07/05/2026
🤔 There was a time my system was trying to guide me…
and I didn’t yet know how to listen.
I felt constantly overwhelmed.
A quiet anxiety lived in my body…
even a paper falling could startle me.
There was heaviness.
Fatigue.
A sense of being drained.
I found myself isolating.
Procrastinating.
Moving without direction.
My body was speaking too:
Tension.
Headaches.
Migraines.
In my relationships, I felt unseen.
I longed for closeness…
and space at the same time.
There were misunderstandings.
And a deep sense of being… off.
Looking back now, I see it clearly:
My needs were asking for attention.
The people-pleasing.
The “yes” when a “maybe” was true for me…
were ways I was trying to create safety.
Today, I experience something different.
I understand my needs.
I know what supports me.
This clarity gives direction to my actions.
Even my migraines have become signals.
They invite me to pause and ask:
“What do I need right now?”
When I listen…
My body softens.
My relationships feel clearer.
My work feels aligned.
If life is a journey…
your needs are your engine.
What thoughts appear in your mind, related to your journey, as you read through this?
🔦 Comment or DM “NEEDS” and I’ll share a simple worksheet to help you understand yours.
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My name is Alka and I am your life transition coach🍁
I guide clients navigate through the inner chaos of life’s turning points - towards their inner NorthStar, experiencing deeper understanding and wholeness because…
clarity isn’t found, it’s uncovered from within.🍀