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22/08/2025

'Finally my baby has arrived, I'm a first time mom, age 29. Please i just want to share my story to every woman out there – please!! be very careful of who accompanies you during childbirth!!
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‎I was in labor since 5 pm yesterday; everything seemed fine, but my baby wasn't coming out!! I was suffering... They were already planning a cesarean section, and suddenly, the hospital director asked me: "Who accompanied you to come give birth?" And I responded: "It's my aunt."
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‎Immediately, The doctor went to find my aunt outside & asked her to leave the hospital premises... to wait on the road or at home!! 15 minutes later, my baby came out normally! Without any further stress. A very cute little baby girl

CONGRATULATIONS TO MY HUMBLESELF ❤️

I don't know if anyone has experienced this before. Now I'm wondering, was my aunt the reason for my prolonged labor?'

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17/08/2025

"‎I'm a single mom with a six-year-old daughter. About 4 months ago, I met a very wealthy man at a bar in town while I was out with friends. He's not exactly handsome but he's a gentle & cool guy. So i allowed he get my number, & when I got home, we started chatting. He told me he was from Zambia & had just arrived for a friend's wedding celebration, even sharing the specific date & venue. Then, he asked me to visit him at his hotel the next day.

I went, & one thing let to another we had x. He gave me a cheque of ₦900k & asked to meet again the following day at the same time.
‎When I got home, I suddenly got a terrible stomachache & couldn't make it back to the hotel. I tried to call him, but his number wasn't going through. ‎That night, I had a very scary dream. We were in the hotel room together having x. Then, i suddenly woke up to find a large cockroach with long legs & a thick body on my bed. It was unlike any I had seen before. I screamed & jumped up, waking my younger brother to help me klL it, but when we returned, it was gone.

‎The next day, I went back to the hotel to see the man, but the staff told me he had already checked out. ‎When I got home, I started feeling unwell, with symptoms of pregnancy: a lack of appetite, vomiting, & feeling weak. This lasted for 3 days, so I took a pregnancy test, which came back negative. ‎My symptoms continued for a week, & I still couldn't reach him. I told my sister, & she suggested we go to the hospital. We did, but every test—pregnancy, malaria, & all the others—came back negative.

‎It's been 4 months now. And still I've been unable to reach him. Multiple hospitals have told me I'm medically fine, but I still feel sick & my stomach is getting bigger, just like a pregnant woman's. My sister & I had decided to check out the wedding venue on the date he mentioned to try & find him, but when we went, we were told no such event had taken place or was scheduled. Still, I haven't seen the man since.

17/08/2025

Why Infants Should Not Be Laid on Their Stomach🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤

Many parents love to see their babies sleeping peacefully, but the position a baby sleeps in is very important for their safety and health. Laying an infant on the stomach (tummy-down) may look comfortable, but it actually puts the baby at risk.
1. Risk of Suffǒcation
When a baby is on their stomach, their nose and mouth can get pressed against the mattress or blanket, making it harder for them to breathe. Unlike adults, babies don’t yet have strong neck muscles to lift or turn their heads easily if their airway is blocked.
2. Sudden Infant Dêäth Syndrome (SIDS)
Studies show that babies who sleep on their stomach are at a higher risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) – an unexplained death that can happen during sleep, usually in babies under 1 year. One of the main ways to reduce this risk is to always put babies on their back to sleep.
3. Weak Neck and Airway Control
Infants’ airways are still very small and delicate. If they are face-down, they may end up re-breathing their own carbon dioxide instead of getting fresh oxygen, which is dangerous.
4. Overheating
Babies laid on their stomachs are more likely to get too warm, especially if covered with blankets. Overheating during sleep is another factor linked to SIDS.

👉🏽 What’s Best?
• Always place babies on their back to sleep, whether for night sleep or naps.
• Use a firm mattress without pillows, toys, or loose blankets.
• Once babies are older and can roll over on their own (usually from 4–6 months), you don’t need to keep turning them back, but always start sleep on the back.

💡 In simple terms: back is best for sleep, tummy is for play. Tummy time should only be when the baby is awake and supervised, because it helps build strong neck, shoulder, and arm muscles.

17/08/2025

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14/08/2025

'😭 I'm still in grieve. Lost my only daughter & I'd like to share her deth story with the young girls on your page & the world.

Pls, be careful with your friends. Never try to copy someone without knowing what they do to look good 😭 My daughter received a visit from her friend about 2 weeks ago at home. Haven't seen her in a long while, but i heard she lives in town. My daughter welcomed her & they both talked for about 30-40 mins. when it was time to leave, she asked my daughter to walk with her to the road, to es**rt her which my daughter did, If only she knew 😭

While on the road, a man stopped a big car & called out to my daughter to join him. According to what she told, she didn't go but he insisted, still she refused. It was her friend who pressured her to go see what the man wanted. So, She went to see him, the man asked for her number, but she said she didn't have a phone. The man asked her to get into the car to buy a phone, but she refused.

Her friend, who was standing right next to her, started telling her that she's not a woman if she can't accept a man's offer, saying that if it were her, she would have accepted quickly. That's when the man got out of his car, came to my daughter, & handed her some money to buy a phone.

She took the money & handed it to her friend, saying 'Okay, since you want it, take it.' The girl went & got into the man's car, & my daughter came back home & told the story to i and her aunt. We encouraged & congratulated her for being a goo girl & doing the right thing. And advised her to be very careful with such friends.

That same night, while we were sleeping, something terrible happened. I heard a loud noise from my daughter's room, we all got up to see what was happening.

That's when we found my daughter struggling alone, i tried asking her what was going on but she spoke in a very low tune ' mama , mama. I had a night-mare😭😭'Mama, I'm going, the money, the money mama, I'm going, while crying & calling her friend's

09/08/2025

Postpartum depression!!!!!

We always hear these words but not everyone knows about it or has experienced it but I have and I'll share mine....

So mine started 2months after I gave birth to my first daughter..I had no idea what it was and how to control it..It started little by little..

Firstly,I began to hate my body –yes,I had stretch marks and enzymes all over my body(especially my face)after I gave birth and my breast got sagged too...anytime I looked at my old pictures or saw any post of my friends flexing their body,I would feel hurt and that was how it started...

Next thing was the sleepless nights–my daughter cried alot at night and it made me so sad,I felt like I had traded my peace of mind and happiness for a child I wasn't even ready to have ..I kinda started regretting why I gave birth early...

Then the worst of it all was the phone calls and chats.... anytime anyone calls or chats me up,the first person they always ask of is my baby...how's the baby??,hope u are taking care of her??, please feed her well ooo...
No one asked how I was feeling or dealing with the delivery and new baby...it's true that I had my family to assist me but at that moment,I was no longer in control of my feelings...I began to emotionally sink slowly,I cried most nights when my mum was asleep(we sleep together)I stopped looking at myself in the mirror because I didn't want to see the ugly scars...

I slowly began to drift away,I became harsh towards my innocent husband ..he didn't know what was happening but he sure knows I wasn't okay and he didn't know who to talk to about it because anytime he tried asking me,I would say "I'm fine"and hang up... sometimes I feel bad for treating him that way but I just couldn't help it,the emotions was getting hold of my reactions towards everything...I didn't hate my baby oo but I was regretting having her early,I felt I wasn't ready for all this,I wished I enjoyed single life a little bit longer before all this...

But something happened

04/08/2025

I dated a married man who finally left his wife and 2 kids for me , we relocated to Abuja so his ex wife won’t always bump into us , our love was so real
This man worships the ground I walk on , and I love him in return , I never believed in dating married men or even thought of being a second wife ( he hasn’t paid my bride price ) because because of him I started dating married man
I met him when I was 35 years old , that time single guys were done dealing and breaking my heart every Eke market day , I had lots of heartbreaks, use and dump single guys …so when I met this my lover , I decided to give it a try and he treated me like a queen
Earlier this year February I found out I was pregnant and he assured me that he will leave his wife and 2 kids for me … I never believed him .. like my life was just making sense , I was beginning to see the beauty of being choosen
Finally in February he left his family and we relocated to Abuja .. his love for me never changed , I was living in thanksgiving because I was having a soft life
My lover promised to come see my people soon
Fast forward to the month of May , I lost my pregnancy .. I was in the bathroom having my bath and all of a sudden I slipped , I was rushed to the hospital and the doctor broke the news to us , we got discharged from the hospital
When we got home , I started behaving strange , before my man would come back I’ve used scissors and cut my hairs , I destroyed my School certificate, I destroyed the tv and some other expensive household equipments 😭, I didn't know what came over me.
My man became worried , he called my junior brother to come and see me
Immediately my brother came ,my lover travelled , he left me and my brother , even my brother was also sc@red of my behavior
One month later , we got a knock , it was from the lawyer of the building we rented
He told my brother and I that the rent was due … how? He said my lover paid for 3 months because the real owner

02/08/2025

10 Signs Your Baby Is in Distr£ss Inside the Womb (And You Must Act Fast!) 👶🏽🤰🏾

Pregnancy is sweet — until something goes wrong silently.
Your baby can cry for help from inside the womb, but the signs are subtle.
Don’t ignore these red flags 👇🏾

1️⃣ Baby stops kicking suddenly after moving well before
➡️ Baby’s movement is life. If the kicking reduces or stops, don’t wait. Rush to the hospital.

2️⃣ Baby’s movement becomes too fast, restless, or violent
➡️ It’s not always excitement — it can be a sign of fetal distr£ss.

3️⃣ Severe upper stomach pain, especially in late pregnancy
➡️ This could be placenta abruption — a medical emergency!

4️⃣ Bleeding or spotting with abdominal pain
➡️ It’s not “implantation bleeding” in late pregnancy — see a doctor fast.

5️⃣ Sudden gush or slow leaking of fluid from your vag!na
➡️ Might be your water breaking too early — and baby is now at r!sk.

6️⃣ You suddenly feel very dizzy, lightheaded, or faint
➡️ Baby might not be getting enough oxygen — don’t ignore it.

7️⃣ Baby's heartbeat is too slow or too fast (if monitored)
➡️ Always ask during antenatal: “Is my baby’s heartbeat okay?”

8️⃣ You’re overdue but baby is not moving as before
➡️ Don’t wait at home. After 40 weeks, the placenta can start aging.

9️⃣ You have high blood pressure during pregnancy
➡️ It can reduce blood flow to your baby. Must be managed properly.

🔟 Severe itching (especially hands and feet) with dark urine
➡️ May be a liver condition called cholestasis — dang£rous for baby if not treated.

Dear Mama,
You have a right to report ANYTHING that feels off.
You’re not being dramatic. You’re being protective.

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31/07/2025

Let's talk about Episiotomy”

If a woman has never had a baby the birth canal is usually very tight and sometimes when delivering a baby for the first time the canal may be so tight that it does not allow the baby come out easily.

If the baby is left to force his or her way out it could result in terrible tears that may not be easy to repair and could also cause excessive bleeding .

So what your midwife might do is to give you an episiotomy which is basically a cut made in the perineum
(area between the va**na and anus)and this cut is done when there is contraction .

Once the episiotomy is given the baby slides easily out of the birth canal.

Once the baby and placenta have been delivered the next step is to stitch the episiotomy.

For episiotomy care you need to do these things

Get a big bowl you can sit in comfortably

You fill your sitz bowl or regular bowl with warm not HOT water ooo

Except you want to come back for another suturing or the tear wasn’t okay for you maybe you want more

put in the salt in warm water and sit in the water for about 10 mins .

It is good to do it twice a day both morning and evening.

The episiotomy site gets a bit swollen and can be quite painful .

You might not even walk well the first few days and going to the toilet might be a nightmare

So please during these period try and take plenty of fluids, fruits and vegetables so you won’t have difficulty in stooling

Plaese my people I’m saying it again

do not use hot water for sitz bath it can damage your stitches and you may have to go back for re stitching.

It is also advisable to tell the nurses to check your stitches before you are discharged from the hospital

Finally for you to avoid va**na tear
Your midwife has a role to play
She has to use lot of olive oil to guilde the baby
If you’re lucky to have a skilled midwife you may escape having va**na tear

you too try to cooperate with your midwife during labour
Some of you will not keep a good position when the baby is coming and the baby might even end up giving you tear

Na that one bad pass, because the tear may not be in uniform

Let me stop here

30/07/2025

'Its been exactly 2 month that, I met a guy in town. I was Carried away by his handsomeness, he took me home that evening & we had x - yes, it was protected. Immediately after, I smelled a strong rotten garbage odor. I asked him what the smell was; but he said he couldn't smell anything.

I made a move on him for a second round early morning, but the guy was ice-cold. Being afraid, immidiately, I said a silent prayer & waited for sunrise & he took me home in a rush; he couldn't even look at me or touch me.
I got home that day, took a bath, & noticed I could still smell this rotten odor, but no one else in the house could. I called him, but he had blocked my calls. I didn't care. He actually gave me much money that left me with no regrets if he didn't want us together again. I just felt at least our short relationship wasn't for nothing & was satisfied anyway .

Late that night, while sleeping, I was woken up by a strong odor of blød. I woke my sister up, but she couldn't smell anything. In the morning, my sister woke me up with all windows & doors open; I smelled the blood then. She looked at me with a disgusted face - that's when I realized the blødy smell was coming from me. My hand smelled of blød. For a moment i wanted to think it was my period but again i realized it just passed 8 days ago

I quickly took a shower, but the smell didn't go away. Early morning. My mom took me to the hospital; doctors could smell the blødy odor but found nothing wrong except extremely high blød pressure. I spent about 5 weeks in the hospital - still, nothing was found.
Hapends that when i eat, the smell becomes even stronger; it's so disgusting & potent that it makes me I throw up all the time while eating. Later, I was taken to a prophet; the man said he couldn't help.
We've been to several churches & profets -I bathed, I steamed, I drank everything they gave me, but nothing helped. Until we went to a traditional doctor in my village
He told us straight out: there's no hope

27/07/2025

"I have a heavy issue with my stepson. I got married to his father after his mother passed away; he was only 12 years old at the time.

His father married me, a single mom, and luckily, he accepted & loved my two sons very much, just like his own. However, I regretfully failed to treat his child right. The jealousy in me was too strong – something I sincerely regret. I never allowed the little boy to attend school. Like every protective stepmom who loves her kids, I wanted my sons to be ahead of him. I was trying to protect my kids because I knew he was intelligent.

I did many terrible things that I'm even ashamed to include in this writing. It got to a point where his maternal aunt, who had just gotten married to a man abroad, took him away. This was after I created false stories about him to his father, so he would hate him too – and he did, because he listened to everything I told him to do. I controlled him since I discovered he loved me very much.

After that, we didn't hear about the boy again. I wasn't bothered because I didn't care if he was still alive, as long as my security and peace of mind were intact, knowing my kids were protected and not in competition with him. For close to 14 years, I thought his father didn’t care either because we never discussed his son or aunt since they left.

Only recently did I shockingly discover that my husband had been secretly communicating with his son without my knowledge or leaving me any clue. All these years, they were keeping in touch. Now, the boy has grown into a handsome, successful young man working as a medical doctor abroad. Sadly, none of my children managed to finish high school despite all I did to make them pursue their studies. Instead, they all dropped out. Even the businesses they're into barely work out for them, and they constantly bother my husband & me for more money.

Whenever my stepson returns to the country, he visits us & brings many nice things. Recently, he bought me an expensive

26/07/2025

I got married to a man who lives abroad , on our traditional marriage day his junior brother who calls me auntie stood in for him , he promised to get my papers ready after the marriage ceremonies.
After the traditional marriage I stayed back with my parents because my husband is not around
My mother Inlaw wasn’t okay with the idea, so she talked to my husband into bringing me to live with her in the village
After much talk I decided to go spend some time with them , I didn’t tell you people that my husbands only sister gave birth at home and she’s living with my mother Inlaw
After six months , I got tired of staying at home doing nothing ,not even a business or office work because my husband said no need since I will be relocating soon to join him . I started disturbing about the process because nothing has been done from my own end .. like going to immigration office for international passport or anything , he told me not to rush him that he knows what he’s doing over here for the process to be fast enough , he sweet talked me into believing again
One day my mother Inlaw dressed up , called a taxi who came to pick her at home , the taxi man picked her , my sister Inlaw and her daughter , they left without telling me there way about , immediately I called my husband , I told him that his people just left without a word , he said is not a must they must tell em their activities
My husband brother who stood in for him on my traditional marriage day came visiting …He’s so cheerful and always happy
I was happy tha day because it’s been a long time I had a good chat , As we were still inside , my husband called and I picked
“What are you doing with my younger brother “ he asked me , I became confused and was trying to playfully tell him we are just chatting since he’s not around to keep me company, that became an issue , he didn’t pick my calls for 3 months , I was enduring all without telling my people
After sometimes he called and apologized and

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