Ify’s Corner

20/05/2026

Train your mind to see the positive side of events as they unfold.
Focus your mindset on what you can do better and start actioning on it.
Don’t allow negativity to becloud your sense of judgement and focus
You can stay sane by staying positive.
Remember keep the laughter on your face always for it is your greatest strength and charm to attract more positive people and good things into your life
This is not the time to keep negative thoughts.
Take a breath 🧘‍♀️ 🧘‍♂️ 🧘

19/05/2026

Dear Adults in relationships

Malice keeping is also another form of domestic violence.
The best bet is to have conversations around each party’s frustrations and find solution to them.

Normalise talking therapy as a way of resolving your conflicts. Don’t keep quiet, just talk about it.

No healthy relationship can endure emotional distance and torture.
If you are done take a walk instead of choosing malice as option.

You may not like the end of the drama.
So think twice before you act stupid
Protect what you have, make best use of it before it slips away.

Reality sets in as soon as you can imagine

Pics : From Pinterest Images

12/05/2026

Rest in peace Alex. Life is too short so live each day as it comes.

05/05/2026

Take any job to pay your bills until you find your dream job.
Pride does not pay bills
Get sense

02/05/2026

01/05/2026

If your wife/partner is a bed side/ward nurse please help them at home because they get home tired with painful feet from 8-12 hours of walking around in the the ward.
They also carry a lot of weight from helping others unload their physical and emotional health issues and pain through personalised care that is filled with empathy.

If they ask for help, don’t tag them “a nagging or problematic wife/partner”
Be proactive, support and help them ease their already stressful day by helping and acknowledging them . They are not asking for too much.

Life is not supposed to be hard
Stop listening to that cheap ego of yours and negative advice because it will add to the pressure that is already building up silently.

Some people are just holding themselves with a thread as they are at breaking point.

Help and stop 🛑 being judgmental and overly sensitive and reactive.
Make life easy for one another

Ref:
Picture from Pinterest Nurse Quotes

27/04/2026

If your parents are still alive cherish them whilst you still have them alive.

My dad died in my third year in nursing school and he was buried few months to my final school exams.
You don’t want to know what I felt then.
I nearly failed school exams.

It hurts differently, I couldn’t afford to go to Nigeria due to school work pressure, every day with numerous assignments count towards the final pass mark.
So I stayed focused whilst crying silently

No one to vent to. I cried daily on my way to school and to work.

Lastly I did not have the financial capacity to travel due to working less and self sponsoring.

His funeral happened in my absence.
My siblings stood in and my extended families and inlaws tried their best whilst I send money to give him a good burial.
I watched the funeral on video call.

One thing was sure, my father’s blessings manifested in my live and he has continued to come to me in dream telling me that “I will never run out of grace and that I will be happy in life”.
God has been my strong help and He is a faithful God.

Now on a lighter mode can you guys see that I inherited my good sense of humour and smiles from my father?

Na my papa born me aswear

God bless all parents and they will not die prematurely in Jesus name. Amen

Look after your parents whilst they are still alive.

24/01/2025

Focus on yourself keep building yourself steadily, that opportunity that you are looking for will come to pass when you are prepared.

Prepare yourself for the golden opportunity

14/01/2025

She is talking to me aswear. We must be disciplined

13/01/2025

Sisterhood must protect this man