13/08/2025
It’s a truth that’s both heartbreaking and often overlooked children don’t stop loving their parents when they’re constantly criticized; instead, they slowly stop loving themselves.
While many believe harsh words might only create distance between a child and their parent, the reality is far more damaging. Criticism doesn’t just echo in the moment it becomes the child’s inner voice, a soundtrack of self-doubt they carry into adulthood.
Over time, those repeated negative messages shape how a child sees themselves. They begin to believe the flaws pointed out by a parent define their worth, even when they grow older.
The bond with the parent may remain, but the connection to their own self-esteem is fractured. This is the hidden wound criticism leaves a wound that can last a lifetime if not healed.
As parents, mentors, or caregivers, the words we speak hold immense power. Encouragement fosters resilience, while constant fault-finding chips away at confidence. Choosing compassion over criticism doesn’t just strengthen relationships it safeguards a child’s ability to love and value themselves.
Credits: Inspired by child psychology principles and emotional development research.
