Nanay Kikay PH

10/08/2025

Your love for your children, your awareness of your struggles, and your willingness to fight through the chaos every day are already proof of your strength. Healing doesn’t happen overnight, but every small step counts.

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10/08/2025

Being a mom is already a full-time emotional rollercoaster. Add Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) to the mix, and it can feel like you’re constantly fighting to stay afloat—mentally, emotionally, and even spiritually. For many moms living with BPD, the daily challenges are intensified by deep feelings of guilt, overwhelming emotional triggers, and a fear of not being "enough" for their children

As Filipino moms, we’re often raised with the mindset of self-sacrifice, putting family first, and always being the strong one. But what happens when your mind feels like it’s working against you? When you're silently battling emotional dysregulation while trying to raise kids with love and stability? This is the reality of many moms living with BPD.

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a mental health condition marked by intense emotional instability, impulsivity, fear of abandonment, and difficulties in maintaining relationships. People with BPD often experience mood swings, chronic feelings of emptiness, and a distorted self-image.

For moms, this often means:

Feeling emotionally overwhelmed by parenting demands
Intense guilt after losing patience or snapping at their children
Difficulty regulating emotions during everyday stressors
Fear that they’re damaging their kids or being “bad moms”
Struggling to balance self-care with motherhood

Let’s take a deeper look at how this manifests in real life—and how we can start breaking the stigma around it, especially in the Philippine context.



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08/08/2025

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08/08/2025

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24/07/2025

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20/07/2025

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19/07/2025

"You Took Her to Coldplay"

You said you hated concerts.
That the crowds were too loud,
the lights too much,
and the songs—all just noise.
So I stayed home.
I packed your lunch.
I folded your shirts with prayers stitched into every sleeve.
I raised our babies
with lullabies you never sang.

But there you were—
in a sea of lights,
holding another hand
as Yellow played like a vow
you never made to me.

She got the version of you
who sang with tears in his eyes.
I got the version
who left the dishes dirty
and love half-spoken.

You took her to Coldplay.
The band I used to hum to
while rocking our child to sleep.

You gave her the night
I dreamed of for us.

And while the crowd swayed
to Fix You,
I fixed this family.

Alone.

But not anymore.

To every mom reading this:
If he made her the melody and left you the silence—
remember, your worth was never found in his lyrics.
You are the whole song.



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18/07/2025

that I have to juggle. If you are a work from home mom or is planning to be one, the daily chores will overwhelm you. You have to take care of your children, your household, your career and more. This is enough to leave any woman feeling frazzled. However, it’s possible to juggle it all effortlessly if you take certain strategies into account. Consider these three ways you can balance it all and take care of yourself.

READ this post fom our blog https://www.nanaykikay.com/2024/09/how-to-be-productive-working-from-home.html

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18/07/2025

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18/07/2025

When you’re a wife, a mom to a busy toddler, the household cook, and you're living under the same roof as your in-laws—it’s a lot.

It’s a beautiful kind of hard. Some days feel like blessings wrapped in chaos. Other days feel like you’re tiptoeing between keeping the peace and keeping yourself from falling apart.

I’m sharing this not just as a blogger or mom, but as a woman living this reality daily. If you're navigating married life while raising little ones in a shared home, know this: you are not alone. It is possible to protect your peace, honor your role, and care for your family and yourself at the same time—with grace and wisdom.

In this post, I want to share some gentle routines, faith-based encouragement, and practical tips that have helped me breathe easier, set boundaries lovingly, and show up as the wife and mom God is calling me to be—even in a full household

Read the full blog post here >>

https://www.nanaykikay.com/2025/07/things-you-can-do-as-wife-living-with-inlaws.html

16/07/2025

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16/07/2025

🚨 1600 Men Tricked for "Love"? The viral story of Hongty, a man in China who posed as a woman and emotionally lured over 1,600 men for gifts, is a shocking reminder of how powerful—and dangerous—emotional manipulation can be in the digital age.

But beyond the headlines, this story reveals something deeper:
💔 Loneliness is real.
🔒 Boundaries are essential.
🧠 And emotional vulnerability doesn't depend on gender.

Let this be a wake-up call—not to shame—but to understand:
✅ Why people fall for fake love
✅ How to protect your heart online
✅ And what both men and women can learn about setting healthy emotional boundaries

❤️ This isn’t just about deception—it’s about connection, self-worth, and wisdom in a world where love can be faked behind a screen.

🔗 https://www.nanaykikay.com/2025/07/chinas-hongty-incident-red-uncle-red.html
👇 Let’s talk: What’s one boundary you’ve had to set in a relationship?