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07/12/2020

PREGNANT S*X

Most times we get scared of what could happen to the baby, fear of poking the baby in the face during s*x

Some women report fears that s*x could harm their baby or cause serious complications for them like preterm labour, bleeding or miscarriage. These fear even lead some women to stop engaging in s*xual activity while pregnant.

Some men say they feel awakard while some find their partner's pregnant figure very attractive.

Some men even feel like there is another person in the room with them🤣🤣🤣 while some will feel like the P enis is touch the baby's head especially during the last trimester of pregnancy.

Have even hear some complain that they felt like the baby's hand grabbed their P enis

If your health care provider advices you stay off s*x while pregnant, please do. If not then please just enjoy the ride

To our men, stop being scared of poking the baby in the face because it's not possible🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Do have a blessed week

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01/12/2020

You just stepped into a new month of blessings as you will shine as bright as the Sun and be valued as precious as the Diamonds.

The heavens will protect your path and grant you your secret desires, Amen! I wish you a pleasant new month

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30/11/2020

This to me is COURAGE

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30/11/2020

Occasionally our male partner may experience some form of performance issues in the bedroom.

How do you feel when it happens?

How do you bring it up?

Do you pretend it never happened? Do you confront it head on?

All men even the young ones have occasional erectile and/or or****ic issues. The p***s doesn’t always like to cooperate.

Most men understand this rationally, but have a hard time coping when it actually happens.

If it does happen with your partner say once in 6 month, I will suggest you do not castigate and make him feel worse. You can actually laugh about it and tell him you understand and you both can try again. He is already feeling bad that his p enis refused to cooperate, scolding him or laying insults will make him feel worse

Honestly societal pressure adds so much fuel to the performance-anxiety-fire, the picture we have about how a man's performance in the bedroom should be measured is what is portrayed by p**n and the media

I always say this and I will drop it here again "An erect p enis is not am indicator of interest in S*x"

If we think otherwise, does it mean every young male child that wakes up in the morning with an erect p***s is thinking about s*x? (This will be discussed in details in our next post)

You can be worried and seek help from your health care provider if your partner experiences performance issues all the time

Have you at anytime experience this with your male partner? How did you react?

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26/11/2020

Saying NO to s ex should be as simple as just, well, saying NO. But in reality, you might feel pressured, guilty, manipulated, or coerced when you say NO.

Pressuring someone to have s ex is never okay, and you deserve to have your boundaries respected.

S ex is all about consent. If you don’t want to have s ex, let your partner know.

You are allowed to make your choices.

If you as a person cannot handle NO, then you should really work on yourself before engaging in S ex.

Some people may feel horrible and sad after saying NO to their partner. Do not feel bad. You have a right to make your choices.

I am just all for saying NO to your partner in a subtle way. Do not say NO aggressively.

We will be talking about CONSENT soon. WATCH OUT and do not forget to invite your friends to follow us

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25/11/2020

Here are some ways that you can increase physical contact with your partner.

You don't have to wait till only during s*xual in*******se for you to have physical contact with your partner. If you have been employing this method, it's high time you and your partner make amends.

Do not be the type that RARELY have any physical contact with his or her partner. There is always time and room to engage in physical contact. Do not be too BUSY to have time for your partner.

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21/11/2020

Abnormal v aginal discharge isn't just caused by STDs or being "dirty". A number of other factors can cause Abnormal V aginal discharge like Diabetes, Use of Antibiotics, Use of birth control pills etc.

It is important to study your discharge as a woman, know what your body produces when you are ovulating, during your cycle, mid-way of your cycle and the beginning of your cycle.

There is no harm in touching the discharge to know if it's slimmy or not, smell it. When you know your discharge very well, you will be able to tell once it's no longer the normal one you see and then quickly visit your health care provider.

Most of the time v aginal discharge is perfectly normal and note that the amount can vary as well as the color and odor. For instance, there will be more discharge when you are breastfeeding, ovulating or s*xually aroused. It may smell different when you are pregnant or you have been letting your personal hygiene slide.

If you have not been studying your discharge, this is the time to start. You can write down what you see at every point in time.

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18/11/2020

Foreplay tips for you and your partner

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18/11/2020

Foreplay tips for you and your partner.

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16/11/2020

Phubbing is the act of snubbing someone you’re talking with in person in favor of your phone. Quite simply, it’s phone snubbing.

Phubbing was first coined as a term in May 2012. An Australian advertising agency created this word to describe the growing phenomenon of people ignoring their friends and family who were right in front of them and instead scrolling through their phones.

Phubbing interrupts your ability to be present and engage with people around you.

The number one sign that you are guilty of phubbing is in your hand — your phone. If your phone is with you at all times because you’re afraid you’ll miss a call, a tweet, or a status update, you are likely guilty of phubbing.

Phubbing can affect intimacy in your relationship

If you are a phubber, just know that phubbing is a learned behavior and can be unlearned.

We have all been guilty of this at one point or the other. Let's just make efforts to do better.

Did you find this post useful?

Have you heard of the word "phubbing" before now?

Please do let us know in the comment section

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15/11/2020

This is a reminder for the new week.

Stay happy because this too shall pass.

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11/11/2020

Amen and Amen👏👏👏👏👏

11/11/2020

How soon can you have s*x after experiencing a pregnancy loss? This is a common question among women of childbearing age.

Generally, physicians counsel patients to wait until they feel ready. But readiness for a woman and her partner can depend on a number of physical, and emotional, factors.

“From a medical and practical perspective, the primary thing is to ensure that the pregnancy has passed completely, the cervix has closed, and that there isn’t an increased risk of causing infection in the uterus,”

Emotional roadblock is another big factor: Women may feel reluctant to engage in s*xual intimacy while still grieving their loss. Miscarriage can also change a woman’s relationship with her body, and what s*x represents to a couple might shift.

Some women feel ready to have s*x right away because it is their own way of healing. Some may feel terrified of getting pregnant and losing it again

S*x after the loss of a pregnancy can be a triggering, draining, and necessary part of the healing process.

Take your time to heal both mentally and physically before engaging in s*xual acts again

Do not resent your body for a perceived failure. You are not a failure. You didn't fail. Stay strong

Our prayer is for God to strengthen every woman and man who has experienced the loss of a pregnancy.

Please do say a word of prayer for them

Feel free to also drop a word of encouragement for them.

THIS POST IS DEDICATED TO MY LOVED ONE. I LOVE YOU GIRL. YOU ARE A VERY STRONG WOMAN. GOD BLESS YOU

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09/11/2020

With the rise of smartphone dependence, often a focus on your partner and your relationship can seem tasky. Whether it's stalking your favorite celebrity or checking out the latest sports score, spending a massive amount of time on your phone rather than with your partner can get very easy that we get drowned in it. Though smartphones can be great at finding the next restaurant or checking out cinema times, they can break the bond between you and your partner as well if we are not deliberate about how much time we get to spend on it.

When was the last time you went to bed, and spoke to your partner without first scrolling through social media?

Because of the digital age, we often fail to reconnect with our partners who are lying beside us.

Make more of a deliberate effort to turn off or at least put away your mobile when you get into bedroom and make the most of your time in bed. Not only will this give you time to use your hands for something much more personal between you and your partner (like a sensual massage), it also shows your partner that you are more involved in them than your smartphone.

I am guilty of this and will change for the better. What about you? Are you guilty of this?

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08/11/2020

Technology has allowed us to track our cycle and plan our life's accordingly. I mean these apps can not only improve your physical health but also your mental health, too.

Periods affect so much more than just the state of your underwear. Everything from food cravings to migraines has been linked with a woman's monthly cycle, so it makes sense that it also has a huge impact on your mood. And not knowing when you'll be a weepy, bloated mess or a super-charged, productive go-getter can make your emotional rollercoaster even more intense. Thank goodness for the progression of technology.

You can now track your mood, your cravings, your bloating, s*x, ovulation and even your pregnancy. It can help you figure out so many interesting and surprising things about your body, but particularly your moods.

I use "PERIOD TRACKER- PERIOD CALENDER OVULATION TRACKER" app but have heard people swear that "MY FLO" is very good so I downloaded it to know how good it is (I think it's actually very great for people with irregular cycles", "MAGIC GIRL" is another one that is great for teenagers

Have you tried any app? What is your view about using apps to track your period? What app do you use?

Please feel free to ask me questions as regards this

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06/11/2020

Most of us tend to focus on falling in love and use the feeling of love to determine the duration of a relationship. Falling in love is easy to do, almost effortless, but losing that loving feeling is not that hard to do, either.

Of course, when a relationship (marriage inclusive) is new, it is fun and enjoyable courting or being courted. In the beginning, we are constantly thinking about the new person in our life, and wanting to spend all of our time together and share new experiences together.

Feelings, however, can be fleeting. No one seems to want to talk about how those loving feelings can fade, that it takes work to keep the love alive, and that choosing to stay in love is a choice we all must make.

The era of smartphone isn't making things any easier. The time we spend on our smartphone is taking the time we are supposed to spend to work on intimacy with our spouses.

Let us make conscious efforts henceforth in sparking the intimacy in our relationship.

Who is in????

If you are ready. Let's start with the no 2 which is start and end your day with a kiss.
Are we really doing this?
Am going to make this a priority. You also should. A kiss on the lip, on the cheeck is a good start.

Starting tonight, let's give our partner a kiss before we go to bed.

Happy weekend

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05/11/2020

I promise you that even though the world is full of uncertainties, THIS TOO SHALL PASS.

You will look back tommorrow and just smile because it will all be history.

Make yourself happy today😍😍😍😍

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