31/07/2025
Unfortunately happens all to often.
Learning to discern helps to receive wisdom when being deceived. 🤍
He faked his whole personality.
Stop blaming her for choosing wrong.
She didn't choose poorly, she was deceived.
She didn't fall for a bad guy, she fell for a liar.
She didn't ignore red flags, he hid them well.
She didn't have bad judgment, he had good acting skills.
Blame him for lying about who he was.
He pretended to be everything she wanted.
He mirrored her values to win her trust.
He love-bombed her to create attachment.
He showed her a version that didn't exist.
He played a character to get what he wanted.
He studied her weaknesses and exploited them.
He knew exactly what to say and do.
She fell for the mask, not the man.
She loved the persona he created.
She invested in the illusion he crafted.
She believed the story he told her.
When the mask finally came off, she was already trauma-bonded.
When his true self emerged, she was already in love with a ghost.
When the act ended, she was left confused and broken.
You can't blame someone for believing a well-crafted lie.
You can't fault someone for trusting a master manipulator.
She wasn't naive, she was human.
He wasn't confused about who he was, he was calculated about who he pretended to be.
