Ecstatic Marriage Service

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hen you marry the right person, you feel complete.
When you marry the wrong person, life becomes unnecessarily hard.

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How to strengthen your relationship

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Most of the time we focus our attention on the things our spouse is not doing right, which usually bring tension and conflict into the home

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Happy Sunday Ecstatic Family ❤️

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Day 17: Peace During Conflict

Scripture: James 1:19
“Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”

Conflict is inevitable in marriage. Two different people with different backgrounds, emotions, and expectations will not always agree. However, conflict does not have to destroy peace. What determines whether peace is preserved or broken is how couples respond during disagreement.

James 1:19 gives us a powerful formula for peace: listen first, speak carefully, and manage anger wisely. Many conflicts escalate because couples are quick to defend themselves, quick to argue, and slow to truly listen. When listening is absent, misunderstanding grows, and unity suffers.

Listening is more than hearing words; it is seeking to understand your spouse’s heart, feelings, and perspective. When a spouse feels heard, tension reduces, walls come down, and solutions become possible. Listening communicates respect and love, even when you disagree.

Being slow to speak means choosing words that heal rather than wound. Harsh or careless words spoken in anger can damage trust and deepen conflict. Peaceful couples pause, pray, and respond with wisdom rather than reacting emotionally.

Being slow to anger does not mean suppressing feelings; it means controlling them. Anger that is unchecked can turn small issues into major battles. When couples manage anger with patience and humility, peace is protected.

Reflection:
During conflict, do you listen to understand or listen to reply? Ask God for the grace to listen with love, speak with wisdom, and respond with calmness. Remember, listening preserves unity, and unity sustains peace in marriage.

Prayer Points:
1. Lord, teach us to listen.
2. Remove anger.
3. Restore calmness.
4. Heal misunderstandings in Jesus name

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Kindly advice her

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10 Golden Rules for Happy Marriage

1. Never both be angry at the same time

2. Never bring up past mistakes

3. If you have to criticize, do it with love

4. Never go to sleep with an argument unresolved.

5. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.

6. Prioritize each other over the rest of the world.

7. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your spouse.

8. Say a kind word or give a compliment to your partner at least once a day.

9. When you are wrong, admit it and ask for forgiveness

10. Don’t let a day go by without praying together

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These golden rules never fail

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