Marriage is a vocation

18/06/2025

Father Kendra Ikechukwu Etegene 25th priestly ordination celebration. We love you father. God bless you and keep you safe in Jesus mighty name amen 💖🙏

26/05/2025

28/04/2025

Justice Served, But at What Cost? Reflections on Domestic Violence and the Osinachi Case

The recent judgment by the FCT High Court, sentencing Late Osinachi's husband to death by hanging for culpable homicide, has sparked widespread reactions. While justice has been served, the case raises critical questions about domestic violence, relationships, and the consequences of abuse.

The Importance of Recognizing Red Flags

The tragic outcome of this case underscores the importance of recognizing red flags in relationships. If Osinachi had left the marriage when the abuse began, her life might have been saved. This serves as a stark reminder for individuals in abusive relationships to prioritize their safety and well-being.

The Need for Accountability

The court's decision sends a strong message about accountability in cases of domestic violence. It highlights the need for severe punishment for offenders, ensuring that those who perpetrate such heinous acts are held responsible.

Comparing Penalties for Crimes

The comparison between penalties for domestic violence-related crimes and other serious offenses like r**e, pe******ia, and terrorism warrants further discussion. Should punishments be similar? What message does this send to potential offenders?

Prioritizing Healthy Relationships

The Osinachi case emphasizes the importance of healthy relationships. When relationships turn toxic, it's essential to prioritize one's safety and well-being. The mantra "Women Choose Yourselves" resonates deeply, highlighting the need for self-preservation and awareness.

Conclusion

As we reflect on this case, it's crucial to recognize the value of life and the importance of healthy relationships. By speaking out against domestic violence and supporting those affected, we can work towards creating a safer, more supportive environment for all.

Okoye Sunday,
Writer, Poet, Playwright, Author The Vase, Co-Founder: Activate Teen Initiative.

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08/03/2025

Happy International Women's Day to all my incredible sisters around the world! Today, we celebrate ourselves - our strength, resilience, and unwavering determination. We honor our own contributions, big and small, that have made our world a better place.

From the mothers who nurture and care for their families, to the leaders who break glass ceilings and pave the way for others, to the everyday heroes who show up with kindness and compassion - we see ourselves, we appreciate ourselves, and we celebrate ourselves!

Our presence in this world has made a profound impact. We've brought joy, love, and light into the lives of those around us. We've challenged ourselves and others to be better versions of ourselves. And we've inspired each other to strive for a more equitable and just society.

So on this special day, I want to say thank you. Thank you to myself and to all the women who have come before me, who have paved the way for me to be here today. Thank you for being bold, fearless, and unapologetic. Thank you for making a difference in our world.

Here's to us, the women who are changing the game, pushing boundaries, and redefining what's possible!

Warm regards,
Adesua Mary Okoye
Author and Mother

31/01/2025

VALENTINE'S WISHES

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With Valentine's Day just around the corner, I want to hear from YOU!

What's your heart's desire this Valentine's season? Is it a romantic getaway, a special gift, or something more?

Share your wishes with me in the comments below!

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31/01/2025

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12/01/2025

22 years and counting! Happy 22 years wedding anniversary to us.

01/01/2025

Happy new year! God bless you and keep safe! Happy new year from hubby and me! My wedding anniversary is loading, watch out!

03/12/2024

The Zipper Conundrum: A Marriage Mystery

In the trenches of marriage, there are battles fought and won, and then there are the skirmishes that leave us scratching our heads. One such enigma is the great zipper debate. You know, that moment when your partner asks for help with zipping up their dress, and you happily oblige. But what happens when the romance wears off and the wars begin?

Suddenly, the same task becomes a point of contention. "You can't even zip up your own dress?" the warrior spouse might taunt. And yet, when the battle subsides and peace is restored, the zipper conundrum magically disappears. Your partner once again requires your assistance, and you willingly provide it.

But here's the thing: who was zipping up their dresses when they were single? Did they have a personal zipper assistant? Or did they somehow manage to develop the skills to zip up their own clothes? It's a mystery that has puzzled many a married person.

As I watched a married woman expertly zip up her gown while running with two bags, I couldn't help but wonder: is this a skill that's only developed in the presence of a romantic partner? And what happens when the partner is no longer around? Do the zippers magically unlearn themselves?

The zipper conundrum may seem like a trivial matter, but it speaks to a deeper truth about marriage. It's a reminder that even in the midst of war, there are moments of tenderness and intimacy. And when the battles subside, and peace is restored, we're left to ponder the mysteries of marriage – and the secrets of the zipper.

Okoye Sunday
Author, Marriage is War

03/12/2024

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Enjema Giselle, Sarah Mouanga, Wadinga Agnelus, Nicky Ayakoh, Tajoach Etienne, Tangie Abimnui Linda, Valerie Bongnjo, Da Pretty Dione, Orien Orien Asongwed, Chia Loise, Masah Brenda, Hammed Alima, Melanie Njoya, Claris Mendi, Rabiatu Mutawakil, Foinsah Lizette, Betty Bright Ebot, Ngwenui Tracy, Wendy Dzelanyuy, Ana Jaika Verdrefei, Che Mankaa, Naomi Aaron, Christel Mutoh, Josophine Iforma, Etuke Ashley

13/11/2024

Harvest dinner party outfit, I had fun!