25/02/2025
MARITAL FINANCIAL DUTY:
Listen, marriage is a union banded by love, commitment and submission, it is a united spirit, soul and body which become one family.
When you understand the concept and purpose of marriage you work as family for family growth not as an individual with selfish interests. This generation is gradually turning into something else, some ladies will tell you that my money is my money and your money is our money and the reason is that you are the head, but truth be told if truly she really consider you as the head why she refusing to submit her money to as the head? Ask again where is her submission and why she is refusing to submit her income for the family growth she sees herself as part of the family?
Well; to me this things are very simple to handle, any woman with such an ill mentality that her money is hers alone, then my money is also mine alone. But if she is still pushing that her money is for her personal use and interest and for family, while my money is ours and for family use and interest then she must have to answer me if she is truly part of the family? For her to even think in that manner, then she doesn't know what it means and takes to be a family.
Well, I will never marry a selfish and wicked idiot in the name of a wife and Lord God may such an evil lady never come near me in Jesus name Amenπππ.
So long she doesn't understand the concept and purpose of marriage she is not fit to be in marriage.........The two shall become one, so why the division and separation? The true idea of marriage is that whatever i own belongs to us and whatever she own belongs to us, marriage is "US" but if she thinks otherwise then am also thinking otherwise as well.
You must know what submission means in marriage, if you are not ready for marriage please kindly stay in your father's house, our mothers of old never walk with this wicked mindset and divided spirit of suffocating their husbands in the name of being the head of the family, one purpose God created the woman was to serves the man, not as a slave but as rendering help to meet family needs and growth.
Yes, i know some men feel so egoistic and big especially when such categories of ladies start whining them and spinning their head by telling them that they are the real men..... Oga that doesn't make you real mam, sorry to say but you are just a fool who thinks by taking full responsibility and not minding her channels her incomes into something else unrated to the family but for her personal interests will make you to be in total control and exercise absolute authority over her. Listen, you are only deceiving yourselves, the initial truth is that you are marrying yourself and you don't have a family, she is just in to offer you s*x and give you children and you are just paying her for that services.... She is never part of you as a family, a woman who thinks and sees herself as part of you as a family will never build as an individual for personal interests but will build as a united one for family growth and interest.