Messy By Nature

Messy By Nature Welcome to Messy by Nature, established in 2016 , Reiki sessions, classes , boutique gift wear.

Hey beautiful p*eps, We will be open tomorrow from 8am till 1pm Thank you so much for everyone who has supported the flo...
18/12/2025

Hey beautiful p*eps,

We will be open tomorrow from 8am till 1pm
Thank you so much for everyone who has supported the flowers we have had a blast and will continue to have weekend flowers next year.

I will be closing up till 14th Jan 2026.
But will be posting updates on what we may have coming up.

As a family we are dealing with a lot right now and I’m very much needed at home , hence the sudden ending of the year. just wanted to say the biggest thank you and merry Christmas to everyone who supports me in my work.
Love you lots x

Laura and family 💐💖💐

Summer-time soothing 🌞✨For my hot people (literally, not metaphorically… but also metaphorically 😉), I’m introducing 7am...
10/12/2025

Summer-time soothing 🌞✨

For my hot people (literally, not metaphorically… but also metaphorically 😉), I’m introducing 7am Reiki sessions.

The studio is extra calming in summer — a cooling pad on the bed, a gentle fan, a soft muslin blanket, and that delicious basement chill. It’s honestly bliss.

And as we slide into the festive season… it’s a lot.
Yes it’s fun and sparkly, but it also brings grief, memories, pressure, and that feeling of being slightly inside-out. It’s a checkpoint of what’s been and what’s changed — and it can make regulation harder than usual.

This is the season of giving, but please don’t forget you.
You deserve softness too.

If a 7am spot feels like exactly what your nervous system needs, message me — I’d love to see you.

Big love, always,
Laura 💛

One sure way to gaslight your own intuition?Buying a gift for someone you don’t even like.You can feel the animosity.You...
09/12/2025

One sure way to gaslight your own intuition?
Buying a gift for someone you don’t even like.

You can feel the animosity.
Your body literally tenses just thinking about them.
And yet… here you are, forcing yourself to choose a present because:

You “have to”?
It’s “the right thing to do”?
…Why, exactly?

Your life force knows better. Your higher self shuts down at the sheer ridiculousness of it.

Gift-giving should feel good, nourishing, generous from the soul.
If it doesn’t—don’t do it.

This is your seasonal energetic hygiene reminder:
Listen to your soul.
Protect your peace.
And don’t spend money on mean people ✌🏼

Lx

Not about the money… the flowers are my therapy. You already know my relationship with my meds is… complicated.I don’t w...
06/12/2025

Not about the money… the flowers are my therapy.

You already know my relationship with my meds is… complicated.
I don’t want to need pills to function. But when I stop taking them, life starts slipping through the cracks—one tiny disaster at a time.

One of my biggest struggles is impulsivity.
Like suddenly deciding to add flowers to my business. They haven’t exactly been a money-maker, and I was beating myself up about that:

“It’s ADHD.”
“No one wants the flowers.”
“This won’t work.”

But now that my brain is calmer and less critical, I actually see it clearly.

I love the flowers.

They make our Reiki space beautiful. They make me feel something. My very first job was with flowers. The first time anyone ever told me I was good at something — it was flowers.

So even if they never sell, they give me more than money ever could.

Friday–Saturday flowers are staying.
Not for profit — for the vibes. ✨🌸

Massive overshare incoming! I tried to come off my meds.Three weeks ago, I genuinely believed I was healed.Nothing had g...
05/12/2025

Massive overshare incoming!

I tried to come off my meds.

Three weeks ago, I genuinely believed I was healed.
Nothing had gone wrong.
Everyone was alive.
I thought, maybe this is it — maybe I’ve outgrown ADHD.

Then came the flower market day.
Up at 5 a.m., overstimulated before sunrise.
And I felt it —
today is a day I should take my meds.

By the end of that day I was in urgent care with a bladder infection I’d been ignoring because… ADHD.
I forget to p*e.
I forget my body entirely until it screams.

That same day, medicated again, I looked around at my house and my bank account like a toddler had run my life for the last few weeks.
The shame hit.
The self-pity I absolutely hate.

Because yes — nothing catastrophic happened.
But I was drifting close to the edge through impulsiveness, chaos, and sheer lack of self-care.

I caught myself using the same excuses again:
lateness, forgetfulness, overwhelm —
blaming anything or anyone except me and my unmedicated brain.

The truth is…
I don’t want ADHD.
And I don’t really want to medicate my brain either.

But ADHD isn’t “sometimes.”
It’s not quirky or cute.
It’s daily vigilance.
It’s living with the constant fear that a massive f**k-up is lurking because history tells you there always is.

So I’m back on my meds.
I’m resetting.
And I’m choosing kindness as we move into these overstimulating months.

If you think you might have ADHD —
please ask for help.
You deserve support.
You deserve structure.
You deserve to feel like you fit into the world just as much as anyone else.

December so close ,  always makes me reflect—what’s changed, what I’ve released, who I’ve become.For the first time, I f...
25/11/2025

December so close , always makes me reflect—what’s changed, what I’ve released, who I’ve become.

For the first time, I feel at peace.
Not because life is perfect,
but because I’m no longer forcing connections
or hiding parts of myself to be accepted.

Sadness still visits, but it doesn’t control me.
Time heals… and reveals.
It shows the places where I gave too much,
and where others gave too little.

But peace is knowing my worth,
comforting my own heart,
and showing my children what healing really looks like.

I’m learning to let go with grace. 👑

Weekend vibes in full bloom here T Messy Hq tunes and blooms x
20/11/2025

Weekend vibes in full bloom here T Messy Hq tunes and blooms x

My lovesPlease come join me and n my good mates from Broga and dance off the year , Absolutely everyone welcome let’s pa...
17/11/2025

My loves

Please come join me and n my good mates from Broga and dance off the year ,
Absolutely everyone welcome let’s pack out this hall and get a little messy on the dance floor
I’m so ready for this

Yeaaaaah 🙌 lx

Broga

Tapping it out…Bringing EFT into my daily practice is opening up a deeper understanding of myself, my AUDHD, and—if I’m ...
16/11/2025

Tapping it out…

Bringing EFT into my daily practice is opening up a deeper understanding of myself, my AUDHD, and—if I’m honest—my relationships with others.

I’m realising I keep people around far too long… even people who don’t actually like me.

With autism, I don’t pick up on social cues when someone is annoyed or frustrated with me. I can only apologise if someone tells me what I did. What’s fascinating is that by tapping on rejection and why it feels unbearable, I’ve uncovered something huge:

Some of my friendships were never mutual.
Not because anyone was cruel… but because I simply didn’t leave.

Ouch. That one stings.

But it’s also a truth I’m ready to see.
It’s sad, and maybe a bit embarrassing, to realise I thought those connections were deeper than they really were. They weren’t friendships built on love — just friendships built on my loyalty.

And that’s okay.
It just means I’m finally choosing me.

L x

“I’m not sure who needs to hear this, but you’re alright.Place your hand on your heart and breathe.You don’t need anyone...
13/11/2025

“I’m not sure who needs to hear this, but you’re alright.
Place your hand on your heart and breathe.

You don’t need anyone’s approval or acceptance for your heart to beat.
That’s you keeping your blood flowing, even through what you’re facing right now.

Even as you sleep, it’s you keeping the rhythm going — so you wake to a new day, a new chance.

It is your birthright to be alive, to feel, to exist fully in this moment.
And you are healing. I know this, because I can feel your heart beating too.

L x

✨Emotional Freedom✨I’m on a quest to free my emotions—safely.Reiki is my home, my soft landing place.And with EFT, I’m u...
03/11/2025

✨Emotional Freedom✨

I’m on a quest to free my emotions—safely.
Reiki is my home, my soft landing place.
And with EFT, I’m unlocking corners of my soul my mind once hid to protect me.

The best part?
I don’t even need to remember every story—just feel, release, and let it all find its place within who I am today.
A strong woman. 🌙

This weekend, a theme kept circling back:
“Too much.”
Too loud.
Too emotional.
Too ambitious.

That quiet conditioning—don’t take too much, speak too much, eat too much.
I used to eat before a party so I wouldn’t look greedy… but why?
That’s an energetic block—the fear of being “too much.”

Then I remembered Alice…
✨ “Sometimes I’ve believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast.” ✨
and I thought — maybe being too much was never the problem.
Maybe it’s my magic.

There’s enough for everyone when we stop guarding our own light.
That’s where abundance begins — in allowing yourself to receive.

Go fill your plate, my love.
Your spirit deserves it,
and your team in spirit is cheering you on. 🤍

Just returned from Christchurch after a transformative 3-day intensive course on EFT, the Emotional Freedom Technique. A...
02/11/2025

Just returned from Christchurch after a transformative 3-day intensive course on EFT, the Emotional Freedom Technique. And I’m truly awestruck. I’ve broken free from the shackles of some deeply ingrained emotional blockages that had been holding me back. One such liberating experience was revisiting the painful memory of losing my childhood dog at the tender age of 11, never to be found again. The relentless bullying I endured from kids in our estate, who would cruelly taunt me by calling out my dog’s name, had left an indelible mark. Through EFT, I’ve come to realize the profound impact this experience had on me, and how I’d inadvertently built walls to suppress the overwhelming emotions of loss. I’ve finally mustered the courage to utter my beloved dog’s name without hesitation, and in doing so, have freed my inner child from the burdens of the past. As I continue on this journey of self-discovery, I’m eager to integrate EFT into my practice, empowering others to unlock their own emotional freedom.

Meeting .eft has been such an honour, she has the most incredible way of teaching made me feel so seen and confident, and my fellow students I will see you all again soon x

Feeling invincible
Lx

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