26/11/2024
World without Women!
I had a nightmare last night that will stay with me as long as I live. In that nightmare, I found myself in a small village where something strange happened. The village had no women, and according to the men, every woman in the village had disappeared suddenly. No one knew why or how. They woke up and found their wives, daughters, sisters, and mothers gone.
At first, they thought life would go on as usual. “We can manage,” they said confidently. “It’s a world without problems,” they added. “We have always wanted this,” others echoed. They were certain they could handle it.
Gradually, the village changed in unexpected ways. The men struggled with tasks they had taken for granted. Homes became messy, and meals went uncooked. Gardens, which women had tended to, became overgrown and wild. The children cried because their mothers weren’t there to comfort them.
When anyone got sick, there were no gentle hands to nurse them back to health.
The market, once full of life with women selling fruits, vegetables, and crafts, became empty. The colors and sounds were gone, and so was the warmth. The men tried to manage the trade but didn’t know how to weave baskets or make the special sauces everyone loved. It was downright terrible.
The men sat in silence at the village square, realizing something deeper was missing. Women weren’t just cooks or caregivers. They were the heart of every home and the community at large. They brought compassion, joy, and balance. They taught kindness to children, peace in arguments, and love in every corner of the village.
Without women, the world felt empty—like the sky without stars.
Days passed, and the men grew desperate. They finally understood: women were not weak or less important; they were the glue holding everything together. Their strength wasn’t just physical but also in the love, wisdom, and life they exuded.
Everyone was in tears, mourning and crying. I was crying too. Just imagining a world without my mum, sisters and partner, wasn't something I could take! The nightmare was getting scarier and more real when, luckily, my phone rang and je**ed me back to life. I was panting and sweating profusely, only to realize I had shed real tears.
Women are the heart of humanity. They carry life, nurture it, and give it meaning. Yet, they face too much danger and harm.
Violence We Must Save Our Women From
1. Physical Violence:
This involves using physical force to harm a woman or girl. Examples include:
Domestic abuse: When a partner or family member physically hurts a woman.
Honor-related harm: When families take extreme actions due to perceived shame.
Acid attacks: Inflicting harm with harmful substances.
Female infanticide: Ending the lives of baby girls due to cultural biases.
Dowry-related harm: Abusing women due to unmet financial expectations in marriage.
2. Sexual Violence:
This involves coercing or pressuring a woman into unwanted sexual activities. Examples include:
Sexual assault: Forcing intimacy without consent, even in marriage.
Harassment: Making inappropriate comments or unwanted advances.
Human trafficking: Forcing women into exploitative conditions.
Child abuse: Exploiting or tricking young girls into harmful situations.
Harmful cultural practices: Such as procedures violating bodily autonomy.
3. Psychological/Emotional Violence:
This targets a woman’s feelings and mind. Examples include:
Verbal abuse: Insulting or threatening her.
Gaslighting: Manipulating her to doubt her own thoughts.
Social isolation: Preventing her from connecting with friends or family.
Cyberbullying: Using digital platforms to harm or intimidate.
4. Economic Violence:
This involves controlling a woman’s access to money or resources. Examples include:
Financial control: Restricting her from working or managing finances.
Economic dependence: Forcing reliance on a partner.
Unequal pay: Compensating women less for the same work.
5. Cultural/Traditional Violence:
These harmful practices are based on cultural norms. Examples include:
Forced marriages: Pressuring women into unwanted unions.
Child marriages: Marrying off young girls.
Widow inheritance: Imposing marriage to a deceased husband’s relative.
6. Political/Structural Violence:
This involves systemic unfairness against women. Examples include:
Blocking rights: Denying voting or leadership opportunities.
Legal bias: Treating women unfairly in the justice system.
7. Digital Violence:
This involves using technology to harm women. Examples include:
Non-consensual sharing: Posting private images without permission.
Cyberstalking: Harassing or threatening online.
Digital coercion: Using personal information to manipulate.
8. Healthcare-Related Violence:
This occurs when women’s health rights are denied. Examples include:
Forced medical procedures: Performing operations without consent.
Healthcare denial: Withholding essential medical care.
9. Violence During Conflict:
Women in conflict zones often face targeted harm. Examples include:
Assault as a weapon of war: Using violence to terrorize communities.
Forced displacement: Forcing women to flee, exposing them to further danger.
To create a safer world, we must protect women from these injustices. Protecting women means protecting the future, the family, and the soul of every community.
Everyone—men, women, young, and old—must stand together to ensure women are safe and valued. Without them, the world loses its warmth, balance, and love.
Disclaimer:
This content discusses sensitive topics, including various forms of violence against women. Reader discretion is advised. The intent is to raise awareness and promote understanding, not to shock or distress. If you or someone you know needs support, please reach out to local support services or helplines.
