07/02/2026
Social media, and the world in general, is feeling heavy at the moment. My feed the last few days has been filled with horrible things performed by horrible people, that are yet to receive any punishment despite plenty of proof. And it makes me angry.
Seeing so many images over the last few years coming out of the Middle East, i never said anything, but honestly i felt helpless. And i felt like i didn’t have capacity to carry it, so rightly or wrongly i tuned it out. And i recognise that is an absolute privilege to be able to do that.
I don’t know whether my capacity is greater now, or whether it just feels closer to home with my husband and son being citizens of the USA, but this is hitting harder. Men in power abusing that power, and the victims, mostly women, having to deal with the fallout of someone else’s actions.
Im still not sure if there is anything I can do, especially on that global scale, but one thing i have been absolutely committed to for many years, is trying to make a difference in my world. And maybe that’s your mission too, whatever that world is to you. So Ive been thinking about some actions we could take.
1. If you need to, protect your peace. Take a break from social media, get out in nature, do things that bring you light and joy. We all need that to counteract the darkness.
2. Check in on yourself and your friends. This situation can be triggering for a lot of people. Go for a walk together, have a cup of tea in the sun. Vent or rage of talk about the good things you do have in your life. Cry, scream, laugh, share memes and stories to bond over. Whatever it is for you. You don’t have to do this alone.
3. Raise your boys to respect women. To show love and care. To understand consent and that no is a full sentence. And prioritise emotional regulation
Im sure there are plenty more. Feel free to share your suggestions. Or just enjoy this picture of a new zealand robin. I swear they like posing for the camera!