Messy By Nature

28/10/2025

✨ With just a little tolerance…

They can sing,
They can dance,
They tell stories made for stage.

But tell them to shut up —
not with words,
not even a look,
just the energy of “oh, they’re too much.”

So they go quiet.
Now they’re weird.
“It was uncomfortable.”
“She barely breathed.”
“What was she thinking?”
“It’s not the vibe we need.”

Now she’s crying —
“What’s that about?”
“Making a scene.”
“We’re here to relax.”

I don’t want to be mean,
but I know what this is…

She is truth.
And she wants us to catch it.

Could we sing or dance like that?
Or does the voice inside say,
“Stop it. Shut up.”

How can she be that free?
Why can’t we let her be?

Oh…
that would be jealousy. 💫

Little reminder today to shine any way x
Lx

23/10/2025

✨ Healing with Reiki

Is such a personal journey —
a gentle pathway home to yourself.

In a world where it’s normal to paint on a smile and pretend everything’s okay, Reiki invites us to simply be.

Some of my visitors like to talk, but I’ve found the biggest shifts often happen in the silence — when the Reiki moves through my life force to theirs.
It’s almost as if I’m asked to quietly step aside.

In those moments, I see no colour, hear no sound, and lose track of time — and then comes the soft exhale from the receiver.

It’s taken me years to resist commenting on those moments — to trust that something has shifted permanently.
Trying to explain it gives that energy life again… so we just let it go.

Sometimes they’ll share what they felt — what moved, what released — and that’s my cue to ground, to hold space, until the body releases the last of its burden.

The biggest compliment to me is when they say they feel lighter, or excited about the future.

When they ask, “What happened?”
All I can ever say is —
what needed to happen… for the highest good.

That’s what Reiki does — quiet, one-on-one, deeply personal healing.
Even as your practitioner, I don’t need to know what.

Just that it worked. 💫
— Laura x

21/10/2025

✨ What was okay today might not be tomorrow.

We’re so good at noticing when our body hurts — a sore leg, a stiff back, or low fitness — because the symptoms are physical.

But we forget our energy has symptoms too.
And instead of thinking, I need rest or I’ve hit my limit, we shame ourselves for feeling off.

Just like unrealistic beauty standards, there are “energy standards” too — this idea that we can’t be angry, sad, or tired. But those feelings are normal. Often, they’re signs you’ve been stretched too thin, that your energy is asking for care, not criticism.

When emotions spill over, it’s not about the dishes or the moment that broke you — it’s everything that built up before it.

You’re not a bad person for big feelings. You’ve just hit your limit.

Like your physical body needs food and rest, your energy needs the same — space, gentleness, and time to rebalance.

That’s what Reiki helps with — clearing the buildup so your natural flow returns.

Your feelings are not failures.
They’re messages: slow down, breathe, come home to yourself. 💫

Love Laura x

12/10/2025

✨ What inspires you? ✨
It’s the language of your soul.
A smell, a texture, a sound —
something that brings you to stillness,
maybe even makes you place a hand on your heart.
It’s your soul whispering… yes.

Inspiration is the nutrient of our life force energy.
Feeling uninspired is often brushed off,
but it’s actually the moment your spirit
is asking to be reignited and seen again.

Physically, you might be fine — can’t complain.
But your soul?
Maybe it’s that forgotten plant,
just waiting for light. 🌱

This isn’t about rest.
It’s about remembering what you’re here to create.
Because when you can’t see what’s beautiful to you,
you might be ignoring what feels ugly to you —
the truth you’ve outgrown.

Your art — whatever form it takes —
is the remedy only you can channel.
It’s how your soul speaks back to Source.

So I’ll ask again…
What inspires you?

💛 L x

09/10/2025

Messy Flower Bar

Hi flower people ,

The bar is open today till 1 pm ,
Then I will be in sesssion till 4 pm .

Please let me know if you would like a bouquet or posie I can have one ready for you to collect today 4:30

Tomorrow we will be open 10 am till 5pm

Big loves and thank you so much for supporting us
Lx

07/10/2025

✨ New beginnings ✨

Everyone says they want them —
but forget they require change.
And sometimes, sacrifice.

The truth is, new beginnings don’t always show you what’s waiting.
You just have to trust that all is unfolding as it should.

When you sit in the uncomfortable,
the truth reveals itself. 🌙

I’m creating something unique —
first for me,
and then for those who are meant to find it.

My minerals will be tested.
Am I too much?
Am I not enough?
Irrelevant.

I am in my truth —
and that’s all I need to be.
For myself.
For my loved ones.
And for the beautiful souls who visit.

This is the magic —
you are safe here,
in your truth,
in your authenticity.

Every part accepted.
Messy by Nature — the blueprint. 🌿

06/10/2025

I didn’t make my bed.

Back to school — busy mornings, breakfasts, lunch boxes, looking for socks.
See the kids off, put dinner in the slow cooker, walk the dogs, do the dishes, get ready for work.

On my walk, I started thinking about the day ahead — how can I do my best, be my best?
Then I sat on the bed and realised… I haven’t eaten. And I never made my bed.

I’m not being a martyr here, but I think I’ve just realised something — I automatically serve everyone else, like a robot on autopilot.
Why didn’t I include myself in the duties of love for my family?
Is there something deep inside that still believes I’m not as important?

Tomorrow, I’m starting with my own needs and working in reverse.

I’m not sad about this realisation — I actually feel grateful for it. I know others are probably having the same kind of morning.

So if you don’t hear it from anyone else — your love and care matter.
You’re amazing.
Make your own bed too… and at the end of the day, thank yourself for it.

Lx

05/10/2025

Good morning lovelies
Happy October!

Just wanted to say a huge thanks to everyone who has been supporting our little flower mission because myself and Ivy are really enjoying this too.

Flowers are in store Friday and Saturdays !
You can pop in choose a bunch or myself or Ivy can guide you at the flower bar to make your own beautiful creation ,
Also if you have a party at the weekend you can drop off your vase and we can arrange something to suit your occasion and set the vibe right , we can even fix a little extra for bathroom flowers.

Flowers make such a nice touch an they don’t give your guests a hang over , and the one decoration you will want to keep to remind you of the good times x

Every Friday and Saturday ,
Pre order to avoid disappointment

Thanks again
Ivy and Laura

03/10/2025

A beautiful bunch of flowers on the kitchen bench is a reminder to be present—that beauty always exists, even in the most difficult times.

They’re not meant to last forever, but to bring happiness or comfort right now—an anchor, a little relief.

That’s why we buy them: for emotional wellbeing. They’re nature’s anti-depressant. 🌿✨ Which aligns so perfectly with the Reiki principle: Just for today.

We treat our blooms like the angels they are—from the way they’re transported to making sure not even a petal is bruised—because we want them to be at their very best to lift hearts and spread joy.

💛 Lx

02/10/2025

How stunning is this Lilly

Our current flower selection is breathtaking, and as I arrange them, I ponder their future homes.

Like crystals, each flower carries its own unique energy.

This Lilly speaks to me about unity, grounding me to secure my roots.

I’ve realized my purpose isn’t just to attract and please others; it’s to bloom authentically.

The flower reminded me that helpers like bees and birds take, but they also give back balance.

We need balance to thrive. Next time you share your growth, consider the exchange.

Every petal represents self-respect and care.

I’ve adopted a new ritual: “Thank you for blooming, your caretaker is an angel, and I appreciate you and the vibe you bring.” Needs nourishing to at time 🌿

Lx

30/09/2025

Disapproval

That feeling you are wrong—
it sticks, doesn’t it?
After years of swallowing blame,
everything somehow your fault.

Even when it isn’t,
you’re told your reaction was wrong.
That you’re too sensitive.
Too much.

But here’s the truth:
how you are is needed.
Your sparkle, your optimism,
the way you bring life into a room—
disapproval will try to squash that.

Don’t stay where your light is dimmed.
Don’t collapse yourself to fit.
You are here to love, to connect, to lift.
To cheerlead, to laugh loud,
to be gloriously, unapologetically you.

And if they can’t see it?
They are not your people.

Save your sparkle
for those who treasure it. ✨

Laura x

30/09/2025

This venue , just up the road has been such a wonderful part of our community, my daughter has performed many times an it’s so sad that because of a minority the doors are going to be forced to close . Please help and sign to keep live music alive in our community x send all the vibes for a better solution x

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