my polite nature and how I tried to persuade them peacefully with reasons. Yet, they couldn't agree with my choice/(s).

That said I Sha stood my ground, as a first time mom!

15/12/2025

I manage a school for my mother inlaw. This woman di$respects me wherever and whenever possible. Her attitude has made many teachers to insult me and call me names. Only very few people regards me in this school.

I have been in and out of depression because of her. Today she will shout at me in PTA meeting, tomorrow she will shout Infront of students or teachers. My husband was working for her but when he got a better job he said I should start working as the head teacher to assist his mom. For the period I have been here the school has improved greatly.

I applied for renovation with one NGO and it was done. But my mother inlaw has refused to appreciate my efforts. I complained her attitude to my husband, he aid that's how his mom is, but when he was working here she did not do any of this to him. The one that made me to be so heart broken is that we are on exams now. I am three months pregnant and since day one have been in and out of the hospital. My husband call his mom to plead that I stay back from work because I couldn't sleep at night and he too did not sleep.

She said no, that as the head teacher I should be in school. Hubby got angry and ended the call. I dressed up to go to school, my husband said if I dare walk out of the door. I stayed back, he stayed back with me. He told me I need to rest. He did all the chores, cook and was massaging me when his mom stormed our house. She was very angry and hubby said I shouldn't say a word to her. Hubby did not say anything,

I didn't say anything, she got very angry and hit me, hubby told her to leave his house. She left and said I should never step my foot in her school again. I don't know what I have done to my mother inlaw.

My husband said I will never go to her school again. That he has been enduring bu****it because she's his mom. That it's enough. I want to go to her house and apologize, because I don't want any issue. Even if I don't work there again I just want to apologize. Hubby said if I di$obey him, he will be very maad at me. He said when she's in her right senses she will come and apologize for hiitting his wife. Please advise me. I will read all the comments. Thank you so much Mrs Meda


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15/12/2025

If your Gums are Bleeding or easily Bruised, you may be suffering from Vit. C Deficiency

I saw this somewhere. Having Toothache?Boil Coconut Back and allow to cool then switch around your mouth for some minute...
15/12/2025

I saw this somewhere.
Having Toothache?
Boil Coconut Back and allow to cool then switch around your mouth for some minutes before spitting out.

The flu is around! 🌡️Watch out for these  . 🤒 Fever😷 Cough (usually dry and can last two weeks or more)🤕 Headache💪 Muscl...
15/12/2025

The flu is around! 🌡️

Watch out for these .

🤒 Fever
😷 Cough (usually dry and can last two weeks or more)
🤕 Headache
💪 Muscle & joint pain
😩 Sense of feeling unwell
🤧 Sore throat & runny nose

If you feel unwell, take care of yourself.

Good morning family ✅
15/12/2025

Good morning family ✅

14/12/2025

I promise to Buy card for the person that can arrange this sentence 😏😏

Don't card I your want 😁😂😅

12/12/2025

What Hygiene Practises Should You Do During Postpartum? 🤔

12/12/2025

HYGIENE IN/DURING PREGNANCY 🤰

HYGIENE MEANS...(Cleanliness) Practises that promote, and preserve health.

HYGIENE.
1)PERSONAL
2)ENVIRONMENTAL
3) OTHERS.

🤰PERSONAL HYGIENE: One of the first thing a midwife will check when attending to a pregnant woman is her neatness. Is she smelling, is her clothes dirty and smelly too, is she having mouth odour, her hair(unkept?) Her fingers dirty? Etc.
A pregnant woman should do the following 👇

🤰Bath at most Twice a day. Depending on the weather and at least once daily.

🤰Brush twice daily if tolerable, but brush once if vomiting is severe. (if toothpaste is offensive, use chew stick)

🤰Wear neat clothes, use roll on if you can tolerate the smell, wear free clothes not jumpers and tight ones.

🤰Clip down your nails. Clean your nails very important!

🤰Tidy your hair.

🤰Lubricate your lips with moisturizing lip gloss.

🤰Make sure you wash your va**na well morning and night as discharge tends to be much during pregnancy.

🤰Shave your Armpits, and VG area.🥿👜🥻👙🪥🧻🕯️💅👄

ENVIRONMENTAL HYGIENE.🌿🌱🌾☘️
🤰Make sure to tidy your homes( sitting rooms, bedrooms kitchen.)

🤰Cut grasees, fumigate, clear gutters, don't leave stagnant waters around. All of these will eradicate mosquitoes from your surrounding's thereby reducing your risks of having malaria during pregnancy.

🤰Wash your hands regularly, before cooking and after using to toilet to prevent Infections that can put you into vomiting, purging and overall Dehydration. All of these are bad for pregnant women.

FOOD HYGIENE.🥘🥙🌮🥣
WASH VEGGIES BFR CUTTING.
WASH FRUITS BEFORE EATING
WASH YOUR PLATES DO NOT PIKE UP
DO NOT COOK IN DIRTY ENVIRONS
EAT HEALTHY.

THIS TOPIC COVERS LAST THURSDAY ANC CLASS. WE WILL DISCUSS FURTHER IN OUR NEXT CLASS GOD WILLING.

CONGRATULATIONS ONCE MORE MOMMIES🫂💞

12/12/2025

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