12/04/2025
I need your advice on this
There's this man in my neighborhood where I newly packed in. As a new resident that I was he approached me after six months of settling in. Interrogated me that he noticed that I'm not really a church person, told him that my husband is a Muslim however I can still go to church if I want to that he doesn't stop me from practicing Christianity however I chose to stay back because of how busy my days during the week choose Sunday as the only day to rest. Invited me to his church as a pastor he i I honoured his invitation as an elderly man.
On my way to the church my Sandal cut. Arrived at service told him the difficult experience I had locating his church building, called his elder daughter to get my sandal to be amended at my decline he insisted I reluctantly succumbed.
Fast forward after that day activities whenever I see his daughter I will signal to greet her but returned a cold attitude towards me, her manner was cold and distant like someone that thinks I don't worth her attention (just greeting o).
The day I saw her at cold room where she works as a cashier I was about saying to her "you work here" seeing her lack of warmth I was forced to keep calm and afterwards wherever we see each others (which I know she is not blind) we usually pass each other like a plaque and like someone that have never attended her parents church.(Pastor's daughter)
My people see who wants to wed. Her parents came to my shop for me to buy asoebi
As a person wey no dey hide my mouth open up to the parents about her ill attitude. Told them that their daughter always act like she's way too classy or educated like no one worths her attention even greeting she looked down on you like plaque, behave like she hasn't seen or know you before even someone you are meeting for the first time it is absolutely sassy to act in such behaviour ( too much of I too wise)
My people should I buy the asoebi or not. Advise me on what to do
Loveth Osegi