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Spice up your Relationship Marriage, Lucky London, Warri (2025)

01/01/2023

Squirrel 🐿️

When a female squirrel finds another baby squirrel, she gives it food then go and investigate if the baby squirrel has a mother or father alive.

If she doesn't find any of its parents after 3 days of investigation, she begins to take care of the baby as if it's her own.

The female squirrel is also unique in receiving her husband when he returns with food with kisses and wooing him in order to ease the fatigue of bringing food to her and her young.

The male squirrel always expresses his love for his female by giving her the most beautiful roses and the largest walnuts and almonds.

Credit: Apotheosis of knowledge

03/10/2022

My fairly used advice to singles who will marry some day—Except you are rich!

Having a memorial wedding is good, but it must be done according to financial strength.

The moment you consider impressing people with your wedding, then you are on the path of spending more than your capacity. Any thing you do in life to impress people comes with an extra cost.

Don’t ever and ever take loan to finance your wedding. If you at all you will, (With a convincing reason to yourself) get a loan you can pay off at least in 2/3 months.

Paying off loans immediately after wedding kills the marriage. It’s suppose to be a kick start to save and build, not channeling incomes to repaying self inflicted debts.

Do not Publicize it if you can’t cater for crowd. —No need for the invitation cards. Leave the announcement on and off social media.

Scrap renting a hall— An ideal hall costs over 500k in low cities. Places like Lekki and the likes, cost more. You may consider any of the Primary/Secondary Government school fields. They are very much okay. You can’t spend up to 100k with ‘rentage’ inclusive.

Court wedding shouldn’t cost you much. You can spend below 100k for this. (With your clothes and shoes inclusive )—You don’t even need to call a lot of friends. Your family is enough, in-fact, you don’t need extended family members. Maybe your bestie can be included. Snacks and drinks are fine.

Feeding is one aspect a lot of people go overboard—Maybe you don’t know that you can spend 300k for feeding; yes you can! Count the numbers of approved visitors.
You don’t need a catering service. Let your Aunty, Big sisters, cousins handle this.

For clothing, beautiful vanity it is most times (Not all the time)—I stand to be corrected, many never put on their wedding gown again. But this is the same clothes that are ordered and paid for in dollars. Do you know you can rent wedding beautiful gowns? You can get a good fashion person who would make good and yet less expensive wedding gowns, and Suits? Oh, yes!

So you don’t need to break the bank or apply loan from CBN to finance your wedding. One funny reality about wedding is, the expensive food and wines you wanna feed people, in 6 hours, they will all poo it. In a week, they have forgotten yours and already buying clothes to attend another one.

There is a lot to plan for. Reason why you need to sit with your partner, let more of the plannings be on how you both are going to sail the ship called marriage because there are certainly upcoming waves.

Let your discussion be focused more on attaining a much better life. Discuss more on financial freedom. How to live the better life and also give to your future children the best. Spend money and time planning on relocation, on developing one-another, on investment, in schooling and in building, but small and big.

This way, you are going to get it right.

Oluwanishola Akeju

03/10/2022

Babies 👶

Babies are God’s gift. Sweet angels and good fortune bringers. Joy to parents and the most precious gift to mankind. These are facts many of us know so well.

However, many don’t know that babies have special abilities and some outstanding facts about them.

Babies can cry without tears—This happens when they are 2-3 weeks old.

Babies can taste sweet, bitter, and sour, but not salty— meaning the salt that you use in cooking, it doesn’t have taste in their mouth. It is tasteless. Their taste bud begins to recognize the taste of salt when they turn 5 months.

Babies are born with the ability to swim.

Babies have more bones than adults—Mom and Dad, that your baby have more bones than you do. They have about 300 bones.

Newborns have breasts—When they’re first born, both boys and girls can look like they have small breasts. Their breasts may even leak milk! Don't squeeze the firm little lumps though. They form because babies absorb estrogen from mom, and they'll usually go away within a few weeks.

Baby girls could also have a mini period or vaginal discharge that lasts for few days. While Baby boys get erections

Only 15% of newborns prefer to turn their head left when lying on their back, and it may help explain why more people are right-handed, too.

They don’t have kneecaps.

Babies go through around 3360 nappies in the first year.

The first colour they recognise is red.

Their stomachs are the size of a walnut.

Learning to talk begins in the womb
Your baby could hear your voice and other sounds from about 23 weeks of pregnancy

Boys' and girls' brains are different—Newborn boys' brains may grow faster than girls' brains in the first three months, particularly in areas that control movement. On the other hand, girls may have more sensitive senses, meaning that they can see and hear better than boys.

Another interesting fact about babies is, They have the ability to store breast milk while sucking at the sides of the cheeks and drink it half an hour later—meaning you may see your baby moving their mouth and you are wondering what they are eating. It is the stored breast milk.

Sometimes babies can stop breathing and they are absolutely fine—this happens when they're sleeping, they may pause without a breath for 5 to 10 seconds

In picture: Baby Diamond Akeju

Oluwanishola Akeju

02/10/2022

To all the women who take in, having sleepless nights, running stomach, loss of appetite, dizzy feelings, sleepy eyes, nausea, puts to bed after
9 months (more or less), stays awake to watch the baby sleep when the hubby is asleep, gets up to breastfeed the baby, baby-sits the baby, changes diaper's, bathes the baby, washes nappies, plays with the baby till it sleeps, carries the baby behind while preparing food
for the Entire Family, also takes care of hubby.

And to the ladies and girls who anticipate such memorable moments in their lives..It is argued that to be a Man Is Not A Day's Job (which is true) however, To Be A Woman Requires Even More, If You Doubt Me Just Visit "The Labour Room" You Will Learn To Appreciate Women….I have been there!!!!

May God Bless all Mums, All Our Darling
Sisters, And All Women, Wives, Ladies And
Girls. Bless you, I LOVE YOU
ALL.

You are the reason behind life continuity!

Oluwanishola Akeju

27/09/2022

LIFE AFTER WEDDING (PT 1.)

The first thing I noticed Immediately after my wedding ceremony was how all the guests (friends and family) who had come around from far and near to celebrate with us left immediately after, leaving my Wife and I alone.

By the next day after our wedding, It was just my Wife and I.

This was the first lesson I learnt immediately after my wedding.

It's always going to be YOU and the PERSON you marry alone, even the kids God will later bless you with will eventually still leave you guys to form their own families.

Marry Well

Don't marry for people, everyone including your parents, pastors, Mentors will not live with you and the person you married.

Avoid "it was my mother that pushed me oh, it was my Pastor that matched us"

Don't marry someone to impress or oppress anybody, it's going to be you in that marriage alone to face any heat that comes from it.

Don't marry a stranger, life after wedding will be lonely and boring if you marry without Friendship built prior to your wedding and/or any possibility of building Friendship after (this latter part is very important).

(c) Musa Gift.

27/09/2022

FACTS ABOUT WOMEN. 👩

1- When a woman is angry, over half of what she says-she doesn't mean...

2- The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves.

3- A woman is not like 'detol advert', if you don't take care of her... Others will.

4- It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change when she does, but if you mess-up, you might just forget it.

5- A woman is such a school you will never graduate from.

6- Your wedding certificate with her is not a "driving licence", its just a "Learners permit"

7- She can be very bitter now, and a very sweet angel later on, it all lies in your approach.

8- A woman hardly forget things, she remembers hurts more, avoid making her hurt.

9- A woman can be highly secretive... Most times when they prove hard to men, they go to their closet and friends to cry.

10- All women Love to be begged. men often miss out on this........

11- All women have a unique character like salt, their presence might not be noticed but their absence makes all things tasteless.

12- If she loves you she can do everything you ask of her as far as it makes you happy, so never force her to love you.

13- If a woman truely loves you,even to ask money from you she will be shy and most especially if she loves you she can never leave you to spend unnecessarily!...that's what makes them special....☺

If you find a woman who loves and fears God, cherish her for life and never let her go.. She will do you good for the rest of your life.

SO WOMEN ARE VERY SPECIAL....🤩😍🤩

GOD BLESS OUR WOMEN..

Author unknown (Anonymous)

21/09/2022

WOMANHOOD IS NOT EVERY WOMAN'S CALLING

But instead "" MOTHERHOOD IS A CHOICE ""

Most people who have seen people making that statement feel that are bringing such propaganda that -

WOMANHOOD IS NOT EVERY WOMAN CALLING.

Such perception from people are wrong and they should read and make research about the concept of feminism.

Feminism obviously has a lot to do with examining gender roles and planing towards the achievement of gender equality. Again women are under constant judgement for their decisions. Whether they are right or wrong about their ideas someone always has something negative to say about it, including misinformed individual in the society (like what some individuals in the society will say "" Feminism the Threat to Woman's Identity ""

One of that woman identity is the " JOY OF BEING A MOTHER" which have become more of topic among women in the society to bear children.

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They are things we should start normalizing for women in the society about motherhood-

👉"Normalize women who don’t want kids.

👉Normalize women who want kids AND a career. (And not out of necessity.)

👉Normalize women who want to be stay at home moms and women who don’t know what they want yet and women who are changing their identities halfway through life.

👉Normalize women being multidimensional beings who don’t have to fit into a socially prescribed role for the comfort of others.

Most of my female friends (and many of my male friends) would self-identify as feminists or they support feminism to some extent.
Questioning the idea of one about motherhood can be in two forms

A. Individual choice

B. societal influence

A. INDIVIDUAL CHOICE
Feminism generally pushes for equal opportunities. It does not demand that a woman has to a mother. I personally think it is individual choice to be a mother.
Bringing life to the world is a choice to any women, if she decide to be a mother or not is her individual choice. With that being said, you can be a feminist and still practise the idea of motherhood because it's a movement.

FEMINISM DON'T KICK AGAINST MOTHERHOOD.

As long as you're aware of your privilege and your marginalization and you advocate for oppression on many levels to end, you can be a damn good feminist regardless of what path you've chosen in life as a mother or not.

If you are self-identify as a feminist, you almost certainly believe that women shouldn’t be forced but instead given choice to decide whether to be a mother or not.

Motherhood in relation to childcare, childbearing and pregnancy is not a threat to women identity.

2. SOCIETAL INFLUENCE
You also probably believe that society influences women to the idea of motherhood like stay at home in various ways—e.g., signaling that childcare is for women, offering better maternal leave than paternal leave, etc. This is all about societal influence.

A woman can believe all this and still say: Given the actual real situation of my life, they choose to follow it or not.

The “why” and “how” of her life situation is still based on individual choices. But it doesn’t really matter when it comes to what makes sense for her.

This is about individual choice which is more powerful than societal influences.There is nothing like feminism attached to sit about that decision. It’s just about individual choice.

CONCLUSION

To sum things up, feminist are not to be blame for

👉rejection of the ideal of being a home-builder,

👉Loss of appreciation and reverence for motherhood,

👉unhappy state of womankind,

👉robbing women of identity and dignity of being a mother

👉isolation of women from men and from each other,

👉Leaving women in aggrievances, frustration, self-pity and loneliness

Instead, before the coming of feminism, the above aformentioned list have been in existence time immemorial.

👌 The same individuals in the society who don't want feminism should get these to their head should read the below for a clear view

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According to a popular literature book """ DEAR IJEAWELE OR A FEMINIST MANIFESTO IN FIFTEEN SUGGESTIONS """

FEMINIST Adichie Chimanmanda Ngozi she says in her book:

From the sixth Suggestion

“”””” Teach her that if you criticize X in women but do not criticize X in men, then you do not have a problem with X, you have a problem with women. For X please insert words like anger, ambition, loudness, stubbornness, coldness, ruthlessness. Teach her to ask questions like: what are the things that women cannot do because they are women? Do these things have cultural prestige? If so, why are only men allowed to do the things that have cultural prestige? “””””

QUESTIONS FOR MY READERS TO PONDER ON:

1. What are your own contributions, views and insights on the articles?

2. Do your beliefs and behaviors support women not to be mothers? If yes or no, explain

3. How was the situation of woman in the past before the coming of feminism? Was it fair, healthy, good or bad?

4. Was feminism efficient to change woman’s life? If yes or no, explain

Written by:

Kogwuonye Patrick Onyeka

Writer/Blogger/Educator/Tutor

University of Benin

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18/09/2022

The underlisted positions is cool for those trying for a baby.

1. Missionary Tried and true, man on top puts gravity in your favor, Landry says. (That said, we’re guessing it’s probably among the most popular s*x positions to conceive baby.) “In woman-on-top positions, the s***m has to swim upstream, but man on top allows s***m to flow into your vaginal opening and toward your cervix.” For added effectiveness, place a pillow underneath your bottom, which can give an even more favorable angle for s***m.

2. Doggie style “Any position that allows deep pe*******on can help the s***m get as close to the cervix as possible and may make conception more possible,” Landry says. Doggie style, where a man enters a woman as she rests on all fours, does exactly that.

3. Legs on shoulders A twist on missionary, in which a woman hooks her legs on her partner’s shoulders during in*******se, this position allows s***m to get as close to the cervix as possible while also having the benefit of gravity, Landry says.

4. CAT (Co**al Alignment Technique) Missionary not your thing? This position may be effective in assisting female or**sm (which, to be clear, is not a factor in conception, but it’s an added bonus!) while letting s***m swim downstream. The woman splays out her knees so the man’s lower torso fits between. Then, instead of thrusting, the man and woman rock their pelvises together in rhythm—which still gives you the gravity-assisting effect of missionary.

5. Reverse cowgirl One in five women have a tipped, aka retroverted, uterus, and if you’re among them, this might be the best s*x position for getting pregnant. Here, the woman sits on her partner facing away from him, providing a unique angle of entry. Chances are, you don’t know whether you have a retroverted uterus or not, so why not try this position anyway, just in case (and just for fun).

6. Side-by-side scissors In this position, you lie side by side, facing each other, as the male enters the female. This position can also give the deep entry that may help the s***m quickly reach the cervix.

7. Rear entry As the woman lies on her stomach, the man enters from behind her. This deep position may help the p***s reach more deeply in the vaginal opening than missionary position, according to a Journal of S*x & Marital Therapy study, which (believe it or not) documented the findings with an MRI.

8. Wheelbarrow No, you don’t have to be a yogi or gymnast to try this one, but it’s admittedly among the most adventurous s*x positions to conceive baby. It’s also definitely not a position to do with a baby bump, so why not cross it off your bucket list now? The woman gets into position, as if she were about to be the wheelbarrow in a wheelbarrow race—hands either on the floor or bed (you can also rest on your elbows). The man holds a woman’s legs and lines his thighs up between hers, entering from behind, which allows for the deep pe*******on that can bring the s***m closer to the egg.

14/09/2022

*PARENTS, SEPTEMBER IS HERE FOR ANOTHER SCHOOL FEES PERIOD, AVOIDING UNNECESSARY PRESSURE*

*1. Put your kids in*
*schools you can afford*
*because expensive*
*schools don't*
*guarantee good*
*results. Just ensure*
*they attend a good*
*affordable school*

*2. Rent apartments you*
*can pay for*
*conveniently. Don’t live*
*in a house you struggle*
*to pay yearly.*

*3. Let’s plan our lives and*
*live within our means.*
*Save more and spend*
*less.*

*4. Some women buy food*
*for their children every*
*morning before going*
*to school or even for*
*the whole family, do*
*you know it’s cheaper*
*to cook at home?*

*5. Some people don’t*
*earn much, but have*
*DSTV at home, go for*
*GOTV and upgrade*
*when your income*
*upgrades. It’s still the*
*same CNN anyway!*

*6. Eat healthy meals and*
*protect your family*
*from mosquitoes to*
*avoid going to the*
*hospital always.*

*7. Take advantage of*
*food and fruits in*
*season, its cheaper*
*and you can be*
*creative to create*
*amazing meals.*

*8.Don’t copy your*
*neighbor’s lifestyle,*
*she earns well and her*
*husband is a ‘big*
*man’*

*9. Don’t follow trends,*
*wear clean well-*
*ironed clothes and*
*keep your hair neat.*
*You would still look*
*good.*

*10. Keep your circle*
*small, keep only*
*friends that have*
*senses!*

*11. Above all things, have*
*the fear of God, have*
*integrity, don’t be lazy*
*and be prayerful.*

*12. Planning is the key, if*
*you fail to plan, you*
*plan to FAIL.*

*13. Don't do more than*
*your budget this*
*Time, there is no*
*award given to best*
*family that wore an*
*expensive cloth for*
*the year*

*14.Don't be in*
*competition with*
*anyone...*
❣️

09/09/2022

LADIES MUST STOP DOING THESE THINGS ITS ABOMINATION NOT LOVE

1. Living in the same room with a man who has not married you; (this is abomination).

3. Wearing the engagement ring of a man who doesn’t even know your parents or house; (You are wasting your time & blocking God's blessing).

4. Using your boyfriend’s picture as your profile picture on social network, thus blocking serious and potential suitors; (that is a serious /destiny mistake).

5. Giving your virginity or submitting your crown to a man who has not married you. (You have wasted your glorious destiny & lost your dignity in life)

6. Cooking food regularly and washing clothes for your boyfriend; (Slavery attitude: that's starting what you cannot finish even in marriage).

7. Disobeying your parents for the sake of a man you are dating. (It is Stupidity; Are you out of your mind? Why can't you convince them through GOD intervention ).

8. Giving s*x to a man simply because he promised to marry you; (Haba! Na you be the oldest woman for this life? It is the loss of your soul & giving up on God)

9. Sending your Unclad pictures to your boyfriend or romantic postures with him either; (shame on you, that is what he will use against you anytime you said it's over).

10. Why will a boyfriend beat you and you will still be saying that you can't do without him; (hmm, you need deliverance. This is not love. It is the foundation to a painful future).

11. When a man keep cheating on you and you still say that you can never leave him, (Hmm, you need prayers 'cos you've started digging your grave)

Note: Don't be too desperate in the matter of relationship; as you are desperate to read other numbers and you did not notice that number (2) is missing above.
Relationship is more than catching fun now.

THE TYPE OF FOUNDATION YOU LAY AS SINGLE IS WHAT YOU'LL BUILD YOUR HOME UPON.

09/09/2022

The late Queen Elizabeth, who breathed her last 30 minutes ago, left behind a sprawling $28 billion in assets which will automatically go to the next king and her successor, King Charles.

That’s how much in assets the British crown holds, Forbes estimated last year.

That includes land and holdings as part of the Crown Estate ($19.5 billion), Buckingham Palace (est. $4.9 billion), the Duchy of Cornwall ($1.3 billion), the Duchy of Lancaster ($748 million), Kensington Palace (est. $630 million) and the Crown Estate Scotland ($592 million).

Queen Elizabeth had another $500 million in personal assets.

The Queen’s $500 million in personal assets is thanks to her investments, jewels, and two castles.

Credit: Chukwudi Iwuchukwu

03/09/2022

MOTHER SHOULD STOP USING THIS cheap blackmail " I CARRIED YOU IN MY WOMB"

Most discussion these days with some myopic individuals shows that they depend so much on their rich uncles or aunties or FIRST BORN to sponsor them in all areas of life. Most often they ask for money or cash that is uncalled for. These individuals are adults that is what makes me get angry. They keep saying their brother have money and anything or anytime he/she ask they will provide.

As i sat them to reflect on it, i found out they are just there to milk out these peoples earned hard money.

Let go back to what Facebook asked again

👉What's on your mind
The cheap blackmail " I CARRIED YOU IN MY WOMB" (Wrong concept)

Dear Nigerian parents, you first child or wealthy child, has the right to not cater for the children you birthed! It’s not their responsibility just because they’re siblings. You owe your kids everything and more. They did not ask to be born.
This cheap blackmail of “I carried you in my womb” is actually daft! Some mother use this cheap blackmail on their first born or wealthy one so they can take care of their siblings. Did they ask to be born? You decided to have children on your own accord!

When you were busy having multiple s*x to give birth to multiple children that flood around the house looking unkempt and hungry.
If the first born or one that makes it BIG. The parents keep reminding him or her using cheap blackmail like this " I CARRIED YOU IN MY WOMB" for 9 months please help these your siblings or younger ones.

Your first/eldest children(whether boy or girl) are NOT your co-parents. It is NOT the responsibility of first children to raise their younger ones. You can't have s*x and dump the result of the s*x you had on your older children. That is mentally or ideally wrong.

Stop having children and dumping your parental responsibilities on your older children. Please parents your FIRST CHILD are NOT your co- parents for the other younger siblings.

These parents can be so manipulative in the sense they start pressuring the first born to hustle hard and make ends meet for the family.

For clarification sake,

👉I'm a first born. I never for one day ask my uncles or aunties for help in any area. My money i hustle it out myself.

👉My siblings never for once put pressure on me about help as the first child. My parents did their jobs in giving us an equal opportunity like education even up to masters level.

**********Back to the topic ************

I pity most first born Nigerians who have shared their own responsibility with their siblings without putting a stand against it because they term it " DOING IT FOR THE BLOOD """ or most preferred cheap blackmail used by their mother " I CARRIED YOU IN MY WOMB"

This cheap blackmail- I CARRIED YOU IN MY WOMB" is totally wrong.
I will analysis how this cheap blackmail is been used by parents to lure their children in to doing negative things that may attract consequences in the future.

1. I CARRIED YOU IN MY WOMB" have made some young girls who are into prostitution, not for themselves, but to be sending money to their perfectly young, healthy and lazy manipulative parents. Some of these parents knows what their children do for money, but they don’t care.
Offcourse, because their mother keep using that concept “they carried you in their womb” therefore; you must take care of their lazy ass! Some go as far as comparing their kids to their peers and mounting pressure on them to do this or that for them so they can come out a know person in the society.

2. I CARRIED YOU IN MY WOMB" have made some young men, doing fraud, doing negative things, in the quest to give their family what is none of their responsibilities. Any help you can’t render your family with a clean money, shouldn’t be your problem. It is actually stupid of you to do stupid things that may end your life, or put you in the grave just because you want to help your family because your mother told you " I CARRIED YOU IN MY WOMB" for 9 months.

LET HAVE A THOUGHT ABOUT IT--

Let think about it,

Is she the first woman that carried a child in her womb?

Answer - definitely not, she is not going to be the last instead.

Some of our parents produced children like rats and dumped their responsibilities on their first child thereby Worsening the case for these first born.

The dreams of the first born is not actualize because he want to make sure all things go well for the siblings and for the manipulative parents who couldn't control their s*xual urge.

👉Advice to future parents

Firstly, I will say it again to parents that their FIRST BORNS or wealthy children are not CO-PARENTS. Give birth to children you can take care of and stop shifting responsibility to the first BORN because they have their own personal responsibility while on earth.

Secondly, mother should stop using that cheap blackmail on their children "i carried you on my womb" or father's should stop using statement like "" Your mother carried you for 9 months ". This statement may make the child go to every length to please you base on the uterance of such cheap statement.

👉Advice to young men or women

Never use statements like

👉My mother sold pure water to feed me.

👉My father starved for me to eat.

👉I want to make MAMA proud, so i have to hustle hard.

👉I want to blow so i can make my parents happy.

Let sit and reason again:

👉That your mother sold pure water to feed you, is not enough reason for you to do negative things to give them good life.

👉That your father starved for you to eat, is still not enough reason to engage in something dangerous just to make money. They are your parents. They brought you into this world and off course should do anything in their power to cater for you. Stop seeing their rightful sacrifice for you, as an excuse or reason to soil your hands in evil because you want fast money to change their lives. Do your best and rest!

CONCLUSION

Dear readers,

👉 if you have fallen victim of such cheap blackmail your mother used on you , please reject it now and make sure you make legit living and don't allow such blackmail get to your bone marrow that you start thinking of how to please your manipulative parents who want a good life but didn't give you such but want you to have a good life in a negative way.

👉Your rich siblings or FIRST BORN do NOT owe you money or school fees. They are not your parents. They didn't bring you to this world. If you want to blame someone for not paying your tuition fees or feeding you as a child, BLAME YOUR PARENTS! They give birth to you. Even your FIRST BORN do NOT owe you money. Most FIRST BORN love you enough to look after you where your parents failed or are unable to. But they do that OUT OF LOVE. It is actually NOT their responsibility. And you are NOT entitled to their assistance or whatever.

COMPETING INTEREST

This post is a research conducted and carried out for the purpose of having knowledge to avoid unnecessary quarrel between siblings and parents and also about assistance in one way or the other.

👉I declare that I have no financial or personal relationship with the any first borne in my extended family that may have inappropriately influenced me in writing this post. I wrote this based on my understanding about what some first born faces in the society where mother use cheap blackmail " I CARRIED YOU IN MY WOMB "" against him or her to get favour without knowing the occupation of his or her child (first born).

👉Secondly, i have no financial or personal gain or personal attack on any individual who is a first born or any body who put hope on first born or anybody who have been manipulated by his or her parent with cheap blackmail like " I CARRIED YOU IN MY WOMB " who is reading this post who feels am calling them out to take their own responsibilities of their lives and stop allowing their parents pushing them in to taking care of their sibling.

👉Lastly, I write according to my own understanding and knowledge about what most first born in the society past through and how some of them have inherited responsibility from their parents who birthed children they can't take care of thereby pushing it to the first born or wealthy child among the family using blackmailing message like "" I CARRIED YOU IN MY WOMB ""

NOTE: Readers are free to err their view and to go against my idea, am open for opposition of such ideas.

QUESTIONS

1. Do you agree with the post? if not state your reasons?

2. Are you a first born reading this? Just indicate and tell us your own observation

3. If you have fallen for such cheap blackmail used by you mother, how was your response?

Written by:

Kogwuonye Patrick Onyeka

Writer/Blogger/Educator/Tutor

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Credited to :

1. Those first born that were able to reject such responsibility that was kept for them by their parents that have multiple s*x producing children they can't take care of.

2. Those first born that keep to their reasons why succumb to such responsibility brought to them by their parents.
3. Those person who were able to realize that they have been balcakmail by their mother in one way or the other.

Make PEACE ✌ Show LOVE❤

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