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12/05/2025

*EIDUL-ADHA {ILEYA} DONATION*

_Rosulullaah {Peace and Blessings of Allaah be upon him} said:_

من دال على الخير كفاعله

*"Whoever point anyone to Goodness, is like he or she did it (himself or herself)."*

*TARGET: ₦500,000*

_Let's endeavour to contribute immensely and also SHARE TO FRIENDS AND FAMILIES to earn more enormous rewards from Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. *Let's not postpone what you are to drop NOW to LATER. You never know what tomorrow holds for you.*_

*Bank Name: Better Half Marriage Consults*

*Account Number: 1000044582*

*Bank Name: Globus Bank*

*May Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala ease our Affairs*

*BHMC CHARITABLE FOUNDATION REPORTING*

_Do you have a Secret with Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala that nobody knows except Him?__Do you have a Sadaqah or Sadaqatun-...
05/03/2025

_Do you have a Secret with Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala that nobody knows except Him?_

_Do you have a Sadaqah or Sadaqatun-Jaariyah that you do solely for the Sake of Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala?_

_You can start this Ramadan *{The Month of Blessing}!!!*_

_Give charitably for the Sake of Allaah today! Only Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala knows if we will see each other tomorrow or the Next Ramadan *{May Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala sustain our life beyond Ramadan upon Khayr}*._

_"The best charity is that given in Ramadan". *(Tirimidhi,663).*_

_Donate generously, then share with family and friends to have a SECRET WITH ALLAAH too!!!_

08/08/2024

*₦5,000 and ₦1,000 received with Jazakumullaahu Khoyroo for the TWO WOMEN BILL IN HOSPITAL*

*AMOUNT NEEDED: ₦210,000*

*AMOUNT RECEIVED: ₦46,720*

*REMAINING AMOUNT: ₦163,280*

_Jazakumullaahu Khoyroo to the Donors as we are anticipating YOURS too._

_You are free to Contact the given numbers. And for the support ⤵️_

*Bank Name: BETTER HALF MARRIAGE CONSULTS*

*Account Number: 1000044582*

*Bank Name: GLOBUS BANK*

_For more enquiries on it, contact *08054241938 (Abu Unaysah) The CEO, BHMC Worldwide* or *08071913212 Mama TAP*_

*May Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala ease our Affairs and replenish our pocket financially.*

*BHMC CHARITABLE FOUNDATION*

05/07/2024

*URGENT ATTENTION......*

_As Salaamu Alaykum Waramotulahi Wabarokatuhu_

_May Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala ease our Affairs. At this trying period, a lot of people are experiencing difficulty in one way or the other, be it sickness, hunger, housing or others._

BHMC team recently visited an hospital where a Muslimah needs urgent attention Bi Idhnillaah. She previously had an accident where her leg was injured. It graduated to body pains and finally now arthritis was diagnosed which has now worsen the condition of both legs. *She needs series of TESTS and Drugs to be administered in other to get back on track again biidhnillah*

We also need substantial amount of money to another member with similar issue. May Allah not test us with sickness, poverty and hunger. These and many more drain health.

In the light of this, *the sum of ₦250,000 is needed for their treatments (ALL) [Two hundred and fifty thousand Naira only].* May Allah grant them quick recovery, sound health and success over those treatments. Aameen.

_For quick donation and the support ⤵️_

*Bank Name: BETTER HALF MARRIAGE CONSULTS*

*Account Number: 6565879393*

*Bank Name:Moniepoint MFB*

*For Verification, Contacts*

*1. 0706 877 1661 Abu Unaysah, The CEO, BHMC Worldwide*

*2. 08071913212 Mama TAP*

*May Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala ease our Affairs and replenish our pocket*

*BHMC CHARITABLE FOUNDATION*

_Sadaqa means charity given voluntarily in order to please Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. It is subdivided into 2. *Sadaqa ...
12/02/2024

_Sadaqa means charity given voluntarily in order to please Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. It is subdivided into 2. *Sadaqa (short term voluntary act and Sadaqotun-Jaariyah (long term voluntary act)*. Sadaqa also describes a voluntary charitable act towards others, whether through generosity, love, compassion or faith. These acts are not necessarily physical or monetary. Sadaqah Jariyah means 'voluntary charity'. It is sometimes called 'alms', which means giving something to someone in need. Sadaqah Jariyah is the act of voluntarily making a long-term charitable contribution that continues to benefit you or someone other than yourself. Be it alive or deceased._

_According to the definitions, as a wise person, you should know what to go for in doing the Sadaqa. What it is paramount in our society that some scholars point people to do Sadaqa but the short term ones like *Frying puff-puff, Akara, Mosa, or cooking rice or killing a cow for it*, but what is apparent is that the reward is gone or finished once they finished eating it. But Sadaqotun-Jaariyah is one that continues after even done it like *painting a mosque, buying kettles to the mosque, tugging or ticing the mosques, buying generator to the mosque, buying Qur'an and readable books to the mosque or even building a mosque itself*, all these are part of the Sadaqotun-Jaariyah for the person or on behalf of a deceased Ones._

_This is what we are calling you for this blessed month (check the flyer for more details). So far, we have realised *15 Qur'an and 10 Hisnul Muslim with additional ₦10,000 in the Bank (which can buy 2 Qur'an and 10 Hisnul Muslim) Bi Idhnillaah*. The account detail to pay to is there or you want to send Qur'an or Hisnul Muslim over, we are waiting for it._

*BHMC CHARITABLE FOUNDATION*

_*O you who believe! Spend out of what We have given you before the day comes in which there is no bargaining, neither a...
08/02/2024

_*O you who believe! Spend out of what We have given you before the day comes in which there is no bargaining, neither any friendship nor intercession, and the unbelievers -- they are the unjust*. [Qur'an 2 verse 254]_

_Ramadan is less than 33 days today. All we had raised so far is *₦19,500 ONLY*. It better to have something on ground for the beneficiaries than nothing when the month is right in front of us._

_We know the economy is a bit tight but Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala has His Way and Rahmah on us all. May Allaah ease our Affairs._

*BHMC CHARITABLE FOUNDATION*

_As we all know that doing Sadaqah is a good thing in Islam and it urge us to do it frequently and wisely. Cooking puff ...
05/02/2024

_As we all know that doing Sadaqah is a good thing in Islam and it urge us to do it frequently and wisely. Cooking puff or Akara is a day Sadaqah for our dead ones and those of us alive. Why not do a *Sadaqotun-Jaariyah (Continuous Alms) for your dead ones and those that are Alive so that their rewards be of continuous too._

_That's why BHMC is enacting this project for those who have the like mind to buy *Qur'an and Hisnul Muslim for Masaajids, schools, Orphanages, and where it will be needed on a daily usage to maximise those we do it on their behalf*. Why wait till RAMADAN comes. The door is open Now!!!_

_Read the flyer for more details (either you are giving CASH or items). We have realised *15 Qur'an so far and 10 Hisnul Muslim with an additional ₦5,000 in the bank for the project as of today*_

*BHMC CHARITABLE FOUNDATION*

May Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala sustain our Life beyond Ramadan.Ramadan is fast approaching and each and every one of us ...
25/01/2024

May Allaah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala sustain our Life beyond Ramadan.

Ramadan is fast approaching and each and every one of us is making preparation to witness it And be among those who will be forgiven within it.

It is a month of the Qur'an and it's equally good to do charity within it. This is why an opportunity of such is here for you. It is an opportunity for you also to do Sadaqotun-Jaariyah for your late parents or love ones.

You can donate Qur'an and Hisnul Muslim to Masaajids and Madaaris for students of knowledge to have access to it within RAMADAN and beyond.

The choice is YOURS!!!

27/08/2023

When will some of our single sisters stop living in hallucinations and face reality?! How would you be putting 'a brother living in abroad' as part of the conditions of marriage acceptance?! Where are the Islamic fundamentals again?! Do you think everyone living in Abroad is Ok?! Well, when you clock 48 years, you realize what we are saying!

Look, nobody isn't telling you not to dream big and live it if you have the opportunity but at least, let's be realistic for once. The way some muslim women (not only single sisters) are turning marriage to poverty alleviation program (through the way they think) is didactically frustrating and agonizing. Things are hard on willing, struggling and yet responsible brothers, don't add to it by setting unnecessary standard as a result of your own deluded fantasy.

This is why most of you have issues inside your marriage. You prioritize PhD, Masters and may be University graduates (including Islamic related Certificate) to others who may not have those qualifications but are better and are likely to be responsible than those who had nothing to offer except their certificates. When does marriage proposal becomes job applications where one would be flaunting his CV?! Majority are passing through a lots in their marriages cos of this. We need to reorientate our younger ones brothers and sisters alike.

How does acquiring those Islamic certificates, attending modrasah, attending Halaqoot, listening to Dr Lágbájá , Prof Tamedo & Shiekh Lakasegbe tantamount to being a good husband or wife?! My dear, don't cos of only that choose your life partner these days. Thousands is happening!

```Simple Solution!```
Let's all go back to the drawing boards.

How did the best of mankind advise us while about getting married?!

What is his/her ( intended spouse) relationship with Allāh and Rosuul?!

What are the necessary research to do about your future partner including his/her background and family?

Who are his companions, compatriots and advisers?! Everyone has a circus, circle and clicks even if he/she is alone.

Do yourself had patience with Allāh while engaging in your Istikhārah on the intended partner or you're just deceiving yourself?!

Did he/she actually apply practically, the Islamic and religious knowledge you think he/she possesses?!

Does he/she takes and accepts responsibilities concerning his/her family and everything around him/her? If yes, how does he reacts to issues around him?!

All these and others I may not mention now come first before checking his/her financial ability, properties, where he lives, certificates, her beauty, her shape, knowledge acquired and what have you!

If all these are put in place, we will drastically reduce issues relating to domestic violence of all kinds in our society bi izni Llah. When one fears Allāh and is responsible, others things are petty!

Unavoidably, we have some people who did all these and are still having issues in their marriage that (some) have even led to divorce. That's where the Qodar (predestination) comes in, in which none has power over. But one thing is, One's conscience would be cleared afterall.

The summary of everything is don't (especially sisters) misplace and misconstrue your priorities for ephemeral things!

May Almighty Allāh grant us success.

And Allāh knows best!

©️ Assoutudeen Abu Mubashir!

11/08/2023

_Assalamu Alaykum warahamtuLlaah wabarakatuhu._

_Glory be to Allaah._

_*RIGHTEOUSPATH CHARITABLE FOUNDATION* Inc with *BHMC CHARITABLE FOUNDATION.*_

_Allah says in the Holy Quran *"And certainly We shall test you with something of fear; hunger; loss of wealth, lives and fruits (or crops), but give glad tidings to the patient ones." (Quran, 2:155).*_

_Last night around 11pm, I received a distressed call from a friend whose wife is in labour after years of no child. As Allaah will have it, He answer there Dua after almost a decade of marriage!_

_Three months ago, he loses his job which he's struggling to get another one. Last night; the wife was rushed to the hospital as she's in labour._

_She need to undergo CS. The husband was called to meet them at the hospital from where is managing a guard work as night guard (Security). On his way going; he had an accident which he was rush to another hospital for treatment as he's in between life and death!_

_The wife is in pains after waiting for years of no child._

_They need *₦400,000* as the money with husband has being deposited for his treatment._

_We are soliciting for your assistance to save their lives._

_*Three lives are at stakes now😥!*_

_For your contribution for the sake of Allaah to safe their lives for the sake of Allaah. Pay into this account:_

_*Name:* Righteouspath Multipurpose Ventures._

_*Bank:* Wema._

_*Acct No:* 9010060755._

_*Or my account:*_

_Bilal Muhammad Abdulhafeez._

_Gtb._

_0017958665._

_JazakumuLlaahu Khayraan as you're intends to save them all Bi'idhniLlaah._

_*Aboo-l-Banaat RMV CEO SOKOTO and founder of RIGHTEOUSPATH CHARITABLE FOUNDATION.*_

18/07/2023

A REPOST

In public you will say you want a sister with sound Islam and aqeedah, but inside the inside of your mind you are thinking Aishwariyya, ‘Chelsea’ and ‘Arsenal’ (pun intended) How won’t there be a problem eventually?

Your appearance is Ustadh-like but your mind is a T junction of nudity and p**n. The Sister that said yes to you is coming with Halal vibes not knowing “your eye don tear”. The next thing you will hear is that “she is not good in bed”. She is not good abi you were too ashamed to request for a p**n star?

You want a brother who will hold your hands to jannah and wake you up for qiyamul layl. That was what you said when you were searching O. One humble modest Ustadh decides to propose, not knowing it is only your face that looks like ‘tear rubber’, your ‘odometer’ has seen thousands of kilometers already. They are the ones that will tell you your size is not good enough for them.

You see, all these can be avoided if you go out looking for your proper match. You know you have had many girlfriends that you have slept with, why not marry one of them? What is your business with looking for a decent girl for a wife that you will still cheat on because she can’t give you what you want? Who will marry all those ladies you used and dumped?

You have opened your legs for many boyfriends, why are you looking for a decent man to marry? When you know Jeep and G wagon have once packed in your ‘garage’, how exactly is a Corolla supposed to fit in (apologies to all corolla users)?

Reduce the pretentious presentation of piety during proposals. If you know you won’t be able to keep your corrupted mind and expectations in check then look for someone with whom you can satisfy those exaggerated desires and experiences. Don’t marry innocent persons and start trying to forcefully carve out your corrupt inclinations from them.

Abeg leave Ustadh alone, he may not know snake in the eagle’s shadow on bed (if such exists). Go and marry your type!

Abu Imrān

17/07/2023

It amazes me for someone who knows he or she will die and never prepare anything to give account to Allaah.

It amazes me for someone who knows marriage is Ibaadah (act of worship) and still act like KILOKANMI (wetin concern me) to his or her R³ = [Role + Responsibility + Rights].

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