Solution to marital problem

19/06/2025

One day a woman wanted to know how her husband would react if she left without telling him where she had gone..

So she decided to write him a letter saying she is tired of him and didn't want to live with him anymore and after writing she put the letter on the table in the bedroom and then hid under the bed...

When the husband came back home, saw the letter and read it, he replied on the same paper and then began to sing and dance changing his clothes.

He got his phone, dialed a number then said:👇

"Hey babe, I am just changing clothes then will join you shortly as for the other foool, It has finally dawned on her that I was fooling around with her and she has left.
I was wrong, really wrong to have married her, I wish I had known you earlier.
See you soon honey!".
The husband walked out of the room and left.

The woman got very upset and started crying.
In tears she got out from under the bed and decided to go read what the husband had written on the letter.

He wrote "I could see your feet under the bed, I didn't make any phone call, I am just going to buy bread.
Stop your silly games, stand up and prepare me a meal.....
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH and would always do "

01/06/2025

Women be careful don't give out yourself so cheap to a man that does not value you

01/06/2025

S*x have a lot of value in woman's body

13/05/2025

21/04/2025

Lack of trust kills marriage 💯

21/04/2025

The WORST PRISON in the WORLD is a HOME without PEACE. Be careful who you MARRY or FALL IN LOVE with.

20/04/2025

Lack of respect kills marriage too much arguments kills marriage

15/10/2024

THE FIFTEEN RULES OF MARRIAGE

1. Before you see the wrong in your spouse, see also your wrong. It makes you fair and balanced

2. Before you correct your spouse, appreciate your spouse. It makes your correction better received

3. Before you accuse your spouse of something, have concrete proof. Too many people are accusing their spouse falsely based on feelings, suspicion and insecurities. If you have questions, ask without forming conclusions

4. Before you claim your spouse is distant, check if you have pushed him/her away

5. Before you claim your spouse is secretive, ask yourself if you are easy to talk to - calm, non-judgmental and empathetic

6. Don't protect a friend at the cost of hurting your spouse. It shows your spouse he/she has value. It is very easy to take your spouse for granted

7. Don't let how you treat your spouse be determined by how your spouse treats you. This only makes you hold back the best of your love and leads to tit for tat. Marriage is built by husband and wife both choosing to be the bigger person

8. Don't let a day go by without asking your spouse "How are you?" Or checking up on your spouse. It oils the marriage

9. Don't take a back seat and relax in marriage, your marriage will whither without effort. It takes being intentional to keep a marriage healthy and strong

10. Don't treat your spouse based on how your in-laws treat you. Your in-laws might not like you, but your spouse loves you

11. Do to your spouse what you want your spouse to do to you

12. Do love your spouse the way your spouse wants to be loved, not the way you think your spouse ought to be loved

13. Do the things you promised you would do. It makes your word more trusted and moves the marriage further

14. Do use your money, your phone, your success, your strengths to love on your spouse; not to hurt your spouse

15. Do make time for your marriage. Your old age as a couple will be shaped by how you invested time in your marriage over the years

13/07/2024

SECRET ABOUT WOMEN

1. When a woman is angry, she doesn't mean over half of what she says. If possible always hug her to calm her down.

2. The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves. She can get distressed.

3. It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change her mind when she does, but if you mess-up, you might just forget it.

4. A woman is such a school you will never graduate from.

5. Your wedding certificate with her is not a " Driving license", its just a "Learners permit". Continue wooing her.

6. She can be very bitter now, and a very sweet angel later on, it all lies in your approach. Yes treat her right always.

7. A woman hardly forget things, she remembers hurts more, avoid making her hurt. Avoid negative words and affirm her always.

8. A woman can be highly secretive. Most times when they prove hard to men, they go to their closet and cry to friends. Make your woman your best friend.

9. All women Love to be begged. Men often miss out on this. Yes please handle them like babies sometime its all they want.

10. All women have a unique character like salt, their presence might not be noticed but their absence makes all things tasteless.

11. If she loves you she can do everything you ask of her as far as it makes you happy, so never force her to love you.

12. If you don't take care of her, she will find someone who will. They are always there only that she chose you.

13. If a woman truly loves you, even to ask money from you she will be shy, but as a gentleman don't wait to be asked and most especially if she loves you she can never leave you to spend unnecessarily. That's what makes them special
If you have a good woman in your life, don't take her for granted. They are expensive jewelry. Don't hurt them cos there are many out there that wish to have someone like her

In every man success there must be a good honest Woman behind.

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13/07/2024

10 RULES OF S*X DURING DATING.

1. Don't sleep with a woman on the first day of seeing her naked body. Create an emergency and stop.

2. Don't sleep in a woman's house, whether it is your first night with her or the second or the last. Sleeping in her house is losing your power and control.

3. Use a condom on the first s*x attempt. Use a condom every day you have s*x until the day you decide to marry her. This is a MUST. Don't compromise on this.

4. The first s*x should be during the daytime. This allows you to understand her s*xual health and nature.

5. Talk vulgar deliberately. If she responds with vulgarity. End the relationship.

6. No s*x messages on WhatsApp or text. No nudes. Your inbox should always be as clean as a whistle.

7. Have a HIV test together as early as possible in the relationship. Remember, this is not a ticket for raw s*x. Some tests can turn out negative because of HIV treatment. This is called a false negative.

8. Find out if she is on any medication. Don't be a fool. Ask. Research.

9. If there is malodorous discharge on the condom, reprimand her. If there are traces of blood on the condom sheath, reprimand her. Don't be in a relationship with a woman who does not take care of her vaginal health.

10. Know her menstrual cycle. This will save you from being a slave of the state.

Take care of your p***s. This is your manhood. Don't sleep with anything in a skirt.

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13/07/2024

HOW TO FIRE UP YOUR S*X LIFE

1. Make sure your spouse never doubts your faithfulness. The number one impediment to a healthy s*x life is the thought of infidelity

2. Treat each other well when s*x is not the agenda. A healthy s*x life starts when you two are fully dressed, away from the bedroom

3. Do cheeky and naughty stuff together. Grab her butt when she least expects it, pass your hand on his p***s, rub each other on the ni***es without warning

4. Call it love making, don't call it having s*x. That gives it a heart

5. Avoid po*******hy. That makes you focus on each other and not depend on sounds and images from strangers to arouse you. It also makes you both feel special and heightens pure pleasure

6. Flirt together throughout the day. Send each other naughty messages. Turn each other on

7. Work on your look. Invest in lingerie, change your dressing to avoid monotony, stimulate visually

8. Use suggestive postures. Dance for and on your spouse. Lap dance, twerk, kata kiuno. Give each other an exclusive show

9. Maintain hygiene. Cleanliness will make you both look forward to licking, touching and love making. Put on attractive scents

10. Have bedroom make overs. Switch up the look in your bedroom from time to time. Change your environment. Avoid monotony

11. Focus on romance and sensuality. Talk heart to heart, cuddle, please each other, listen, do sweet things. Don't make the goal be an or**sm, make the goal be to make each other feel loved

12. Take it outside the bedroom. Don't make love only in the bedroom, do it in other rooms, book a hotel room, take a vacation, create new experiences

13. Take your time. Don't rush through love making unless it's a quickie. Make it special

14. Know that tomorrow is another day. Don't put pressure on yourselves incase the or**sm today comes too quickly or doesn't come at all. S*x is not a goal to score, lo******ng is about intimacy

15. Make out more. Kiss, touch, stroke, nibble on the ear lobe and neck, gently blow on each other if that brings pleasure. Focus not just on what is between the legs

16. Don't talk about your s*xual struggles and get stuck there. Act, no lamenting. Going on and on about how boring or little s*x you are having discourages the mind and s*x starts in the mind

17. Recap on how great the love making was. Talk about the sensations you made each other feel. This will boost your confidence and help you both know what things to keep on doing to give each other pleasure

13/06/2024

12 THINGS YOU MUST NOT DO AS SOON AS YOU GET MARRIED

By Pst Bisi Adewale

There are many things an unmarried person will do and go away with it, but once you are married, it comes with the repercussion that will hurt your marriage dearly and hurt people in your life. So once married you must not do the following:

1. STOP SPENDING TIME WITH OPPOSITE S*X ALONE : Once you are married you need to stop hanging out with opposite s*x. No matter how innocent this may look, it will hurt the one you are married and may even lead you into an illicit relationship that will hurt your marriage. As a rule, avoid opposite s*x once married, its a great way to honour your marriage vow and show respect to your spouse

2. STOP FLIRTING: Don’t ever flirt with anybody once married, don’t play with anybody’s emotion, you may not come out of it without hurting somebody.

3. BREAK ALL CONTACTS WITH YOUR EX

Break all contact with old boyfriends or girlfriends. You may need to delete some numbers, you may need to unfollow some people on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter. This show that you are responsible and truly committed to your marriage vow.

4. STOP NIGHT CHATTING
Stop night chatting with anybody male or female, if you must do it, it must be with the permission of your spouse and that must be very important and it must not happen often.

5. NEVER REMOVE YOUR WEDDING RING
Always put on your wedding ring, it shows you are responsible, committed to your marriage and ready to be faithful.

6. NEVER HIDE THINGS FROM YOUR SPOUSE .
You are to be totally open and Vulnerable to your spouse. No secrecy, no darkroom, no hidden agenda.

7. FLEE FROM P**N: Though, p**n is bad for everybody, it is worse for a married man or woman to be hook on p**n. P**n addiction had destroyed many homes, flee from p**n

8. NEVER SPEND UNACCOUNTED TIME WITH OPPOSITE S*X: Infidelity is not just about sleeping with someone else, it begins when you begin to spend time with opposite s*x which must not be open to your spouse.

9. FLEE CLUBBING: There is nothing beneficial in clubbing for a married man or woman, no matter your explanation for it, clubbing will hurt your marriage dearly.

10. AVOID ALCOHOL: Flee from alcoholic drinks, it hurts marriage, it encourages s*xual infidelity and violence in marriage.

11. AVOID NIGHT CRAWLING : Evening is the family time. Get back to your home in the evening, returning home by midnight and 1:00 am does not show you are responsible; it will hurt your marriage.

12. NEVER HAVE S*X WITH ANYONE ELSE

In marriage, you are only permitted to sleep with your wife or husband , you are not permitted to sleep with anybody else. Once you begin to sleep with anybody other than your spouse, it begins to hurt your marriage even if your spouse is not aware of it.

You will not fail in Marriage in Jesus name.