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“Some of the deepest wounds come from what you needed and never received. Healing starts when you realise what hurt you ...
05/05/2025

“Some of the deepest wounds come from what you needed and never received. Healing starts when you realise what hurt you wasn’t just what was done, but what was also missing.”

Join me as we discuss about unseen wounds that need to be addressed for your healing to be complete. Happening here on Thursday by 6pm.

Registration for Trauma 2 Thriving Course is online.

Today by 12pm, I’ll be talking about how you can turn your emotional pain into a real growth.You don’t have to drown or ...
25/04/2025

Today by 12pm, I’ll be talking about how you can turn your emotional pain into a real growth.

You don’t have to drown or sink in pain, you can find the light to come out and become stronger again.

See you by 12pm

My Experience with an Uber Driver & The Truth About ManhoodA couple of years ago, I ordered an Uber, and as we drove tow...
11/04/2025

My Experience with an Uber Driver & The Truth About Manhood

A couple of years ago, I ordered an Uber, and as we drove towards my house, the driver shared a deeply moving story.

He had lost his job, and while he was struggling to find work, his wife had a stable job and a supportive family. But what struck me the most was their closeness—even in difficult times, they remained deeply connected. They were intentional about their love, supporting each other wholeheartedly.

Then, he shared an interesting experience.

There was an older man in his neighborhood who frequently visited him. One day, this man found him washing dishes and immediately began lecturing him:

“Men are not supposed to do house chores. Your wife will take you for granted.”

The Uber driver admitted that, for a moment, he considered stopping his acts of service. But then he thought:
“My wife works all day and provides for our home. Shouldn’t I also contribute where I can?”

His conviction remained strong, and he continued partnering with his wife at home. Unknown to him, this older man had other intentions.

Later, the driver’s wife’s family saw his humility and devotion and decided to support him. They raised money for him to buy the car he now used for Uber, among other things that helped stabilize their family.

But here’s the plot twist!

One day, he visited this same older man and caught him washing his wife’s clothes! He was stunned and asked, “Why are you doing this when you told me never to help my wife at home?”

The older man was speechless.

This story carries a powerful lesson—many of the traditional mindsets about manhood are rooted in control, not truth. Some men discourage other men from being loving and supportive, yet behind closed doors, they practice the very things they criticize.

It’s time for men to liberate themselves from unhealthy stereotypes and embrace true leadership, responsibility, and partnership in marriage.

This is exactly why I wrote How to Lead Her with Love—to help men unlearn toxic patterns, embrace God’s original design for manhood, and build marriages rooted in love, respect, and connection.

If you’re a man or know a man who needs this shift in perspective, this book is for you.

It’s available in ebook and Prints and you can get your copy here: www.nikefolagbade.com/leadher

Perfectly correct!I genuinely believe there are two categories of men in this generation: 1. The ones who think women ha...
08/04/2025

Perfectly correct!

I genuinely believe there are two categories of men in this generation:
1. The ones who think women have to be oppressed, intimidated, or controlled into submission.
2. And the ones who understand the power of service, selflessness, and nurturing.

Whichever category a man falls into, it often comes down to modeling, societal parenting, conditioning, and knowledge.

I truly believe marriages thrive when both partners respect each other and create room for one another to flourish. But let’s be honest—it’s heartbreaking and frustrating when a woman is left to carry the emotional and mental load of a marriage all by herself.

That’s why I’m so encouraged to see men rising up and having these conversations for themselves. And it’s part of why I believe so strongly that God led me to write this book.

This book is for every man who wants to love well, lead with grace, and grow into the man his family needs.

You don’t want to miss it.
It will teach you how to lead your wife in love.
It will help you understand the true power of headship and connection.
It will transform you from the inside out—so you can lead your life and family with wisdom and strength.

Grab your copy today. You’ll be glad you did.

Get your copy via the link in bio or www.nikefolagbade.com/leadher

“Deliverance without healing is like cutting weeds without removing the root, it always grows back.”“Most deliverances f...
07/04/2025

“Deliverance without healing is like cutting weeds without removing the root, it always grows back.”

“Most deliverances fail not because the spirits are too strong but because the soul is still bleeding.”

Most deliverances are not successful because the trauma element has not been dealt with. You see, many times, people carry deep pain in their hearts—years of rejection, negative circumstances, abandonment, neglect, verbal abuse, physical abuse, and sexual molestation. All of this gets stored in the soul. And without knowing it, the heart begins to recondition itself to believe, “Nobody cares,” “The world is not safe,” “I can’t trust anyone.” These beliefs are not just emotional echoes; they are spiritual invitations.

Every time you speak to yourself from that place of pain—saying things like “I’m unworthy,” “Nobody loves me,” or “I’m not good enough”—you are not just expressing hurt. You’re opening doors. Spiritual doors. Demonic spirits feed on these permissions. This is why someone can go for deliverance ten times and still end up bound in the same cycle because the legal ground—the trauma—has not been addressed.

I have seen people carry spirits of anger, paranoia, depression, and suspicion around for years. And when you now add generational trauma, unrepented family patterns, and inherited belief systems to this mix, the result is a life that’s spiritually and emotionally complicated. No oil or laying of hands can fix what you’re not willing to confront.

Deliverance can be successful when the minister understands the power of pain and is willing to walk the person through their history—to go to the root of the trauma. That’s when deliverance becomes a two-in-one journey: a healing and deliverance encounter. And this is why trauma is such a big deal. Almost everyone walking the earth today has experienced one form of trauma or the other. How you handle it determines how whole you become.

Whether you are a spiritual leader, a singer in church, or even a psychologist, if you’ve gone through pain and haven’t dealt with it, chances are you have a spiritual and psychological issue tangled up together.

In the Healing from Trauma webinar on April 20th, I’ll be showing you how to recognize trauma, how it opens doors in the spirit, and how to walk into true healing. Join us—it’s free. The link is www.bloomnestcompany.com/traumaclass

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