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Watch Beyond Men and Masculinity | Netflix

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Nu op Netflix; een interessante documentaire over mannen, mannelijkheid, emoties en relaties. Een aanrader!

Watch Beyond Men and Masculinity | Netflix This searching, provocative examination of masculinity poses uncomfortable questions about the nature and definition of maleness in modern society.

Wat een prachtig beeld

foto: Empathy Installation at Burning Man festival, Nevada USA)

8 Signs of Emotional Neglect in Your Family

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/childhood-emotional-neglect/202112/8-signs-emotional-neglect-in-your-family?fbclid=IwAR0y-P2fEZoA18XeO27agRL1a5vbviefFRvkZXaHUQIu8mVd1DVi37HQx6M

8 Signs of Emotional Neglect in Your Family The emotionally neglectful family may look fine, but it is not.

Onderzoek: Fors meer kinderen slachtoffer van mishandeling tijdens lockdown

Tijdens lockdown krijgen veel meer kinderen te maken met emotionele verwaarlozing en zijn ze getuige van huiselijk geweld, blijkt uit een onderzoek van de Universiteit Leiden.

Onderzoek: Fors meer kinderen slachtoffer van mishandeling tijdens lockdown Tijdens de eerste lockdown van vorig jaar werden fors meer kinderen slachtoffer van mishandeling dan in periodes waarin de scholen en kinderopvang open waren. Volgens onderzoekers van de Universiteit Leiden kregen slachtoffers vooral te maken met emotionele verwaarlozing en waren ze getuige van huis...

10 Ways You May Have Been Emotionally Invalidated as a Child | Dr. Jonice Webb

10 Ways You May Have Been Emotionally Invalidated as a Child | Dr. Jonice Webb Children must feel their emotions are seen, accepted, and understood by their parents. Anything short of that leaves the child emotionally vulnerable in adulthood.

How to Give Your Children What They Need Emotionally | Dr. Jonice Webb

How to Give Your Children What They Need Emotionally | Dr. Jonice Webb Children need to receive validation and understanding of their feelings to grow into emotionally strong adults. This article explains exactly how to give it.

How Childhood Emotional Neglect Makes You Doubt Your Own Memories, Experiences, and Feelings

How Childhood Emotional Neglect Makes You Doubt Your Own Memories, Experiences, and Feelings Miranda is standing in front of the restaurant waiting for her fiancé, Mark, to meet her. 20 minutes go by, followed by 15 more. As she continually checks her phone to see if he has texted, she vaguely remembers this happening the same way about 3 weeks...

The Myth of Unconditional Love | Dr. Jonice Webb

Onvoorwaardelijke liefde bestaat maar in één soort relatie

The Myth of Unconditional Love | Dr. Jonice Webb The Myth of Unconditional Love “Accept the children the way we accept trees—with gratitude because they are a blessing—but do not have expectations or desires. You don’t expect trees to change, you love them as they are.” ― Isabel Allende Wives wistfully long for it from their husbands. ...

How to Know if You Experienced Emotional Abuse or Neglect as a Child | Dr. Jonice Webb

How to Know if You Experienced Emotional Abuse or Neglect as a Child | Dr. Jonice Webb Emotional and physical abuse and neglect are often lumped together. Yet they have very different effects. This article describes how to tell the difference.

In the research for my book about depression, Lost Connections, I was taught by scientists about 9 different causes of depression and anxiety. How many have you experienced? (I talk about the solutions in the book)

Every kid needs to feel seen — here are 2 ways you can do this

Every kid needs to feel seen — here are 2 ways you can do this One way to set up a child for success: Take some time every day to really see them for who they are, not for who you want them to be, says psychiatrist Daniel J. Siegel and social worker Tina Payne…

Het is ok om te voelen

It’s OK to have good days.
It’s OK to have bad days.
It’s OK to cry about absolutely nothing.
It’s OK to cry about absolutely everything.
It’s OK to find this hard even if you know there are other people in much worse situations that you. This is not a competition.
It’s OK to feel frustrated.
It’s OK to feel anxious.
It’s OK to feel scared.
It’s OK to feel.

Gratis ebook Glimlach van een kind

Veel mensen die zich realiseren dat ze als kind emotioneel verwaarloosd zijn en moeite hebben met hun eigen emoties, vragen zich af: "Maar hoe zit dat dan bij MIJN kinderen? Ben ik die nu ook emotioneel aan het verwaarlozen zonder dat ik het in de gaten heb?".

Dit is goed nieuws! Want a:uit het feit dat je dat jezelf afvraagt blijkt al wat een betrokken ouder je bent en b: je staat open om te leren hoe het wel moet!

Van de week kreeg ik een link naar een boek dat je hierbij op een hele leuke en praktische manier kan helpen: "De glimlach van een kind".

Je leest hoe je je kind kan laten merken dat je van haar houdt, hoe je hem leert dat falen niet erg is, wat een kind leert van teleurstellingen, hoe je aandacht kunt hebben voor waar het zich mee bezighoudt.. Er zijn oefeningen en knutseldingen om samen te doen en avonturen om samen te beleven.

En er staan ook tips in van dingen die je kunt laten zodat je geen irritante betuttelouder wordt :-)

Het boek is gratis te downloaden (in ruil voor je emailadres), kijk eens of het jou kan inspireren!

groet, Janine

https://www.365dagensuccesvol.nl/nl/landing/ebook/18709/glimlach-van-een-kind/18706/?utm_source=bevestigingsmail&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=kind-ebook&utm_content=invite1_link1&utm_term=

Gratis ebook Glimlach van een kind De scholen zijn dicht en kinderen zitten thuis. Juist in deze spannende onzekere tijd, hebben kinderen behoefte aan verbinding, ritme, bevestiging en liefde. Daarom doen we nu iets wat we nog nooit eerder hebben gedaan: we geven het volledige boek cadeau, als pdf in je mail.

The right way to be introspective (yes, there’s a wrong way)

Een interessant artikel dat uitlegt hoe het komt dat ‘waarom’ vragen je niet verder helpen (bijvoorbeeld: Waarom kan ik geen beslissing nemen?) en ‘wat’ vragen wel (Wat is er aan de hand? Wat voel ik op dit moment? Wat zou me helpen?)

http://t.ted.com/ncInyw8

The right way to be introspective (yes, there’s a wrong way) Whisper it, but obsessive navel-gazing can be satisfying. Problem is, it can also be damaging. Organizational psychologist Tasha Eurich suggests ways to escape the loop of rumination and learn how …

9 Steps to Reach Your Emotionally Neglected Spouse | Dr. Jonice Webb

9 Steps to Reach Your Emotionally Neglected Spouse | Dr. Jonice Webb 9 Steps to Reach Your Emotionally Neglected Spouse My husband says he loves me, but I don’t feel love from him. My wife gets confused, overwhelmed or frustrated every time I try to talk to her about a problem. My marriage feels flat. Some vital ingredient is missing. These are complaints which I h...

How to Know the Difference Between Selfishness and Strength | Dr. Jonice Webb

Het verschil tussen egoïsme en goed voor jezelf zorgen:

https://drjonicewebb.com/how-to-know-the-difference-between-selfishness-and-strength/

How to Know the Difference Between Selfishness and Strength | Dr. Jonice Webb Emotionally neglected people have a fear of becoming selfish if they stand up for themselves or put themselves first.

10 Question Quiz: Do You Need Better Boundaries With Your Emotionally NeglectfulParents? | Dr. Jonice Webb

10 Question Quiz: Do You Need Better Boundaries With Your Emotionally NeglectfulParents? | Dr. Jonice Webb 10 Question Quiz: Do You Need Better Boundaries With Your Emotionally NeglectfulParents? It is definitely true that parenting is an incredibly complex job. We can all see that the huge majority of parents are honestly working hard to offer the very best they possibly can to their children. As much e...

How to Know When You Are Having a Feeling | Dr. Jonice Webb

How to Know When You Are Having a Feeling | Dr. Jonice Webb Childhood Emotional Neglect or CEN teaches you to ignore your feelings. As an adult, you can now learn how to identify when you are feeling something.

Every kid needs to feel seen — here are 2 ways you can do this

Every kid needs to feel seen — here are 2 ways you can do this One way to set up a child for success: Take some time every day to really see them for who they are, not for who you want them to be, says psychiatrist Daniel J. Siegel and social worker Tina Payne…

The Importance of Self-Acceptance & 4 Ways to Achieve It | Dr. Jonice Webb

https://drjonicewebb.com/the-importance-of-self-acceptance-4-ways-to-achieve-it/

The Importance of Self-Acceptance & 4 Ways to Achieve It | Dr. Jonice Webb The Importance of Self-Acceptance & 4 Ways to Achieve It Here are ten everyday habits that have been proven, in study after study, to make people happier. As you read the list, think about how often you practice each one: Giving: doing things for others Relating: connecting with people Exercising: t...

A Surprising Way to Protect Yourself From Your Emotionally Neglectful Parents

A Surprising Way to Protect Yourself From Your Emotionally Neglectful Parents Here we are, it’s the holidays. Right now, we are in the thick of it. In fact, you may not have time to read this post! But I encourage you to read it anyway. Have you spent more time with your parents lately? Most likely, because it’s the holidays,...