Relationship Therapy with SA (2025)

08/10/2025

DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR SINGLES BY SARAH ADENIJI

WEDNESDAY, 8TH OF OCTOBER, 2025

PHYSICAL BEAUTY FADES

BIBLE TEXT: Prov. 31: 30

Prov.31.30 Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades. The woman to be admired and praised is the woman who lives in the Fear-of-GOD. (MSB)

Physical beauty can be a blessing; it can bring so much Favour to you, and make you appealing to the right people. Beauty is a gift of God to mankind.

So many matriarchs of the Bible were described as beautiful/attractive From Rebecca to Rachel, to Sarah, Esther, etc beautiful women have been weapons in the hands of the Lord to carry out His purpose.

However, we should understand that our beauty does not define our value and relevance. God created everyone in His image, and for His glory.

One characteristics of beauty is that it fades will time and is unreliable. It can also be deceptive because it is merely external and temporary.

Beauty is merely an outside packaging that does not define the value or personality of the carrier. It’s like the shell of the egg that can house a rotten and bad egg.

Are you defining people by how they look, and what they wear? You may be setting yourself up for disappointment.

MEMORY VERSE FOR THE DAY

1Pet.1.24 because "All flesh is as grass, And all the glory of man as the flower of the grass. The grass withers, And its flower falls away, (NKJV)

DECLARATION
I'm a son/daughter of God Most High, created in His image and for His glory. I understand that my value is not determined by how I look but by who I am. I’m a product of grace and created to manifest His glory. I’m the apple of my Father’s eyes Hallelujah.

©️SARAH ADENIJI
For Counseling reach out to SA on WhatsApp: +2347065336863. Email: relationshiptherapywithsa@gmail.com

07/10/2025

DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR SINGLES BY SARAH ADENIJI

TUESDAY, 7TH OF OCTOBER, 2025

TRUST THE LORD

BIBLE TEXT: Prov 3 :5-6

Prov.3.5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. (NLT)

Prov.3.6 Seek his will in all you do, and he will direct your paths. (NLT)

Sometimes it is hard to trust God, especially if His will does not make sense to us.

So many people find it difficult to trust God and His ways because it looks foolish to them at times. How can you explain a stick thrown into the river locating an axe made of iron? It doesn't make sense that a small jar of oil will fill several vessels either.

How do you explain Jesus asking those that came to him to fill several vessels with water when what they wanted was wine?

You see, it might not make sense to you, but if you decide to just trust Him anyways you'll get the results you desire.

Don't abandon God's will because you cannot explain it with your senses. Sometimes what He needs is our obedience to command the miraculous.

MEMORY VERSE FOR THE DAY

Jer.29.11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. (NKJV)

DECLARATION
I'm a son/daughter of God Most High, and I trust the command of my Father. I may not understand the process but I believe in the result of obedience. It might not make sense to me but if it is His will, then that is the way. I'm sold out to obeying my Father Hallelujah.

©SARAH ADENIJI
For Counseling reach out to SA on WhatsApp: +2347065336863. Email: relationshiptherapywithsa@gmail.com

06/10/2025

DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR SINGLES BY SARAH ADENIJI

MONDAY, 6TH OF OCTOBER, 2025

BE PASSIONATE ABOUT PURPOSE

BIBLE TEXT: Eccl 9 :10-16

Eccl.9.10 Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might; for there is no work or device or knowledge or wisdom in the grave where you are going. (NKJV)

So many Singles never get excited about anything. The first question to ask yourself once you come of age is "Why am I here?". God is not a God of waste, and there is purpose for every creation.

Once you prayerfully discover your purpose in life, you should dedicate your life to accomplishing it in style. Stand out in what you do, and as you do it differently people begin to notice your uniqueness.

You are not in this world to marry, procreate, and then go back to your creator. Every creation is a masterpiece, created to showcase the glory and excellence of God. Is God proud of you? Are you passionate about pursuing purpose and making your heavenly Father glad he created such a wonder?

MEMORY VERSE FOR THE DAY

Prov.31.31 Give her of the fruit of her hands, And let her own works praise her in the gates. (NKJV)

DECLARATION
I'm a son/daughter of God Most High, and l understand purpose and alignment. I excel excellently at what I do, and I do not settle for less. I'm the pride of my Father Hallelujah.

©SARAH ADENIJI
For Counseling reach out to SA on WhatsApp: +2347065336863. Email: relationshiptherapywithsa@gmail.com

04/10/2025

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04/10/2025

DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR SINGLES BY SARAH ADENIJI

SATURDAY, 4TH OF OCTOBER, 2025

BODY COUNT COUNTS

BIBLE TEXT: SOS 8:8-10

Song.8.8 [Gathered with her family and the wedding guests in her mother 's cottage, the bride said to her stepbrothers, When I was a little girl, you said] We have a little sister and she has no breasts. What shall we do for our sister on the day when she is spoken for in marriage? (AMP)

Song.8.9 If she is a wall [discreet and womanly], we will build upon her a turret [a dowry] of silver; but if she is a door [bold and flirtatious], we will enclose her with boards of cedar. (AMP)

Song.8.10 [Well] I am a wall [with battlements], and my breasts are like the towers of it. Then was I in [the king 's] eyes as one [to be respected and to be allowed] to find peace. (AMP)

So many Singles believe they have to explore s3x before marriage. They believe having s3x with multiple partners is a way to test s3xual compatibility.

The world is filled with Christian Single brothers and sisters that have brought harm to their souls. Locked in their memories is their past escapades, and many have been troubled by this in marriage.

So many Christians experience s3xual boredom, dissatisfaction in marriage, and a yearning for a taste of past promiscuity that has made them desecrate their marital vows.

God in His wisdom made s3x and sanctified it. It is to be enjoyed by two people bound by marital vows, and sealed by a covenant. S3x strengthens marital bond, and it's a way to procreate as God intended for human race.

So many Christian Singles believe "body counts does not count" and "nobody has to know about the wild things you did before marriage". I want to assure you that God knows, when you violate His covenant it can be the reason you lose your peace in marriage.

Apart from STDS, unwanted pregnancies, and violation of conscience, having several body counts before marriage is one of the ways to build your marriage on faulty foundations.

MEMORY VERSE FOR THE DAY

Eccl.11.9 Rejoice, O young man, in your youth, And let your heart cheer you in the days of your youth; Walk in the ways of your heart, And in the sight of your eyes; But know that for all these God will bring you into judgment. (NKJV)

DECLARATION
I'm a son/daughter of God Most High, and I have chosen to live in obedience. I understand the sanctity of s*x, and believe my body is the temple of God. I refuse to build memories that will take away my peace in marriage. I'm an obedient child of God Hallelujah.

©SARAH ADENIJI
For Counseling reach out to SA on WhatsApp: +2347065336863. Email: relationshiptherapywithsa@gmail.com

03/10/2025

DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR SINGLES BY SARAH ADENIJI

FRIDAY, 3RD OF OCTOBER, 2025

TRANSACTIONAL LOVE

BIBLE TEXT: SOS 8:9

Song.8.7 Flood waters can't drown love, torrents of rain can't put it out. Love can't be bought, love can't be sold--it's not to be found in the marketplace. (MSB)

So many single brothers believe they can get any woman that catches their fancy, so far they have enough money to impress her. The concept of buying love has always being a danger to the concept of love itself.

Sisters that see men proposing love as their provider have continued to abuse the original purpose of love as intended by God.

If we remove money, and provision from your relationship what will you have left? Two people that cannot stand each other because they can no longer meet their financial needs? You have to think deeply about this.

As a young lady seeking true unadulterated love, do not allow your decision of who to marry be influenced by promise of financial gains? If you make money your reason for giving out your love, you can no longer love your partner in marriage when there is financial difficulties.

Single brothers should desist from trying to impress sisters with money and gifts while proposing a relationship, you want her to love you not your pocket.

MEMORY VERSE FOR THE DAY

Heb.13.5 Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, "I will never leave you nor forsake you." (NKJV)

DECLARATION
I'm a son/daughter of God Most High, and my Father is Love. I give and receive pure unadulterated love that is free from covetousness. I do not buy love or sell love because I believe love is not transactional. I'm the true child of my Father Hallelujah.

©SARAH ADENIJI
For Counseling reach out to SA on WhatsApp: +2347065336863. Email: relationshiptherapywithsa@gmail.com

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02/10/2025

DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR SINGLES BY SARAH ADENIJI

THURSDAY, 2ND OF OCTOBER, 2025

NONE SHALL LACK HER MATE

BIBLE TEXT: Isaiah 34: 16

Isa.34.16 "Search from the book of the LORD, and read: Not one of these shall fail; Not one shall lack her mate. For My mouth has commanded it, and His Spirit has gathered them. (NKJV)

Many Singles have cried themselves to sleep asking God this question "When will I marry?"

So many single ladies have wept while taking to me on the phone, "Sis Sarah, I'm approaching 30 and there is no man asking for my hand in marriage". A brother once approached me for counseling and said "Sis Sarah, I have a good life and I am financially buoyant, why can't I find a virtuous woman to marry?"

Some of those singles asking those questions are married today to the glory of God. These answers you are looking for about your appointed time for marriage, and whether you'll get someone to marry is in the scripture.

God has assured His children that none shall lack his or her mate. If you desire marriage as a Child of God you just need to tell your Father, and prepare for it in Faith.

Your heavenly Father is working behind the scene to ensure that all His children are gloriously settled.

MEMORY VERSE FOR THE DAY

1Pet.5.10 But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle you. (KJV)

DECLARATION
I'm a son/daughter of God Most High, and my Father cares about my needs. I believe in glorious settlement and divine timing so I do not give in to anxiety. My Father has promised that I won't lack my mate, and He doesn't fail. I'm on my way to glorious settlement Hallelujah.

©SARAH ADENIJI
For Counseling reach out to SA on WhatsApp: +2347065336863. Email: relationshiptherapywithsa@gmail.com

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01/10/2025

DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR SINGLES BY SARAH ADENIJI

WEDNESDAY, 1ST OF OCTOBER, 2025

WINGS LIKE EAGLES

BIBLE TEXT: Isaiah 40: 29-31

Isa.40.29 He gives power to those who are tired and worn out; he offers strength to the weak. (NLT)

Isa.40.30 Even youths will become exhausted, and young men will give up. (NLT)

Isa.40.31 But those who wait on the LORD will find new strength. They will fly high on wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary. They will walk and not faint. (NLT)

Are you surrounded by obstacles, challenges, and limitations? Have you lost hope of ever getting married, getting a good job, finding finance for your business, having your own child, getting healing from sicknesses/diseases etc?

Do you know that the darkest part of the night precedes the bursting forth of light of a new day? You shouldn't give us because you are closer to breakthrough than you think.

Ask and receive new strength today. The best channel to get new strength is through waiting on God, so do not forget to intensify your prayer time, word study time, praise time, and personal fellowship time.

You are about to experience speed like never before, because God has promised to give you wings like that of an eagle.

MEMORY VERSE FOR THE DAY

Isa.40.31 But those who wait upon GOD get fresh strength. They spread their wings and soar like eagles, They run and don't get tired, they walk and don't lag behind. (MSB)

DECLARATION
I'm a son/daughter of God Most High, and my Father has the best planned for me this new month. I receive fresh strength as I wait on God this month, and I receive speed in all areas of my life. I fly higher because He has chosen to give me eagles wings Hallelujah.

©️SARAH ADENIJI
For Counseling reach out to SA on WhatsApp: +2347065336863. Email: relationshiptherapywithsa@gmail.com

30/09/2025

DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR SINGLES BY SARAH ADENIJI

TUESDAY, 30TH OF SEPTEMBER, 2025

THE GOLDEN RULE

BIBLE TEXT: Matthew 7: 12

Matt.7.12 So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets. (NIV)

The first rule about how you treat others is simple "treat others how you want to be treated".

The world is full of people dumping hate, disrespect, and hurt on others, and you'll think Christians should be different.

Several Singles play around with other people's spouses, dump hate and disrespect on others, and expect them to accept just any treatment because after all, "they are Christians and should persevere".

Every word and deed of yours is a seed, and whatever seed you sow will be reaped by you in multiple folds.

Think deeply before treating others unfairly, would you be happy if you were treated same way?

MEMORY VERSE FOR THE DAY

Mark.12.31 And the second, like it, is this: "You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' There is no other commandment greater than these." (NKJV)

DECLARATION
I'm a son/daughter of God Most High, and I understand that love is the language of the kingdom. I treat others with kindness and fairness because that is how I want to be treated. I'm the salt of the world Hallelujah.

©️SARAH ADENIJI
For Counseling reach out to SA on WhatsApp: +2347065336863. Email: relationshiptherapywithsa@gmail.com

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29/09/2025

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29/09/2025

DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR SINGLES BY SARAH ADENIJI

MONDAY, 29TH OF SEPTEMBER, 2025

YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU CONFESS

BIBLE TEXT: NUMBERS 13: 27-33

Num.13.28 But the people living there are powerful, and their cities and towns are fortified and very large. We also saw the descendants of Anak who are living there! (NLT)

Num.13.30 But Caleb tried to encourage the people as they stood before Moses. "Let's go at once to take the land," he said. "We can certainly conquer it!" (NLT)

Num.13.31 But the other men who had explored the land with him answered, "We can't go up against them! They are stronger than we are!" (NLT)

So many Christians are full of negativity, they see and confess insurmountable challenges anywhere they see opportunities.

They are afraid to possess the promises God has for them because they are full of fear. They focus their eyes on the challenges around them and see only what they cannot do instead of what GOD can do.

So many have settled for less instead of the best God has prepared for them because they they focused on their weaknesses instead of God's strength.

Are you always confessing negativity? If your heart is filled with all the "I can't" you can think of it will flow over to your lips, as you begin to confess them you begin to possess them because there is power in your confession.

Condition your heart and your eyes to see possibilities, as you confess them you possess them. Make positive confession every day, and ensure you speak what you want to see. Remember Ezekiel? God encouraged him to speak life into dead bones and they rose again.

MEMORY VERSE FOR THE DAY

Ezek.37.7 So I spoke these words, just as he told me. Suddenly as I spoke, there was a rattling noise all across the valley. The bones of each body came together and attached themselves as they had been before. (NLT)

DECLARATION
I'm a son/daughter of God Most High, and I know there is no limitations to my Father's abilities. My mouth is conditioned to speak positively and I posses them as I confess them. Everything that is created by my Father begin to obey me because I carry the light of His presence. I'm the light of the world Hallelujah.

©SARAH ADENIJI
For Counseling reach out to SA on WhatsApp: +2347065336863. Email: relationshiptherapywithsa@gmail.com

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