13/04/2024
Is The Game Really Worth The Candle?
A few years ago, I attended to a young man in his early 20's, who had copious discharge of pus from his peenis.
I asked him to tell me how he got to that point and he told me his story:
In his community and culture, premarital xex was regarded as an abominable act, and such discussions are not held in the open.
So, as with many of the young boys of his age, he drove more than 6 hours to a neighbouring community to have firsthand experience. .
He spent three days there, and each day he had in*******se with some "commercialized" women. Each day, he paid some significant sum for just an hour affair. He even had to pay much more than routine, for desiring not to use any form of protection. You can imagine! According to him, each episode of the real act did not last more than 10 minutes, the rest was for onboarding and offboading.
He repeated the act for each of the the days, and made sure he satisfied his fantasies of shape, size, and colour. In addition to this, he made sure he tried out some substances too, after which he drove another 6 hours back to his base. For him that was a vacation well-spent.
A few days later, he developed this painful urination, difficulty passing urine, and discharge of pus from his chief of staff.
With the culture of non-discussion, he had a few more days of delay before seeking help in the hospital.
As I looked at him, I wondered how many men that may have passed through sumilar difficult conditions and expenses, just to have an interaction with this so called mucous membrane.
Many times, I have read about tales of men who had to give up fortunes, kingdoms, integrity, family just to have a similar "fleeting feel". I have also heard men talk about how they have had to kneel for hours begging, run errands, jump fences at night, keep vigil, and other humiliating things, just to have a short-lived dip in this pot, which some authors have describe as a "singular vessel for manipulation".
Back to this young man, with this STI, if he is not properly treated, is at risk of developing serious complications such as infertility and urethral strictures later in life.
Now, the question: is this xex game really worth the candle?
Stay safe.