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The creation and holding of personal disciplines and habits is something that fascinates me.I’m always learning little t...
26/08/2025

The creation and holding of personal disciplines and habits is something that fascinates me.

I’m always learning little tips and tricks on how to align and hold.

I’ve learnt that some habits are for a short time, some a season, some for life.

And often the ‘stick ability’ depends on both alignment and perceived outcome. Have I built the picture big enough in my mind of who I’ll be when I’ve been consistently doing this thing, and do I even want to be Her.

Sometimes, it’s the simple things. Like old mate James Clears habit stacking. To start taking a new Lions Main supplement, I now simply take it when I take my other vitamins. Easy. Add it to an existing routine. Done.

My latest win came from a suggestion at a Te One Haumako retreat I worked at recently.

What’s something I need to Stop doing, in order to do what I want.

For years I’ve wanted to start my day with water or a smoothie. Something nourishing before piling in the Black Coffee. But just couldn’t get it to stick.

I realised I wanted to Stop being so hard on my stomach first thing in the morning. To look after it. And then have my yummy coffee.

So then I habit stacked. While waiting for my coffee to brew, I get my water in.

First, connect with an emotional / physical why, and then habit stack.

It’s now been over 2 months and I’ve only missed 3 days of water before coffee. (Journalling / accountability step has helped me notice this win)

So stoked with this.

Another happy little adjustment in the kaizen style approach I take to my life 🥰

Ticking up the feel goods on a random
Wednesday morning 🌟

I love the constant cycling nature of our Moon phases. And the longer that I observe and notice my own interaction with ...
24/08/2025

I love the constant cycling nature of our Moon phases.

And the longer that I observe and notice my own interaction with the moon, the more I love this layer of knowledge in my life.

It’s a layer that connects me directly to the natural world by noticing how I show up at different times, based on the world around me. I can then ‘plan’ around myself and the energy cycles. Mainly by being aware of what may be having an affect on me, so I can step back into my power of how I respond. Either by surrendering to the influence, or overriding it.

My favourite part of using the Whiro or New Moon as a milestone, is that it prompts me to go inward. To be still. To be introspective. To think about what to let go of, and what to bring in.

Some months I do this with Fire rituals, others in activities like clearing out space around me, others in thought or journalling practices.

But always taking the time to notice, observe, reset, cast forward and go again.

In a constant dance between the Past and the Future. Where I get to be super present in the Now moment.

It’s like Natures own framework for a Continuous Improvement Model.

Plan on the New Moon
Do on the Full Moon
Check how I’m go
Act and make adjustments as needed.

Geek meets Woo woo 😉

Soooo good.

We shift into Tirea today after yesterday’s Whiro.

Where a sliver of light will illuminate your dreams.

Subtle and strong, bringing light into the darkness.

What’s your favourite moon phase and why?

The Big Awhi Day Out 🥰I’m super excited to be teaming up with the amazing Cinnamon from Ms Greens to deliver this Wahine...
23/08/2025

The Big Awhi Day Out 🥰

I’m super excited to be teaming up with the amazing Cinnamon from Ms Greens to deliver this Wahine focused workshop on the Kapiti Coast.

There’s only 8 spaces available for this offering on Saturday 6th September.

Let me know if you’re keen to jump in or would like any more information, or please share among your networks if you know some people who’d love this ❤️‍🔥

Immune boosting goodness!!This simple little concoction has been my go to this Winter, while waiting for my Fire Cider b...
19/08/2025

Immune boosting goodness!!

This simple little concoction has been my go to this Winter, while waiting for my Fire Cider brew to be ready.

Ginger 🫚 , Garlic 🧄 , Turmeric , Lemon 🍋

All in a pot with water, simmer for about an hour.

Add honey to taste.

Enjoy!

It’s deliciously spicey and loaded with goodness. It feels like it’s Kung Fu Ninja-ing any germs and keeping my Throat and immune system healthy.

(And yes, I leave the peel on the lemons, just wash em, chop em, and stick it all in the pot.)

For our Rongoā whanau, please don’t add Golden Tainui to this brew. It seems like a good fit, but advice given to me is that the ginger ‘over-activates’ the Golden Tainui and can make it too strong. So I’ve been keeping the lines separate on this one, and not putting our Rongoā rakau in.

What’s your go-to immunity brew at the moment?

First foray into preparing Nettles as Rongoā.  There’s a bumper crop under the trees in the back paddock this year, so t...
15/08/2025

First foray into preparing Nettles as Rongoā.

There’s a bumper crop under the trees in the back paddock this year, so taking that to mean that their medicine is needed a lot this season.

The Mawe is starting to lengthen, and the Nettles are looking strong.

Time to prep the tinana for the shift out of Winter and into Spring 💚

If you listen to the audio in the little video you’ll here the Riroriro / Grey Warbler singing their lil heart out 🎶

An

‘The Queen of Failing Forward’ (and the art of Wayfinding) is the title for my intro speech at Toastmasters tonight.A re...
12/08/2025

‘The Queen of Failing Forward’ (and the art of Wayfinding) is the title for my intro speech at Toastmasters tonight.

A reflective look at how I’ve taken ‘failures’ in my life and shifted them into growth moments.

Like the time I failed a few papers in my study, so grabbed a couple more, cross credited them and came away with 4 Diplomas instead of 1.

Or that time I got divorced and promised myself not to drink through the process. I knew that I had to feel it to heal it. So I took up trail running instead. And after a few years of focusing on my wellbeing, I learnt skills and found strengths I didn’t know I had after doing a few Ultras and attempting NZ’s toughest 100km event. Epic!!

Wayfinding is the best way I can describe taking ‘now’ information adding it to the ‘plan’ and making a new ‘plan’ that accounts for adjustments needed based on the new information. If that’s a change of direction altogether or a side step. The ability to be fluid and letting go of the future you thought was going to happen, in favour of an even better one, now that’s some skills I want to keep on honing.

Can you think of some times where you were able to adjust the plan based on new intel and it worked out just fine (or maybe even better than you hoped)?

Often a ‘failure’ point is simply a wonderful way to show you’ve been brave and tried something. And it’s a great chance to learn and grow.

For there is no such things as Failure, simply opportunities for gathering Feedback.

Oh my gosh, it’s Rainbow Season in the Horowhenua 🌈 How wonderful 🥰I’ve seen so many in the last few days it’s just so g...
12/08/2025

Oh my gosh, it’s Rainbow Season in the Horowhenua 🌈

How wonderful 🥰

I’ve seen so many in the last few days it’s just so good.

Anyone else been spotting these beauties around the place?

It’s been a week.  Anyone else been feeling the wairua shifts?A lot of big energy around, feels like lots of shifting an...
08/08/2025

It’s been a week. Anyone else been feeling the wairua shifts?

A lot of big energy around, feels like lots of shifting and unfurling. Movement in multiple layers.

Had a couple days there where I was wairua level tired. Sheesh.

So grateful to have been able to shuffle my days to be able to move through it.

Not only getting more sleep, but hanging out with the lambs, tending our trees, making loads of tinana wairakau immunity brews, time with soulful people, time away from devices, and time to just realise that not all body expressions are physical health expressions. Spiritual health affects us as much as our other Taha. And different parts of us need different types of rest.

So grateful for our natural world and all of the wonderful dynamics it brings us.

Exciting times to come I feel

❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

How good is this as a reminder that our Body and Mind are completely connected and interwoven.They’re part of a whole wo...
04/08/2025

How good is this as a reminder that our Body and Mind are completely connected and interwoven.

They’re part of a whole wonderfully intricate system.

And our Body keeps score of all the things we think, feel, experience, imagine.

What ways do you honour your physical Body to help it release old stored emotions that are no longer needed, or to connect with helpful powerful emotions that can add value to your life?

I love Breathwork for this process. To be able to embody my thoughts. More recently have discovered the joyful dynamic nature of Ecstatic Dance. Both are ways to get out of my head and into my body to notice what I need to at that time.

A constant steady check in and adjustment process.

Group Breathwork sessions will be starting up in Levin soon. Loads planned for our Spring and Summer months e te whanau 🥰

03/08/2025

How cool is this 🥰 fresh shoots of Tātarāmoa coming away, new growth happening for the coming year

⛰ Turn to Nature ⛰If you’re getting overwhelmed, or can’t get out of your own head. Connect with Mama Nature and let you...
02/08/2025

⛰ Turn to Nature ⛰

If you’re getting overwhelmed, or can’t get out of your own head. Connect with Mama Nature and let yourself see the wondrous grandeur that is this planet we live on.

There’s nothing like the humbling lesson that Mama Nature gives me to say it’s ok little one, put things back into perspective, park that story you’re spinning and just stop and look. Breathe.

Now, what was the problem . . .

It’s faded now, hasn’t it

Mountains bring me the space to bring myself and my thinking back into scale.

The bigger the hill, the more I get a sense of how gigantic a cycle I am inside. The ancientness of the earth. And reminds me that I’m here for such a short time of that. To get onto living my life fully, to add value where I can and to not take myself too seriously.

📸 Dolomites, Northern Italia. This place took my breath away and I had to close my eyes for a time. It was beyond incredible. I’ll never forget the feel of whenua, so ancient and a scale like nothing I’ve ever seen before.

Boundaries and Rest; two things that took me awhile to learn, but am so glad I did.  It’s an evolving practice that I do...
30/07/2025

Boundaries and Rest; two things that took me awhile to learn, but am so glad I did. It’s an evolving practice that I don’t get right all the time, but I am getting much better at it.

We can’t pour from an empty cup, so taking the time to notice if we need to rest, what rest we need and making it part of our life routines so we can get proactive about it instead of waiting until our body sits us down.

And to not give all of your energy away, remember to keep some for yourself a. Nourish yourself, for yourself.

Practice being Self Full. It’s not selfish to prioritise Self Love. Instead, it helps make sure you’ve got plenty to give and can keep giving long into the future.

❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

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