04/11/2025
Why do you feel so flat after achieving a big goal?
Psychologists call it the 'arrival fallacy' -- the illusion that once you ‘arrive’ somewhere — smash that goal — you’ll feel happier and that feeling will stay with you.
But the high doesn't last. All too quickly life returns to normal and you realise you're still you, on a slightly different landscape.
This week's Stuff column takes a look, along with the first steps to sparking yourself up again.
In this week's column, clinical psychologist Karen Nimmo explains that flat feeling following a major achievement.