24/04/2020
💛There is so much beauty on this earth. It really makes me sad that so often us woman get caught in the trap of comparing ourselves to others. To their success, beauty, relationships, status etc..
💛There is an abundant amounts of all of this for each of us.
💛Her win, does not equal your loss.
💛But we end up trapping ourselves in our own cage, when we get sucked into jealousy and comparison. To compare is a crime that will only drag us further away from what we really desire. No one can take the YOU away from you. It’s really all up to us as individuals how we move through our experience, choosing love over fear, flow instead of contraction.
💛When jealousy arises, it’s showing what also lives in us and we just haven’t fully stepped into that part of ourselves yet.
💛I have defiantly been to a few jealousy parties myself, and probably more to come.
BUT what I have learned is that being jealous of someone even if just energetically ends up dragging ourselves down in the end, and is a major big buzz kill for getting what you want.
💛We get what we want by helping others get what they want, it’s that simple.
💛Our reptilian brains will tell us we need to be the chosen one, the best, the prettiest, the skinniest, that we need to WIN in order to be loved, desired, accepted and ultimately to survive!
💛Yet we now live in a time that our survival doesn’t depend on those things anymore. We are ever evolving and to win we must love all parts of her, to love all parts of us, it’s all or nothing.
The deeper we appreciate the magic of another is as deep as we ourselves can magnify.
💛When you win, I win!
✨Lets turn a competitive culture into a thriving community!
🌻If you are interested in working with a coach to support you on the journey of fully loving and accepting your body I am here to help! I do 1:1 sessions helping woman connect more deeply with themselves and their bodies. Also next months ‘BODY ISSUE’ is all about comparison & the standards society has put on external beauty, go & subscribe!
✨Link in bio for both! Or DM me:)
Also thank you .stuff for another amazing graphic💛🙏
Much love,
B🌻