
02/08/2025
🌻 The birth of Arthur - Shared by whanau with consent a first time mumma supported by the wonderful Lizz at Manaaki & student Midwife Sharna! 🌻
'My labour and birth started in the early hours of what should have been my last day of work (38
weeks). I had literally just had my appointment with Lizz about how to contact her if I went into
labour only 4 days prior!
As a first time mum with a very much loved IVF pregnancy I knew that I wanted to have a
natural waterbirth after looking at different options, however I wasn’t opposed to medication if itwas needed.
My labour started at 1:45am in the morning after waking up right before feeling the POP of my
waters breaking. Thankfully I got out of bed fast enough to avoid a wet mattress! After sending
an email off to Lizz I tried going back to sleep, however my contractions had other plans as they
started out at 10 minutes apart. By 7am my contractions were stronger and had increased to 5mins apart, at this point I got up, rang Lizz and updated her and then started to set our place up
with a calming atmosphere, relaxation music and a candle. The pain for me was fine then and
Lizz said to give her a ring back when my contractions were around 3 mins apart. At this point Iwas like ok, must still be a while off…. Yeah… think I got that wrong! 🤣
By 9am I was consistently contracting every 3 mins and Lizz was called to come for a check.
While waiting for her to arrive I jumped into the shower, using the water to help with focus and
relaxation during the contractions. Both Lizz and Sharna (student midwife) arrived around 10:30
and after an initial chat Lizz checked my dilation, which was 4cm, so off to the hospital we went.
Nobody warned me how annoying sitting still in a car would be while working through
contractions! PS any future mums use the back seat, the front sucks!
We had made it to the hospital by 11:30, according to my husband, I had lost track of time as my
contractions were thick and fast with very minimal time in between.
Lizz was exactly who I needed at this point, I could really feel a lot of pain through my hips and through pressure on the outside of my hips she was able to relieve this during contractions. Just before 12:30 Lizz checked me again and I was fully dilated, and involuntary pushing.Then it was all go! I moved to the bath pretty quick at this point and started pushing shortly after!
A few things really stuck out to me during this time: I loved the feeling of Arthur crowing and am so thankful Lizz asked if I wanted to feel it! The feeling of relief when his head came out was amazing, followed by the immediate shock of him shooting out and Lizz saying “pick up your baby from the water.” The images I have in my head of those moments, as well as picking him up out of the water for the first time are nothing short of magical for me, and such a surreal moment!
I was so proud of myself for having a natural water birth, but also so thankful that my body, the atmosphere we created and the support and guidance from Lizz, Sharna and my husband
allowed me to have the birth of my dreams.
My gorgeous Arthur had finally arrived at 1:07pm after 10 hours of labour and 30 mins of pushing.
Taking him home after a couple days in hospital was such a surreal and emotional moment.
I’m so incredibly grateful for Lizz, taking me on at 30 weeks after my initial midwife moved cities.
The care and guidance Lizz provided along with Sharna was one that I was sad to see go onour discharge from Midwife care. The start of my husband’s and my journey as parents was onethat I will never forget thanks to Lizz!'
💚 We love hearing your birth stories, if you've had a birthing experience with Manaaki Midwives and happy to share your journey and story please get in touch, Sharing the wide range of differing birthing experiences for expecting whanau is truly the best! 💚