Soothing Space for Sane Relationships

20/05/2025

Are you a peaceful person?
When people enter your space, do they feel peace or pressure? Calm or conflict? Your presence carries a message—what is it saying?

You don’t have to speak loudly to leave an impression. Your energy, your outlook, and your words shape the experiences of those around you.

So, what do you profess with your life? What do you see when you look at others—possibilities or problems?

Let your presence be a safe space. Let it heal, not harm. Be someone whose presence brings light to dark places and calm to chaos.

💭 Choose peace. Be at peace.

25/11/2023

Showing kindness consistently is not old fashion and cannot be out of vogue. It will always find its way back to you.

28/10/2023

Healing from physical or psychological injury and griefing as a result of a loss/es are processes with phases scheduled to occur gradually over time. Individuals must intentionally resolve to walk through this process for an appropriate outcome.
However, humans would love to skip the phases to the end of the process without the required accompanying expected modifications along the way. Hurting or griefing? Be intentional to walk through the process and formulate coping strategies from the lessons learnt to adjust accordingly over time to prevent the condition from becoming chronic and perpetual.

21/10/2023

Distance and Love........
2 hearts in love can not be kept apart by distance. The connection will always be the string between them. You know what? Some individuals believe that their love for the person they love will always be renewed when they don't see often. Probably to keep up the "passion," the longing of looking forward to being together....... Distance is not a barrier to love. The person you love will always remain close by, irrespective of the physical distance, the tiny string will always sync the two hearts.

22/09/2023

20/09/2023

When you are angry with someone you are hurting self than hurting the one you are angry with. The angry individual sabotage his/er health and wellbeing. Free yourself from the negative energy and hatred. Do what makes you happy. The women that flee every appearances of a romantic relationship but crave for the companionship it gives, the surge of hormones it gives...... Think twice before deciding to go on the lonely journey you are planning. Loving someone and being loved is rewarding, do it wisely❤️❤️😍

18/09/2023

Conversation with some individuals warms the heart and brings relief from tension, anxiety and reduces the pressure from stress. These individuals are exceptional when you have them in your circle. You may not talk everyday, but once in a while reach out to people you have identified to have these characteristic effect on you to ease off at intervals.... it will have mutual benefits too.

28/06/2023

What happened....? To the 2 love birds that started with hope, connection and a very good chemistry that yielded an unbreakable bond leading to their decision of spending the rest of their lives together. Enthusiasm is on the top of the roof for the new journey.
But........., sometimes things happen and the 2 cannot talk about whatever it is/was, reconcile and continue with the journey. The question keeps reoccurring, what happened? or what can happen? and there can be no reconciliation.
Violence, infidelity, betrayal, add to the list.
What can that person you cherished so much do that it cannot go back to the way it used to be?

27/06/2023

Serenity is a state of calmness, peace and freedom from worry and disturbances. It encompasses patience, love, care, empathy and understanding. Can all these be achieved in a relationship? When the feeling is mutual serenity is automatic, flowing in all directions. No hiding places for relationship vices because they are seen floating. The energy field of serene relationships is that of positivity. Be a calm and peaceful individual to spread the positive energy where ever you go.

25/06/2023

Shared moments become memories. Many of such are cherished and preserved. When the moments are good the memories are replayed over and over. When the moments are bad the memories are always pushed off. Be sire to create food moments that brings smile when remembered.