Silent Gays

Silent Gays Resources and services for LGBT+ survivors of religious abuse, conversion therapy and related practices. Workshops, resources, seminars, mentoring/coaching.

The christian church, and religion in general, has built an extreme doctrine of abhorrence around the the whole issue, based on misconception, misinterpretation, mistranslation, tradition and ignorance, that has expressed itself in dogma, intolerance, bigotry and hatred. The level of pain and torment that gay people in the church have been subjected to is horrific. One of the highest suicide rate of all demographics is amongst LGBT Christians. The church, as it stands, offers nothing to these people apart from platitudes or outright hostility. All reparative ministries (“pray away the gay” "conversion therapy" groups etc) offer false hope for transformation. They have built complex legalistic, religious structures and processes on the premise that homosexuality is sin. The Silent Gays project aims to change the way we view our belief systems, specifically in the area of sexuality, through education, empathy, acceptance, love and support. The enormity of who we are, who we are created to be, goes way beyond the narrow boundaries of traditional religion, biblical literalist constraints and church bigotry. Everyone human deserves unconditional love - it's the only thing that brings real change. Silent Gays provides resources and services for survivors of all forms of religious abuse, including workshops, seminars, literature, support groups, mentoring and coaching, as well as customised education services for community organisations and businesses.

My "Love is Love" T-shirts and merch are 25% off at the moment :)Check them out.Buy lots.
21/09/2025

My "Love is Love" T-shirts and merch are 25% off at the moment :)

Check them out.
Buy lots.

Capturing the subtle and infinite variations of love, sexuality and gender

This is an interview I did last year for the Human Rights Commission - an amazing bunch of genuine, loving and compassio...
07/08/2025

This is an interview I did last year for the Human Rights Commission - an amazing bunch of genuine, loving and compassionate people.

In May 2024, I did an interview with the New Zealand Human Rights Commission about Conversion Practices.The legislation banning these practices had passed, c...

This answers so many questions!!Even though I've known for a while that charismatic/pentecostal manifestations and "gift...
08/07/2025

This answers so many questions!!

Even though I've known for a while that charismatic/pentecostal manifestations and "gifts" were psychological phenomena, seeing that it's actually linked to neurodiversity is a huge breakthrough!

I strongly recommend anyone who has been, or still is, into all the "special annointings", prophesy, word of knowledge, tongues etc, to watch this. Yes, it will be a challenge and trigger massive cognitive dissonance, and possibly disrupt the foundation of your faith, but the truth is better than the delusion.

Deconstruction can be traumatic, but worth every step of the journey

Anointing or Autism: How Religion Rewires IdentityWhat if what they called “anointing” was really just your nervous system begging for safety?In this powerfu...

This is really my heart - what I long for beyond all the daily battles, the endless opinions and divisions.❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
06/06/2025

This is really my heart - what I long for beyond all the daily battles, the endless opinions and divisions.
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

Homosexuality — What Krishnamurti Said Will Break Your Conditioning“Truth is not found in what society accepts or denies. It is found only in direct percepti...

Great story for trans kids 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️💖
18/03/2025

Great story for trans kids 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️💖

The Dinosaur Squad is the story behind the making of an intergeneration Pride Fairy Tale called The Roar. The story was written by a 12 year old and a 69 yea...

I subscribe to their newsletter.We really need to hear the good stuff going on! 💖🏳️‍🌈
09/03/2025

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We really need to hear the good stuff going on! 💖🏳️‍🌈

Low said he’ll ensure LGBTQ+ voices “are not just included, but impossible to ignore–and represented at the highest levels of office.”

Something bigger to consider with the Destiny Church issue :(
24/02/2025

Something bigger to consider with the Destiny Church issue :(

PSA: Much bigger, richer churches in New Zealand support Destiny's cause.

There is hope.
04/11/2024

There is hope.

Greg and Lynn McDonald kept quiet about their son’s sexuality for years as they struggled to reconcile their faith with their love for their child. Now, after a long and emotional journey, they are speaking out

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