23/01/2024
It must *STOP 🛑*
Today marks the 23rd day of a new month in a new year.
Therefore, its not too late to open our heart of understanding.
The mistake of marrying the wrong partner is hurtful. It leaves one with a scar.
In choosing a partner, there are vital things we should look out for. Don't be carried away by infatuation and forget the major things.
Money, physique, beauty, etc, are good but they are not the major factors in choosing a marriage partner.
Understanding what to look out for first is essential if you must build a lasting marital relationship.
God has given you wisdom, use it wisely. He can only guide you but not choose for you. After the fall of man in Eden, Adam blamed God by saying the woman You gave me deceived me.
Since then, God allowed man to choose his partner. That is why He said, "he that finds..."
Therefore, it is your sole responsibility to choose your partner.
So my Bro/Sist kindly put a stop to lies which he/she told you last year so as for you not to be chief priest of Lord of the Rings 💍 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂.
Lies you need to put off for you to be free.
👉 *HE LOVES ME BUT HIS TO BUSY TO PROVE IT*
Sometimes i wonder what took the common sense of most of our ladies (sorry i don't mean to be insulting). Someone that claims he loves you, yet he has no time to check on you not even a call. He only calls once in a blue moon just to cement his falsely love in you and here you are aunty lord of the rings posting every 14th of feb about a brother who has someone else he gives attention. Biko sist wise up.
👉 *I HAVE NO OPTION THAN TO GO WITH HIM*
Seriously it hurts to hear ladies saying they have no option than to marry a violent man, a man that doesn't care if you exist or not. A man that beats you when you are still courting and here you forming Miss Bruce Lee 😂 😂 😂 😂. Sist maybe you don't know that a man that beats you before marriage, will surely lead you to your grave after marriage. Nkechi wise up this is 2024.
👉 *I LOVE HIM BECAUSE HE HAS MONEY, OR BEAUTY*
This is because when these things fail, love will die.
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A friend of mine had been dating a guy for years. Later, she left him for a rich man.
3 years later, the husband lost everything, his goods drowned about 4 times and things became so difficult.
One day, she met the former guy, and he is now very rich, things have changed.
Life and situation changes. So do not choose your partner based on material or physical things.
👉 *DO NOT MARRY OUT OF PITY*
Many people today are in a marital relationship not because they love their partner, but because they want to compensate their partner or for other reasons.
Marrying out of pity is a costly mistake. Sacrificing a life journey (marriage) just to please someone is wrong.
Choose who makes you happy, not who you are indebted to. Any marriage you entered out of pity will end up in the pit.
👉 *HE/SHE HAS IS FLAWS AND I HAVE HOPES THAT HE /SHE WILL CHANGE IN MARRIAGE*
Marriage does not change anyone, it is only an added responsibility which can make you better or worse.
If he is beating a woman now, he will do the same in marriage. Do not start what you cannot finish.
👉 *EVERYONE LIKES HIM, THEN I CHOOSE HIM TO BE MY PARTNER BASED ON PEOPLE'S OPINION*
Choosing a partner because someone told you to marry the person is very risky.
Marriage is an individual race and not a collective one.
Do personal inquiry about who you want to marry, ask God for guidance and direction.
You are the one to live with your partner and not the people. Make your opinion count. Choose wisely.
AUNTY NKECHI, BLODA EMEKA HOPE UNA DON HEAR NOW....
IREEE OOOO