03/01/2024
2024 is here and I know that we all have made plans and laid down various expectations we have for this year.
But I want to encourage you.
Yes! You that is reading this piece now!
Make this year your year of intentionality. It is easy to have dreams, goals, and aspirations but at times there lies a silent difficulty in achieving them.
As we start the new year, there is this adrenaline rush to learn a new skill, read books, take a course, build a better relationship with God through prayers and quality study life.
Of course, I can understand that the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak however deep in your heart, you know that you desire an excellent life.
To make this happen, here are some ideas that I believe will help you and I to achieve that huge milestone we have set out for this year.
โจHave an accountability partner: Can you remember the number of times you planned to do something but failed to do it?
That's how a human being without strict accountability works. So this year, you must be intentional about having an accountability partner.
But before you choose anyone, this is my definition of an accountability partner๐๐
An accountability partner is someone who can support you to keep a commitment or maintain progress on a desired goal. It can be a friend, course mate, roommate, your brother, or sister that will always remind you and ensure you carry out that particular task.
But wait, this might not be easy but you have to be intentional as I said before.
โจSet realistic deadlines: You need to set deadlines for your goals.
Don't just wake up and do whatever you think is good for the day, you will need to set realistic goals and attach deadlines to them.
I learnt this from experience, every day when you wake up, write down everything you intend to do and attach the number of hours to be invested in them and be determined to achieve it.
Examples of goals with specific deadlines that I am determined to adopt include:
๐กI won't eat until I have had my bible study session or until I have put out that content
๐กI won't watch that movie until I have finished that course
๐กI wouldnโt visit that friend until I have finished at least the stipulated chapters of this book for today
And so many more โฆโฆโฆ.
Imbibing these we help you improve greatly and build consistency.
โจFinally, appreciate and celebrate yourself for your little wins and achievements.
Hey, all work and no play makes YOU a dull boy,๐
Remember there is no gain without a co-existing pain and you cannot always trust yourself to be consistent.
So no matter what happens on the way, always celebrate your little wins. A nursery rhyme I learn says โ tick tick says the clock tick tick what you have to do, do quick.
Have an amazing 2024 fam.