21/11/2022
YOUR ALMA MATER MATTERS
The choice of school for your children is very important in the scheme of things. It plays a role in their success, the opportunities they access and the people they associate with.
I am not saying one must go to specific schools before he makes it but the truth is that there are institutions that give your children leverage.
If you can afford it, send your child to the choice schools.
This is one of the success secrets of the Ibos. If you want to access the life of an Ibo man check his food, the clothe and car of his wife, his house in the village and the schools for his children.
I have a friend that left Nigeria to school abroad. His father is a trader, not that rich if you compare him viz a viz with other Tiv men around but he struggled that his son should go abroad. His seat mate was the daughter to the president of Tanzania. That's connection.
I also know of a guy that his mum spent all she had and sent him to American University of Nigeria. The first tuition she paid was the last because this guy met the son of one of the northern senators who has taken him as family and the last time I asked he was on internship at silicon valley.
The rich know this. They know that connection and association is key. That's why they hardly send their children to some schools. They want their children to meet people that are more than them and create bonds that last and help.
That's why we keep hearing that the son of this person married the daughter of this person. Some of the marriages are arranged but most times these children meet at places where they can meet. The son of Dangote can not meet the daughter of Otedola at Mkar(apologies). They will meet at one of those their reunions that they organize in Dubai. They will meet at a convocation in London.
Speaking of London, In UK, out of the 57 prime ministers they have had, 30 were educated at Oxford university.
In Nigeria, Barewa college has produced the most prominent northerners. From Amedu Bello to Abubakar Tafawa Balewa. Yakubu Gowon, Murtala Mohammed, Shehu Shagari, Umaru Musa Yar'adua to El Rufai, the list is too long to exhaust.
In the US, out of the 8 supreme court judges appointed, 4 are from Harvard law school and 3 from Yale. In fact Timothy R. Johnson, a professor of political science and law at the University of Minnesota, says a degree from a top law school has traditionally made it easier for a nominee to get through the Supreme Court confirmation process, though nowadays a justice's political ideology may be just as important a factor in the process as their academic credentials.
When Ngozi Okonjo Iweala was running for the Director of WTO, her Harvard degree came in handy when her CV was presented. These institutions pride themselves in the achievements of their products and they stop at nothing to see them get to the top.
In Benue, there are also notable schools such as Makurdi International school, Tiny tots, Nativity, Glory nursery and primary school, aunty Ayam, Laurel, Mount Saint Gabriel, Bristol, Mount Saint Micheal, Queen of the Rosary, federal government girls college etc. These schools have produced several graduates that are in key positions in the state and nation. There are several times that the fact that I am a Gabrielite has opened doors for me.
There are other schools that are coming up too but it will take them time to be at the level some other schools have are. And if you have not attended an Ivy league primary or secondary school,it doesn't make it impossible for you to make it.
You can start by being great and helping your mates as you go along.
The bottom line today is if you are a parent, see the education of your child as an investment and if you can afford it, send them to the best schools money can pay.
Thank you
Gwaza wan Shovihkah