Family Issues and Solutions

25/07/2025

Congratulations to Iyabo Ojo.

This is good News. May the Lord bless and protect the family.

Things of joy will not seize in our lives in Jesus name, amen.

25/07/2025

23/07/2025

"My wife diæd cuz Of my Pride😭😭🤦🏼‍♂️
Wifey & I had a little argument over breakfast on a Monday morning while we were both preparing for the day’s job. My annoyance was with the way she spread the butter on the bread that morning, it was quite rough & not pleasing to the eyes though I corrected her with my voice sounding like a thunder all over the room but I never knew it would lead to this, if I had known, I would have overlooked & ate the bread without uttering a word after all, I still ate it at last😭🤦🏼‍♂️

Hearing the way I rose my voice at her, really made her mad & she left the dinning without having breakfast that morning & off she went to work without me that day, not even saying goodbye to each other. I was mad, she was mad too & our mistake was that none of us was willing to come to like terms. We returned from work that evening without talking to each other, we had dinner separately & went to bed without exchanging pleasantries.

Tuesday came & passed on, so was Wednesday & Thursday morning. Thursday evening at dinner, she said “hi” but I was too proud to respond so, I mumbled on my meal & left the table hurriedly but all along, she was simply smiling at her “Baby Husband “. Wifey is truly a great beauty to behold. Her smiles melts every tough heart so in a bid to avoid “falling that”, I hurriedly left the table.

If at all we’ll end this war, she’ll be the one to say sorry, not me. I won’t let her beauty lure me into saying sorry – these I murmured as I left the dinning to the bedroom but she kept on smiling. She got into the room & straight she went into the bathroom, while bathing she kept singing.

If we were in good terms, I’d have sang along since that was my favorite song but my pride robbed me the opportunity to end the drama I had with her.

Before she could get to bed that night I was fast asleep. It was some minutes past 3am that Friday morning when I felt her hands on my body tapping me non stop. I quickly pushed her hands away & got myself covered with the blanket. Sincerely, I thought she was tapping me just to get into Jerusalem, I never knew that would be the last time I’ll feel her touch😭🤦🏼‍♂️

I fell asleep in the process & woke up 15 mins past 7am & I quickly dived into the bathroom cos we were almost late for work, I woke up got dressed, had breakfast & Wifey was fast asleep still, my pride never gave me the opportunity to talk to her so I left her in bed & off I went to work.

Long story cut short, I returned home on Friday evening meeting virtually everything at the same spot I left it that morning. The doors were wide open, the table was left unkept. A cold chill ran through my vein. I dived for the stairs, having my Wife in heart. On getting to the room, the door was wide open, Wifey was still in bed & at the same position I left her before leaving the house that morning.

My phone fell from my hand as I muttered indistinctly rushing towards her…”Baby” I stuttered as my hands went all over her. Her body was cold😭😭😭

Unknowingly, I peed on my trousers instantly. I placed my head on her chest & realized she wasn’t breathing…I shouted the name of Jesus at the top of my voice as I brought her closer to me having her in my arms. My Baby was gone already. There was no lìfe in her. Her body was terribly cold.

It was still like a movie to me not until her body was being laid to rest; at that moment I realized my Wife d"'d on my bed. I couldn’t cry nor laugh, my head was spinning like I was going to go mæd anytime soon. I feel terrible on the inside, if only I could turn back the hands of time😭😭🤦🏼‍♂️

Wifey was asthmatic. When she was tapping me that morning, she was having a crisis which only her inhaler could solve. She was probably tapping me to help get it for her but my pride kept me away😭😭

I lost the Woman I truly love to the cold hands of dth carelessly. Ah! If there was no quarrel that morning my beautiful Wife will still be among the living today. It’s been 3 cold weeks she left. My world is shattered! I am void of love if only I could turn back the hands of time, I would have right my wrong!

I stand here to say that, I'm truly sorry Stella, I'm sorry, I'm sorry darling 😭😭😭😭😭😭

Bottom Line:
Dear courting & married people, please learn from my mistake . Never should you let the night fall without settling that misunderstanding between your spouse & you. Never give the D- vll a chance to prove himself in your home & relationship. Your spouse is your partner, not your competitor. No one has ever been awarded for being the best grudge keeper. Wise people keep their home & relationship, careless people gives the devil a chance to prove himself.

Choose wisdom over anger today, i cry as i write this 😭😭🤦🏼‍♂️"

21/07/2025

London Woman Dies in Turkey Cosmetic Clinic Tragedy: Organs Missing After BBL Surgery

A 37-year-old woman, Kaydell, passed away in Istanbul, Turkey, after undergoing a full-body makeover surgery, which included a tummy tuck, breast lift, and Brazilian Butt Lift (BBL). Her family was left devastated upon discovering that her autopsy revealed missing organs, including pieces of her brain, heart, lungs, and intestines.

Kaydell had taken advantage of a discounted cosmetic surgery package in Istanbul, which included free airfare and accommodation. Her sister, who accompanied her for support, waited for hours while Kaydell was in surgery. Clinic staff repeatedly assured her sister that the procedure was almost complete. However, the unexpected news of Kaydell's death during surgery left her sister in shock.

The clinic offered a refund and a return plane ticket to the grieving sister but provided no explanations. The clinic's surgeon denied any wrongdoing and claimed that no organs were removed. However, the post-mortem results contradict this assertion.

Gauteng World Media News

21/07/2025

School owners, parents, be careful with the teachers you employ. Make sure you get every detail about your employees. School owners, make sure you get involved in any birthday celebrations in your schools. Parents, teach your children how to reject some offers or bring anything given to them home by a stranger. My daughter brought a cake back from school on Friday, July 11th, from a teacher who had her birthday party. Immediately after my kids returned home, we packed our bags, heading to the village for my uncle's burial, and that Friday was the last day of their exams. My 7-year-old daughter brought the cake back and showed it to me. I told her to keep it in the kitchen; I would pray before they ate it, as usual. After all was set and done, by the time we left the house, we forgot the cake. My children remembered it on our way, and I told them I would tell their dad to get it the next day. My husband refused to bring it.

Returning and opening my child's flask to wash it, I found something that looked like dried meat (suya) instead of cake. I took a picture of it and put it back in my baby's lunch box. My husband and I went to the school to report it. After we reported it, the proprietor pleaded that we shouldn't involve the police until he hears from the teacher. My husband refused, fearing she might escape, while the proprietor doubted it. Since then, the teacher has not been found. The worst part is that we haven't heard any bad news from the parents of other children who ate it, and thankfully, my child didn't eat the cake, but I suspect that initiation may have occurred with the other children. The proprietor told us not to inform other parents since we haven't seen the teacher and nothing has happened to the pupils.

I refused, and my husband told me that I should never let anyone know about it because the teacher is nowhere to be found. Even the certificate of the person she submitted, who looks like her, indicates that she died 12 years ago. When a call was made to one of the references in her CV, it was confirmed that the person in the CV died 12 years ago. My husband wanted to go further with the investigation, but as soon as they said she died, he backed off and asked me never to say anything about this case. By next term, my kids would no longer attend that school again.

I just want to know if the steps my husband took were the right ones.
and we are trying to send my children on holiday in the village while we relocate to another place so that my children's friends who ate the cake wouldn't visit us.

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20/07/2025

I just remembered how badly I was treated by my own younger sister because she was successful and married a rich man while I married a no body according to her and my mom.

She could call me on the phone and said I should give mama the phone without asking about how we are faring my kids and I, because things got so difficult I had to go and stay with my mom till we have money to renew our rent.

Money wasn't forth coming. The next thing I heard from hubby was that he's sorry he can't do it anymore. He abandoned us with my mom. I suffered alone. My mom would call old m*en in the village to come and marry me and give her money that my husband has left me. She could give my 6 year old boy a big portion of farm to work on before he eats. I started working in people's farm. So we won't be dependent on her.

Two years later I heard hubby is now very rich married to a rich woman. Note that he only paid small things to my family and marry me. When he left we had three kids, thanks God for miscarriage it would have been four. Though I miss my child so much but it's still good because he would have suffered so much. P*or people business na to put belly and carry belle🤣
No mind me, if one has the ability to cater for his or her kids why not?

There was a time my sister and her children came to spend the Christmas with my mom in the village, I saw shege promax😭

My own sis brought so many food items. Money name them, beverages. Oh o. Every morning she , mama and her kids would make cereals , buy big loaves and eat while I and my children will just watch. When we are tired my son would go into the bush to look for crickets for his brother and sis to eat. They would smoke it on the fire and eat. My sis stayed for almost two months and only went back when her husband came back from overseas. She never one day relate with me as her sister. Never one day give my children anything. I tried being close to her but to no avail. Most nights I stayed awake crying with my children. If my husband was with me, maybe it wouldn't get to this extent, but being alone with three kids everyone thought I was cursed or a big failure.

My six year old son then would say mommy stop crying let's enter the bush tomorrow very early in the morning we may see crickets, ( insects) most times I buy Garri and they drink with their crickets happily,. Before my mom would cook food and dish for me and my children know that something has happened, some times a month or two before she does that. My sister's kids would play cheerfully with my kids but my own sis would buy biscuits just for her kids leaving my kids behind.

Most times I tried tak**"in*g my lif*e in forests, but each time I remember how hardworking my boy is I stopped. I thought of how difficult things will be with them.

I stayed with my mom in the village for 4 years. My complexion changed. Do you know that there is p**overty complexion? 🤣😂🤣
That was my complexion.

I became extremely thin. But what am thankful for till date is that I did not live a wayward life. I ha*t*ed men.

December 1st 2012 is a day I will never forget in my entire life. I left to town with my kids and was determined to sleep on the street if that is what God wants for us. Instead of continuing to face humiliation in the village. I sold my phone because it was of no use to me. I went to a friend I knew back then but she had moved from there but good enough, another lady occupied her room, we spent the night there. In the morning I told her all I have been through. While I was telling her my mine was like this lady does not have much how will she even help me? I told her everything that morning. In the evening she asked me if I can say exactly all I said in the morning? I said yes. She recorded everything I said. I didn't know why. It was days later that she told, that she recorded my voice and sent to her boss. Her boss owns a bakery and needed someone to work there as a cleaner. I started working for her boss a Yoruba woman. She gave me an apartment to sleep with my kids still inside the bakery. Still in the bakery I met the man who married me traditionally and in the church. He is a father of one. Our wedding was a big one, trust Yoruba guys na😂

I live in one of the biggest mansion in Lagos. My husband is the only son/child of his parents. Before my father in-law died he gave me three lands in Ogun State with my name. He said I will always remain his daughter not a daughter inlaw. If you know how big Ogun lands are, yeah that's what i mean. My kids are going to expensive schools. My kids father is in his village right now. He begs for money often and whenever I decide to help him I make sure my husband is aware of that. I have never visited him. I don't have any romantic feeling for him anymore and nothing will ever take me back to him. My husband is like my brother. We are so attached to each other. His daughter is my love, if I don't tell you she's from another woman you won't know. Same with my kids and my husband.

My madam brought my husband to me. The first day she introduced him to me as her son, she practically carried my hand and placed on his hand. That speaks allot. And right from that day we became one. He did not marry me to come and start having children, we are okay with our four children. My mother inlaw does not play with me and our children.

Back to the day I left the village, my mom called her beloved rich daughter that I have gone with my children because I told her that morning. My sis said better for them.

But as am typing this my mom is in my mansion, eating guava and carrots.

She apologized after I made it in life according to them. She said it was the dev*iii. My sis and her kids came for holiday last year, I gave them the kind of treatment they never had in their entire life. They stayed for three weeks all expenses was on my husband. She cried while leaving and throughout her stay she kept crying and asking for my forgiveness.

I have three businesses I run on my own, excluding our family businesses.

The only thing that is constant in life is change.
Nothing else is constant.

18/07/2025

Amen

17/07/2025

Cheating isn't just about being with someone else physically.

Sometimes, it's the little things that cause the most damage.

If you're texting someone you know your partner wouldn't be okay with
If you're deleting messages or hiding your browsing history
If you're flirting or talking to others just to feel noticed

That still counts as cheating.

These actions might seem small at first,
but they slowly break trust and create distance.

Loyalty isn't about being good only when your partner is around.
It's about staying true even when no one is watching.

You can't build something real with someone
who is still searching for attention from others.

You deserve a relationship filled with honesty, effort, and respect.
Not one that makes you feel unsure or second best.

15/07/2025

🙏🙏🙏

15/07/2025

Thanks for being a top engager and making it on to my weekly engagement list! 🎉 Oriyomi Temidayo, Aderopo Alexander Adesida