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11/03/2024

ADVICE URGENTLY NEEDED.

I beg to hide my name, I am a man of 50 years old, my wife is 42, we have been married for 25 years , I am well educated and a business man doing well, my wife is a hairdresser, owing the best saloon in town.
After graduation. 26 years ago no job, I met my wife at a friend's engagement party, well exchange pleasantries, became friends, got engaged and married a year after.
My wife is an orphan,she inherited her parents property as the only child,we sold some of the properties and I used the proceeds to start business and today I am blessed.
We had one boy and two girls. In January this year my boy the 2nd born was sick ,it requires blood transfusion, I was told I can't donate for him our blood doesn't match.
One thing leads to another, out of curiosity I secretly demanded for DNA, it was NEGATIVE. He is not my boy. Less I forget, my business required me to travel for 4 months or more.
Since it's negative, I was forced to do it for my girls, first and last luckily it was negative.
I got confused. I haven't told my wife, if I divorce her for this reason I would lose my business because she is the reason behind my success.Who is the father of the boy? He later got a donor brought by my wife .He is well now and out of hospital.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?

10/06/2023

You left your husband because he was cheating.

You have a kid or two.

So you divorced because you were so pained.

You left.

With the kids.

You started working hard to cater for your needs. You work so hard, but it isn't enough.

To meet up with the growing economic demands, you find a wealthy man. He is rich. You dont care. You need to pay fees for your kids as a strong, independent woman. You need to prove that it can be done. So you're dating a wealthy married man.
You are now a side chic.

Then, you begin to think of the side chics your husband has and why he has them.

You do not even question the morality. You begin to understand why. Maybe they've got kids too. Mouths to feed, life to live.

It doesn't make sense still.

So you call the married man when he is home, and he hides to shout at you for wanting to disturb his peace with his "wife" as you ought to know when he is home.

You think of your hurts.

You think of your consolation.

At least you had a husband who was fully yours. He cheats, but he was fully yours.

So you attempt to find out what is going on with him now, but he is married again to a younger woman.

After you make contact, he comes to visit you and the kids. He drops some money once a while. The new wife is in charge now...

You connect on old times. You even had s*x.

He leaves to his house to his wife. You're now dating two married men. Both of them are cheating on their wives.

And then you say life wasn't fair to you.

As bad as this may sound, it happens. It is the reality of our time.

Wise people learn from the mistakes of others.

Don't leave ur peaceful abode (marriage) or relationship because he cheats.

It rains every where.

08/06/2023

E BAWA SALAYE!

08/06/2023

EJOWO EYIN OBIRIN E BAWA SALAYE KINNI ERU TI E MAA NDURO TI NILE OKO.

30/05/2023

Learn how to speak to your husband when he is angry.

MARRIAGE NEGATIVITY.Marriage negativity refers to the negative attitudes or perceptions that individuals have towards th...
21/05/2023

MARRIAGE NEGATIVITY.

Marriage negativity refers to the negative attitudes or perceptions that individuals have towards the concept of marriage. It is a prevalent issue in modern society, with many individuals viewing marriage in a negative light. Some reasons for this negativity include the high rates of divorce, lack of commitment, lack of understanding between partners, and a fear of commitment or change.

To help discuss marriage negativity, it’s important to understand why these negative attitudes exist and how they can affect relationships. It’s also important to remember that not all marriages end in divorce and that couples can make a successful marriage if both parties are willing to work together to build a strong foundation. Supporting each other and communicating effectively can go a long way towards fostering a positive marriage. In addition, having a strong network of friends and family to confide in and support you during difficult times is essential. Finally, it’s important to remember that marriage is not for everyone and that it’s perfectly okay to be content with staying single.

20/05/2023

Listen to advise from ADITU GRANDPARENTS.

19/05/2023

10 Thins that make marriage last longer.
1. Communication: A strong and honest communication between partners is important for a successful marriage.

2. Respect: Having mutual respect towards each other and their important to forgive each other for mistakes and imperfections.

4. Appreciation: Showing appreciation and gratitude towards each other helps build strong relationships.

5. Compromise: Both partners must be willing to compromise and make adjustments when needed.

6. Teamwork: Working as a team and respecting each others opinions will help keep the marriage alive.

7. Spice Things Up: Keeping things exciting by doing new activities together can help prevent monotony and boredom.

8. Financial Agreements: Discussing financial matters and working together towards common objectives such as budgeting and saving money is essential.

9. Quality time: Spending quality time together and focusing on enjoying each other’s company helps strengthen the bond between partners.

10. Friendship: Maintaining a strong friendship with one another will ensure that you always have each other’s back.

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