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23/04/2025

Dear single lady, train yourself all round ooo. Make you no go fail your generation o. Marriage is beyond, diamond ring, aww and ooah of pre-wedding pictures, banging s###xx, there is much more. Children management is one of them

23/04/2025

My friend was telling me about her church member's 2 kids.
She said, their dad cannot take them to an eatery. Twice he did, as soon as these kids walked in, they just went straight to a random person's plate, dip their hands and picked either chicken and fish and started chewing.

These kids are well fed. They don't lack anything. But once they see someone eating, they start shaking. It is sad that even when they are eating at home and you come with that same food they are eating, say rice. They'd leave their food. Come to you, start shaking like they haven't eaten in months and if you waste time they are dipping their hands in your food.

The father works offshore. So they are with their mom. Their dad hat8s coming home and according to her, my friend giving me this gist, he dreads coming home to them. The kids iґґitate him. He might be laughing and once he sights them, he frowns immediately. While he is around, he tries to groom them. Teach them. They behave well when he's around. When he goes back to work offshore and comes back, they are worse and must have forgotten everything he has taught them. He blames his wife. Says he expects her to train these boys since he is not around.

Times that he's around. Say his wife dishes his food for him and he's bathing. Before he gets out of the bathroom, these kids have dip their hands to remove the meat in his soup.

They can be eating ice cream and chicken and you come with your Garri and salt. They'd leave their ice cream and chicken and start acting possessed around you. Failure to give them your garri and salt would resort to tantrums.

I asked if their mom s.p.a.л.k.s or scolds them. She said rarely. She does it at the wrong time.
Say, when they start acting that way around a stranger with food. She does nothing but smile sheepishly. She doesn't correct them immediately.
The only time she ß.e.a.t.s them is when they want to poo. She will ß.e.a.t them like they stole or something. She no want make the kids ever poo.

She said more.

However, I suggested something.

Seeing that their mom has "failed" them, these kids are 4 and 2 respectively and knowing that as they grow older. They might become worse.
I suggested the father stays back at home to train those boys himself. Like get a job that requires him coming back to them everyday and not once a month. My friend asked, who would take care of them seeing as he earns more from the offshore job
I told her that, it's better he resigns now while they are young to help those boys while they are still young and open to learning and not too late or he would hate himself and hate them more than he does now when they are older.
Cos you see, that money he's working for won't mean anything to him in future if these kids do not give him peace of mind.

The father is frustrated and the way he looks at the kids. Like if it were possible for him to just k!ll them and have another set of kids.
I feel sad for those boys. I feel they would be worse as they grow up if they aren't taught or groomed right.

Do you think those boys can change? I might be wrong. Any suggestions? Solutions?

P. S their mom owns a big provision store.

Written by Nsikak Effiong

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"Hey, it's your first time, right?" He said.

I coiled and gave him that girlish look, shy and demure; "How did you know?" I answered.

This plunged us into a conversation that lasted like forever. Meanwhile, it was only a thirty-minute flight. When we landed, he gave me his number. He asked if I would like to be driven to my destination. It was an official trip so a car was already waiting for me. I had to say no, disappointing myself.

I called that evening to say thank you. He was smooth when he asked for a date. He said, "Good you called. Can you go out since it's a new place? Just see around."

I said yes and minutes later, a car was at the door of my hotel waiting for me. He didn't come himself. He sent a driver.

All night, I felt out of place. His friends and their girlfriends didn't look like me. They were high and plush and eloquent in their speech. They spoke of countries I hadn't heard of. They spoke of events I could only sell a kidney to attend. I couldn't drink what they drank. I couldn't share my story of Agboba days when they were sharing about England, Paris, and Rome.

He was with me throughout, wrapped in his left arm and whispering to me. The next day, I left town but he didn't stop calling. Currently, he wants a relationship. He says he's dying to be mine. He says I've filled his nightly dreams since we met. Honestly, I feel honored. I want to say yes but....Hmmm

We are both not on the same page. We are worlds apart when it comes to upbringing, experiences, status, and everything. I saw the girlfriends of his friends. I don't fit. I'm like an onion in a group of apples. But these are the caliber of people I'll be dealing with when I say yes. Is it advisable for me to say yes?

Yeah, the love is there. Yeah, the excitement is there but I'm a fish. He's a bird. Where would we live when we fall in love? I feel it might work today but tomorrow...?

Please advise

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